You lost all respect from me after using the word "cuckhold", a sex act not an objective description of being faithful and loving. Similar to guys using the word 'whipped'.
I don't know who hurt you but your opinion on this matter is all wrong.
1.) Adultery or cheating is hurtful and effects everyone no matter the culture or sexual orientation.
2.) Men and women both commit adultery at varying rates. The latest studies suggest men do it at higher rates (67%).
3.) Adultery involes numerous factors and is rarely just a one-night stand but a pattern of behavior in response to a series of negative experiences within the marriage or relationship with their current significant other.
4.) The odds of adultery are also greatly influenced by one's personality and attitudes towards sex.
Seriously open your eyes to the crazy complexities of the world around you instead of this dark pessimism.
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Well wives can come home pregnant of course. How many men want to spend all that time and money raising another mans child? And having the insult of her having had another mans child in front of him day after day for at least 20 years? There are societal consequences of this.
I know a guy who thinks two of his three children are his with a bitzer in between. In fact only one of them is his and the three children are so startlingly different in looks it is hard to see how he can think this. He teaches in church schools and I guess he sucked it up to avoid scandle but not many men would.
I was surprised to learn recently a paternity DNA test is possible while the child is in the womb. Seems there is enough of the foetus's DNA in the mothers blood for this to be possible. It might be a slow burner but I could see men demanding this peace of mind test more and more over time.
I can understand that a husband does not want his wife to get pregnant by another man. However, a wife is not going to want her husband paying child support for another woman's baby. If fact that may be worse because the man may never know that he is not the father but a wife is certainly going to know if her husband is paying child support to another woman. Therefore, faithfulness may be more important to the wife.
It should be equal for both genders.
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If we’re talking about the well-being of everybody involved and the stability of society, both matter equally.
Sure, if a woman cheats and tricks a man into raising a child that isn’t his, this is obviously terrible. It’s probably the worst thing a woman can do to a man, regardless of how much some of them might try to convince men that paternity shouldn’t matter. It does to us, and it would to them if it could happen to them. I’ve also known people who’ve found out, and it’s devastating for both the supposed father and the kid.
At the same time if a man cheats and then impregnates the other woman, what about her and that poor kid raised without a father? That’s just as bad in my opinion. Kids need Dads around, not just paying child support but to give them love and guidanceIt is bad to be unfaithful for either, but it is worse when the woman betrays the man because of the divorce and child support laws that harm men way more for way longer than it does women.
NO.
I shouldn’t feel forced to keep my extremely high sex-drive just for HIM.
When he ain’t doing the same for me.
It an equal deal. OR ITS NOTYour second paragraph disproves the less risk for women claim in your first.
Also you forgot to mention stds and single perenthood being hard and causing a person to be a more likely to remain single.I don’t like this. It’s not about resources. It’s about emotional pain when someone cheats on you. And that’s the same regardless of gender.
It HAS to go both ways... You can't have one person cheating
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It’s very important for me to have a faithful loyal wife. Its also very important for me to be Faithful back to her. And have a great wonderful relationship
Faith wife is important to a marriage but a husband who care love ❤️ and respect is also important faith husband
Nope. If you ain't loyal, don't be in a relationship. At all.
Faithfulness is important for both but the society has more aspects from women because the society is dominated by males
Faithfulness in both parties are required, no exceptions.
I guess it's equally important for both to be faithful
No, because either way the marriage will fail.
They are both important for both Husband and Wives
I dont think there is any difference.
How would equality not be best?
I would think its equal for both parties
Both equally.
No, it’s not.
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