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Would you leave your wife if she got fat? (Page 2)
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No, that would be shallow AF. I'd be in it for the long haul.
I've actually put on a lot of weight since getting married and my husband is starting to follow my footsteps, which I feel a bit bad about.
Happens to a lot of couples. I bet if y'all wanted to you could lose weight together
No. The fatter she is, the less likely it is for other men to want her, therefore the lesser chance she'd cheat on me. So her getting fat is a good thing.
No, and in fact this is one good reason to marry a chubby girl to start with. Its much more realistic to expect a chubby girl to be chubby than marry a thin girl and expect her to stay the same indefinitely.
Fact" FAT people fart way more than fit people, and i hate it when someone farts a lot in the same house i live in, therefore, i would be turned off from her and her farts and burps!
Is that really a fact? Think about all those healthy fit people eating broccoli, and other gassy veggies tho 🤔 that's gotta cause some gas no?
When I was fat I barely farted. When I lost all the weight and was drinking extra water I was farting more.
If you can’t live with someone who farts and shits like YOU DO. You should be all alone.
@EmyyWolf Since we are little boys, we are told that girls are made out of sugar, spice, and everything nice (even though not so true, they are humans just like boys are) but we (men) have always related all things of beauty to women in most cases, therefore, it is very hard for a man to live with someone that farts like you (the man) do. We rtaher not know about it but having the fat woman farts constantly is a big reminder
WTF?
What the he’ll are you talking about.
How old are you, 16?
You never had a sister?
A mother?
You need serious psychiatric help.
Who tf tells you girls are made out of sugar? You never seen a female dog or cat take a sh! t?
Do you not know what a female is?
@EmyyWolf LOL@ you telling me i need help and look how you have exploded! Get some help, QUICK
I wouldn't ever leave my wife instead I would encourage her to work out with me or my niece who is seriously into MMA fighting because it's a great workout my niece is 23 and 1 Lol she's really good and dedicated to her sport but even though she's taken time off after being a new mom to second son she goes to gym twice a week every week after three months off.
After having 3 kids my wife did get heavier over the years and we're still together. I never thought about leaving her
People get fat. Just a fact of life. It’s the attitude and the relationship beyond the body which counts more… besides, a little chubby ness can be cute and sexy too!
I'm more curious to hear from apparently all the lesbians who did the survey than I am the husbands.
Sorry to be so blunt, but yeah, I leave. Not because she's not attractive anymore. But because she seems to be... like my mom. Got nothing for the future. Can't stay with someone like that.
Many guys are very tolerant in a long term relationship and love her for what she represents in their lives.
Up to a point I guess. I mean, there's a point where it becomes an extreme health issue.
As long as it wasn't morbid obesity, not a big problem. Especially if it was after pumping out a pup or two.
My wife and I have kids. I think it is irresponsible and selfish to be unhealthy while you have kids. If you have kids you owe it to them to do your best everyday and you can't do that if you're unhealthy.
Being fat doesn't necessarily equal unhealthy. And honestly seems like parents that are health nuts or obsessed with being fit are being a worse example to their kids then a parent that is fat
You don't have to be a health nut to be healthy. Being fat is factual less healthy than being fit.
Unless someone is naturally blessed with good genes then yes most people have to do unhealthy things to be fit. Dieting/working out. Our bodies aren't made to be skinny especially for women that are having children
"Being fat doesn't necessarily equal unhealthy."
Yes it is. Now you're trying to argue against the obvious. Being fat means you're generally unhealthier than someone who is in shape. It is also a much easier to become really unhealthy as you're already halfway there is not 90%
@TruthBringer nah its actually really unhealthy for moms to be skinny especially when trying to get pregnant/breastfeed. I had to gain 10 pounds last time just so I could be healthy enough to get pregnant. Working out and dieting stresses the body out which is good for moms and everyone else too. The stress isn't worth being skinny
Isn't good*
@Apple1996 Nobody said anything about being really skinny. That's a strawman argument you've given. In shape women meaning not too skinny and not fat aren't unhealthy or is unhealthy for them to have kids. There are exercises for pregnant women, let alone moms who already gave birth and are ready to work out again.
By all means, do keep coming with those futile excuses to justify staying overweight.
