Question for the women: In today’s society, do you want to get married? What is your opinion/views on marriage?

[DexWest]

In today’s society, do you want to get married? What is your opinion/views on marriage? If you are currently married, would you get married again? Why or why not?

[DizzyDesii]

I used to be big on it. there's only one dude I know who still believes in marriage. Shit if I didn't end up married to him someday, Im not sure if I’d still want it. But I for damn sure ain't into shackin up. I’d have to be engaged at the least to live with someone. So If a guys not lookin to marry, we’ll just forever live in separate homes and occasionally spend the night at eachothers place. Neither option sounds all that bad tbh. But having a kid is a must-have (whether biologically or by adoption). Unless he’s looking to co-parent, he might wanna get married 🤷‍♀️

[DizzyDesii]

A prenup is a must

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for
Mho

[Simslover92]

Some days I can see myself getting married and some days I don't. Marriage is a lot of work and your finances have to be in pretty good shape which for both me and my boyfriend aren't at the moment. I think I would like to marry him one day but its all if he wants to get married which right now I don't think he does.

[BCRanger10]

Man here, but if it's okay, I'll chime in.

Being married is great. Yes, it's a challenge, but it's also an adventure. It's great to be committed to someone, go love and support each other, to share your life with them, to build a life together, and to raise children with them.

[Lliam]

I've been happily married now for almost 26 years. I would be miserable without such a trusted companion and best friend to share my life with. We've built a great life and had so much fun together. Without her as a partner, I wouldn't have what I have now.

[DexWest]

Question for the women. There’s one for men as well.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO, Dex!

[CindyRuns]

I have gotten married and after almost 10 years, I'm still very happy.

I love the confident feeling of having my man committed to me and sharing his life with me and the children we made together !!!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d like to, if I meet someone who’d make me feel like I would be so happy to share my life with him and be a mother of his children.

But If I don’t feel this way, I’d rather stay single and then have children through some other ways.

[Apple1996]

I've been married for 7 years and love it but it's not something I would do again if I became single. It's been a roller-coaster, lots of high and lots of lows. Basically a lot of stress so it's a one and done type of thing for me.

[OldWomanBySoul]

I don't care much about marriage, if I love someone then the title won't do anything but if my partner wants to get married, I don't think I'd object unless given some huge reason. Pretty neutral about it.

[Agape93]

I don't want to. I find no benefits to it, much less enough benefits to justify the risk

[Smashingdoozy]

Not unless my future partner really wanted to. But I would do something super small. It's not something I want but I'm willing to compromise in it because I know it's important to some people.

[Notyouraveragecat]

I think most people want to get married. It's just difficult finding the right one to do that with!

[Nikki1989]

Getting married was the best thing that has ever happened to me. It has been pure joy since day one.

[Camelia7012]

I would like to one day but its not an obligation for me

[itsalyssaagain]

I want to get married because despite whatever’s going on in society I’m Muslim.

[Molly1997]

I’d like to get married but not legally

[DexWest]

So a common law marriage?

[sunflower00]

Yes I would like to get married

[LavLavLuv]

Ya I wanna get married

[Jazzy54]

Yes I do. 😊