Why would I want him to feel trapped by marriage? Without that, I work a little every day to be the best for him that I can... 0 complacency here by either of us.
It's not necessarily a bad idea because I feel like you never get to know someone until you live with them but why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
You will never get to know someone, ever whether you live with them or not. At some point you just need to accept them without attempting to know 'everything' about them.
I feel that at whatever point both people know they love the other person, so much to the point where they are willing to accept the other person for who they are -is the point where they should decide on marriage. But if people aren't willing to commit to that level with someone, then maybe marriage isn't for them :)
Benefits to being married, you will be respected more. If you decide to go to church ,, no stigma. Being married is a commitment only want you. Men like myself do not cheat gamble or beat their wives.
Marriage is definitely not necessary and i think it complicates things legally
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I think most Girls think Marraige is necessary a while after you start loving eachother and have moved in together, Marraige isn't necessary at all at anytime.
Most People just do it to show their Commitment to eachother.
If you know you can’t marry them, then don’t live with them. Just casually date until you find someone you truly wanna marry. Otherwise, you’ll be so unhappy!
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Why would I want him to feel trapped by marriage? Without that, I work a little every day to be the best for him that I can... 0 complacency here by either of us.
It is necessary to be able to live together cause as long as you're ot married than you're strangers and not a family!
It's not necessarily a bad idea because I feel like you never get to know someone until you live with them but why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free
You will never get to know someone, ever whether you live with them or not. At some point you just need to accept them without attempting to know 'everything' about them.
I agree but get to know as much as you can cause you can't make a decision until you have all the facts
I feel that at whatever point both people know they love the other person, so much to the point where they are willing to accept the other person for who they are -is the point where they should decide on marriage. But if people aren't willing to commit to that level with someone, then maybe marriage isn't for them :)
So true
Benefits to being married, you will be respected more. If you decide to go to church ,, no stigma. Being married is a commitment only want you. Men like myself do not cheat gamble or beat their wives.
Marriage is definitely not necessary and i think it complicates things legally
I think most Girls think Marraige is necessary a while after you start loving eachother and have moved in together, Marraige isn't necessary at all at anytime.
Most People just do it to show their Commitment to eachother.
If you know you can’t marry them, then don’t live with them. Just casually date until you find someone you truly wanna marry. Otherwise, you’ll be so unhappy!
Living together first is like test driving a car.
Marriage is a piece of paper.
@ElementoP why? I would hate to marry a woman then after realize I can't stand living with her... I'd rather out before we got married.
Do what you want. To me living together = benefits of marriage without the responsibility.
It all depends if you are God fearing or not. All other reasons and explanations are BS.
Yes. Marriage and dating are different things. Marriage is a political institution, not a romantic one.
Yes, marriage is necessary, this isn't the 90's anymore
Religion.
But no. Marriage is just a govt tax status. May help couples save money.
that's up to you, not society.
Better to work out your problems before marraige
It shouldn't matter and u don't need to be married
I'll let you think about that
marriage is never necessary
No smart people said it's bad