@TruthBringer I wasn't really skinny just normal skinny. And I'm not overweight atm but will have to gain weight again if I want another baby
@Apple1996
www.bmj.com/.../
www.nhs.uk/.../
"One study showed that pregnant women who were exercising 1 to 2 times per week, but not 3 times or more per week, were less likely to report depression,26 while another study reported decreased depression in pregnant women who exercised 4 times or more per week but not less than 4 times per week."
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/.../
"Does exercise affect your breast milk supply? Despite rumors and myths to the contrary, exercise does not impact your milk production. You're free to break a sweat to your heart's content without fear that exercise will impact your breast milk supply."
www.whattoexpect.com/.../
@TruthBringer these things are really dependent on the mother. With my 1st I completely lost my supply at 6months from not eating enough and working out to much (not that I wanted to do that I just didn't have much money to eat and had no car so was walking everywhere)
@Apple1996 Then speak for yourself. I've provided you with several sources that contradict your general claims. And I can send you a lot more that continue to prove my point. Exceptions never overrule the rule. If for you not working out means you can take care of your child better, be my guest. But don't come here trying to preach that exercise is bad for pregnancy or that maintaining weight is somewhat near impossble. If there is 1 thing winners never do is make excuses.
@TruthBringer anyone that considers themselves a winner is most likely a loser at real life. And I've breastfed 3 babies and have taken multiple classes on it and even help by donating milk to women and educating them on how to boost their supply so I def know a little bit about breastfeeding/supply issues.
@Apple1996 People who call themselves winners are often losers indeed. Hence why I didn't claim to be a winner. I merely pointed out those with a winner mentality to not make excuses. And good to know that you know so much about breast feeding that you're making claims that are contradicting to studies out there. There are women out there who are quite skinny and don't have large breasts yet have given more milk than their larger female and larger beast counterparts. I know this because they are in my family. So in the end it is all relevant. But the general rule remains that excercise being beneficial
Like I said, continue to make excuses since that clearly helps you sleep at night.
@TruthBringer breast sizes doesn't matter. It's actually more important to have fatty legs and ass cause it's linked to having milk with more dha in it. And I don't make excuses for anything I'm just doing what's healthy
@Apple1996 Glad you're doing what's healthy. I'm merely contradicting your invalid claims with sources. You do you ;)
@TruthBringer your sources are bs articles online. Every other article has different facts they aren't trustworthy. Not just breastfeeding but for anything health wise. Even doctors have different advice from one another so if you want true facts you'd have to talk to people who actually are breastfeeding or following what you believe.
@Apple1996 Calling something "bullshit" without factual counter arguments isn't going to help you make a strong stance. You haven't even read the sources, let alone opened them all as one of them is actually a study I've sent published by the National Library of Medicine. But according to you, that's "bullshit" as well. So anything that doesn't echo your biased wishful thinking is bullshit now. Got it.
I believe in science. Not your bro science. Try again. You failed.
@Apple1996 The funny thing is that I've spoken to plenty of pregnant women. Whether they be family members, old colleagues, old classmates or just acquantainces. And out of all of them who happened to excercise said it was the best decision they've made and helped them in giving birth. So yeah, I actually DID talk to pregnant women or even those who breastfed. And none echo what you've said. Why do you think I hold on to my belief? Seeing studies echo the same thing only made me firmly believe in it more. So it is your word against all these women + science. I wonder who will win.
Stick to your wishful thinking and weak excuses to remain lazy.
@TruthBringer just cuz you looked up and know people that breastfeed doesn't mean you actually know about it. That's like a virgin linking me articles about sex and telling me they have family/friends that tell them about it.
So unless you have experience you don't really know anything.
And I don't know why you think I don't work out I've never said that i dont. All I've said is that it can kill a milk supply and makes it hard to get pregnant. You don't actually know me in real life and the things I do. My workouts I do are for mental health and not for fitness. People that do it for fitness do it for the wrong reasons that tend to be unhealthy.
@Apple1996 I talked to pregnant/post-pregnant women as well as given you sources including a scientific study. So if a virgin gives you scientific sources that correspond to their statement (s) about sex, then good luck proven them wrong even though they never had sex themselves. I don't need to be a smoker to know that smoking is bad. A non-pilot can still link me articles when it comes to functions of a plane and me saying they don't know what they are talking about simply because they never touched a button in a plane wouldn't debunk what they said.
All this and you're still ranting to me with many words without actually saying anything. All this damage control to justify a lazy lifestyle. At this point, you're replying for the sake or replying. Like I said, stick to your wishful thinking.
