My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years. His best friend, whom he's known since middle school, is getting married this weekend. The bride asked me to be a bridesmaid about a year ago (actually, she asked me boyfriend to ask me). She started a Facebook group message with me and the other bridesmaids to talk about dresses and all that good stuff. The dresses we got off the same website, so I know I have the right dress. But I haven't heard from her since April. Her sister was trying to plan a Bachelorette party, but they were aiming for a weekend in September that I was busy - a close friend of mine I met in college got married and I was in that bridal party as well. The last I heard was that they'd aim for a different weekend. It's been radio silent since then. My boyfriend and I didn't even get invites - when he asked his friend about them, he said the bride didn't know she had to send invites to the bridal party. So I only know where the wedding is because I've been asking my boyfriend if he knows any details. I have no clue about a rehearsal, where the wedding is at, what time, etc. Should I reach out to the bride? (I'm just shaking my damn head over here as I type this, because I'm not even that close with the bride. I only know her because I'm dating her fiancé's friend and we've only ever hung out as couples, mostly for their kids birthdays).
I'm in a wedding this weekend and haven't heard from the bride in months. Should I reach out?