My point still stands.
@TruthBringer nah I actually feel bad for replying on @jahaims post like this. Obviously I was just trying to have a convo with him and not have anyone else butt in. You had your own comment to do that
@Apple1996 I'm free to reply on public posts. That's how G@G works. Don't like it, then find another website.
I didn't say anything about being skinny. You don't have to be sub 6% body fat to be healthy. If the person isn't obese and can keep up with their kids and still have energy for other things then that is reasonably healthy.
@Apple1996 by the way I didn't read any of the convos on this other than the ones between you and I. Just for context.
Exactly why I'm scared to gain weight. I rather lose weight and be in a perfect shape even though all I am is insecure vaboht everything 😞
Well I might be not the best guy in the world but I'm sure I'm not that bad to leave her just because she got fat
If you love someone you want to be there in sickness and in health.
In fat or not!😂
No never, that's why it's for better or worse... whoever does is shallow
I would definitely stay and tactfully encourage her to get down to a healthy weight. I would still be attracted to her and desire her the same.
I'm happy with her decisions and life choices as long as it doesn't become a health issue
Only if she chooses not to put in the effort to get in decent shape. You don't have to look like a superstar athlete or anything like that, just decent. She may like it, she may not, but that is my honest opinion.
Depends on how fat she got. If we're talking chubby or post pregnancy fat; I would definitely stay. If we're talking TLC shows up and ask her to be on the next episode of my 600 lbs Life, I would go.
Getting fat isn't really the issue. Married women get fat because they get lazy. They also stop giving up the pussy. It's no wonder that men get tired of them.
If they aren't giving up their pussy then the problem is with the husband not her. Men tend to do a lot of things to turn off their wives
Married men get fat with age too. should all women leave their husbands after they get fat too?
Maybe, just maybe, married women get fat from pregnancy and having to take care of kids? Hard to get back into shape with the hormonal changes with pregnancy especially with multiple kids.
@shaysh87 Most do. Or just because they get bored being wives.
Nope I just work out with her plus those thick ones make me weak they're so sexy!!!😍😍😍
Now you know I have to ask are you slim thick or medium size
Lol... I am slim by the way.
I know and sooooo sexy! 😋
Thanks!
You're so welcome
Depends how much she lets herself go, they always gain weight as they get older but if it becomes unhealthy then I’m going to start saying something because I don’t let myself go just because I get married
She'll never get too fat. We'll start exercising together and learn to cook better meals and restrict our calories. If she needs to diet, I'll go on one with her.
I will stay connected with her to the day I die. Will she stay with me if I got fat that's the question.
I'm an athlete, so fitness, health, and wellness are all very important to me. I'm also trying to enjoy a hot sex life with my wife so if she can't honor her own body and my basic animal needs than ye I'd dip.
Wow what a question. Well I'm active , love the outdoors and all. So it would be impossible to get fat with me. If she did, then maybe we have nothing in common anymore. Health is a priority.
Some people workout and still stay fat
Yes, true, but if they are fat they are fat. Why would they randomly get fat for no reason as a adult? Those people you speak of have a rare condition.
Nah a lot of it is genetics like some people just have bigger families and get those genes
Yes but it happens early in their life. Usually as teenagers. Can I say something that may offend? But is logical to say.
I don't know just from having kids I know a few facts like being formula fed and being a c section baby puts a person at risk for obesity later on in life. Those things are out of our control.
And yes say anything you want. You won't offend me
Let's say you do have these weird family diseases or whatever it's called. Why would you want to have kids, and hand down those problems? I don't even get why every person needs to have kids lol. We have enough humans in the overpopulated world's anyways.
I don't believe in over population. And it's not a disease to be have bigger people in the family lol.
My family has big, small, skinny, fat people in it. To try to guess what my kids would be like before having them would be impossible. My 3 boys all have different body types even tho they are full blood brothers.
Dont believe in over population? When I was born 4 billion people , now there's 8 billion. Next generation 16 billion. Where do you think all the resources cone from to feed and house everyone? We keep expanding knocking down nature to build more homes more stores more offices, more roads more, more. Well in my family my brother my father and I always active, none of us are fat. My mom no. Active is overweight. Maybe also because of csection I guess. No one in my while family is fat unless there are under active. I'm sure one of your kids is more active or less or what not. And usually it's the life style that makes what you are. Unless you are unlucky somehow.
One of my son is currently on meds cause he refuses to eat and is too skinny so there that. My other ones are chubby and healthy so no issues there. And nah your kidding yourself about the overpopulation thing. So many people aren't choosing to have kids it's a fucking trend that people want to cling to so they can be selfish and not have childern.
Lol. Um it's the opposite, having kids is selfish. Think about it, they didn't ask to be brought into this world. This upside down , entitled world. Take , take, take that's all we humans do. Please tell me the purpose of humans on this beautiful planet earth? Just to consume, mate and consume more?
People have to learn to be grateful for being given life. If they are ungrateful then they'll think negatively like that. Really hope I don't raise my kids to be so ungrateful that they run around saying that they didn't ask to be here
Husband don’t leave their fat wives. But they’ll sext with someone else.
She's fat that's fine. Can lose the weight easily which is also fine. But happy with her weight. Wouldn't bother me knowing she can take care of me in bed 🥰
It depends on how fat…like gaining 100lbs I might want some changes to her lifestyle and eating habits…20lbs, that way more tolerable and no i dont think I’d leave
Yes. I would leave. I always find it ironic women have a million standards but when a man expresses his all hell breaks loose.
Most women I know barely have any standards for men
@Apple1996 thats a small portion of the population in general women have a ton of standards for men.
If she got fat to the point where it's disgusting to look at her then she's going to have to work with me a bit. We all get old but we should still try to be attractive to our partners right?
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Run away as fast as you can. There's no point in engaging a fat target.
Nope, I'd just try to put her on a strict diet as much as possible
Why is it wrong to leave someone if they decide to get fat? If it’s not shallow to refuse to initially want to date someone because of their weight it’s not shallow to leave them cuz of their weight
So if you got old, would it be okay for you spouse to leave you?
@Stars12122 but people don’t have control over getting old so I don’t see it as the same.
Sometimes people don't have control of getting fat. Pregnancies and certain diseases can make you gain significant weight.
@Stars12122 pregnancy sure but I don’t agree various diseases make u fat. I guess it depends how much weight we’re talking about but body fat is generally always determined by how much your doing in a day versus how much ur eating in a day
There are a bunch of endocrine diseases that can cause weight gain. My Mom has hypothyroidism and is allergic to almost all medications that could treat her condition. It caused her to gain weight when she doesn't eat that much and it's nearly impossible for her to lose the weight. Cushing has similar effects.
I wouldn't leave my husband plainly because of a physical trait. But attitudes dissapoint. I mean if I make my best to look fit and decent at my age, whatever it is I expect somthing similar from him.
I would not leave (too expensive).
I would just stop fucking her and move into another bedroom.
Yeah I think couples should keep up with each other
She goes over 150 after prego sure.
Her weight needs to stay 103-135.
Shell get a few warnings.
What about taller women that might just naturally be over 150 due to their height?
Taller I might adjust.
Woman don't leave their fat husbands
They might. Lots of women file for divorce 😂
Where I live you see couples where the man is fat and the wife thin but you almost never see the reverse
Yeah I see that very often
So if I say white are you automatically going to say black?
Hell nah I'm gonna say rainbow 🌈
Your probably the same person who chooses "other" when answering a survey
If she is "destructive", like she doesn't even care one bit about her health no more, then i might possibly leave her. Otherwise i probably wouldn't.
If I love her it wouldn't matter so no.
I’d stay with her, but our hobbies would be working out and outdoors so she won’t be getting fat
Most likely no but I wouldn't find her attractive anymore.
I might marry her once more if she did 😏
Lol marry her twice good choice 🤣
Yikes that’s so shallow
No I'd love her long time.
Yes, it's her job as a woman to remain attractive for me.
Nah but I’d be a bit concerned with her well-being.
if they are your wife then it is what is in the inside that you like
Depends on what type of partner you are looking for. Are you going by her looks or her love for you?
I wouldn’t leave her but I won’t let her stay fat we’ll stay in shape together
The deal was in sickness and in health etc, etc,
If she refused to do anything about it for years then yes I'd leave.
Depends on how fat and what the side effects on our relationship would be.
They would I don't know why they 🤥 lying 🤣. I believe @Hispanic-Cool-Guy though
Master has been clear that if I gain more than a certain amount of weight he will dismiss me.
It's life after she gets fat go look in your mirrors you are too
Never.
That's your wife not a toy