My wife found a dish that wasn’t put away “properly” yelled at me and took it outside screamed and smashed it in the driveway. #married life?

[Charliefretz329]

Women, can you translate this for me?

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Is this normal for menopause?

[WonderBell99]

Um this doesn’t sound like menopausal rage. Looks like she has some unaddressed anger issues. My mom yells at me and my dad, but we share a “oh lord, here she goes again” kind of look and do everything right the second time, but never has my mother ever acted so violently like your wife. I’m sorry, I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, but it looks like your wife needs therapy.

[Charliefretz329]

Definitely agree with you. I wish it could help her.

[WonderBell99]

Sorry about your situation. I hope you talk to her about this and hopefully, she comes around and agrees to go to therapy.

[WonderBell99]

Oops, sorry for the grammatical error. Used hope twice

[Charliefretz329]

Don’t sweat grammar ! 🙂😊 yes life is hard while she remains in denial. When I bring it up she feels attacked and attacks back. It’s terrible

[WonderBell99]

I’m sorry.

[Anonymous]

My ex sister-in-law had 13 personalities. Luckily for me, only one hated me. lol

[Charliefretz329]

Yeah. What fun finding out which one you’re dealing with

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, that was crazy

[Charliefretz329]

Sorry! 😬

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you sure she has started menopause? It's possible but 40 is a little young for that.

[Charliefretz329]

According to the doctors she has

[OlderAndWiser]

Well then, you should plan on a few years of insanity!

[Charliefretz329]

Yay 😑

[exitseven]

I suggest you start using paper plates from now on.

[Charliefretz329]

It was a nice glass ovenware. 🫤

[exitseven]

that would have left a mark for sure.

[Charliefretz329]

No kidding 😬. My last wife left me concussed for 3 days. And she just used her fists.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[nolabels]

Man, I'm sorry for you.

I hope things get better.

Keep trying is all I can say.

[Charliefretz329]

Thanks man

[Sparkie460]

At least she took it outside and smashed it. You're lucky she didn't hit you with it. I'm guessing she was mad that it wasn't put away properly. BAD BOY.

[Charliefretz329]

I could get her help if she injured me.

I should’ve turned her in the last time she hit me.

[Sparkie460]

That is not normal.

[Charliefretz329]

It’s very difficult

[Sparkie460]

My wife went through menopause and never acted like that

[Charliefretz329]

Yeah?

[Sparkie460]

She just complained about hot flashes

[Sparkie460]

How long has she been acting like this

[Charliefretz329]

Since the birth of my almost 5 year old daughter. And steadily getting worse

[Sparkie460]

That's not menopause.

[Sparkie460]

How old is your wife

[Charliefretz329]

46 years

[Charliefretz329]

She’s in menopause That’s all I know

[Sparkie460]

Ok she started early. Menopause lasts anywhere between 7- 14 years

[Charliefretz329]

Oh boy

[Sparkie460]

If she's as bad as you say I feel bad for you. Thank God my wife wasn't like that

[Charliefretz329]

All over the charts. Good one day and not the next.

[slatyb]

Get the hell out. This is intolerable. If you stay she will make you miserable and is likely to ruin your life. See a lawyer. Keep notes of these incidents. If you have children, fight her for custody.

[Apple1996]

Translation: She's tired of your shit and probably likely that she's already told you how to put things away properly a million times lol

[Charliefretz329]

Wow 😮

[Apple1996]

Haha I'm pretty sure you knew this tho without the translation 😂

[Charliefretz329]

Is it proper to boss your spouse around?

[Apple1996]

Kind of since she is the boss of your house

[Charliefretz329]

Partnership doesn’t equal boss

[SnowedIn]

Sorry Charlie. I have nothing. But genuinely sorry.

[Charliefretz329]

Me either. Put my trust in God, and pray for peace and guidance.

[SnowedIn]

Prayers are with you brother.

[Charliefretz329]

Thank you brother

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she should be bitch slapped for that sort of behavior.

[Charliefretz329]

And I’d be headed straight to jail and lose my job

[RobT312]

Yikes, sorry man! An overreaction to say the least. I hope it was just a bad day?

[Charliefretz329]

No idea,

[RobT312]

Damn not good. Hope things are better now, and hope u talked about it!

[Charliefretz329]

Nope but thanks

[Anonymous]

She needs to be put in her place

[Charliefretz329]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

Put her across you knee and spank her until she cries, then have passionate sex with her.

[Charliefretz329]

Lmmfao!

[AllAloneInTheWorld]

That's F'd up and definitely not normal

[SadyConfused1998]

I think she has mental health problems

[Charliefretz329]

Yeah

[sirderpsalot123]

Crazy overreaction

[Charliefretz329]

Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Right outta nowhere

[sirderpsalot123]

Does this sort of thing happen often?

[Charliefretz329]

Only more and more over the past 5 years

[sirderpsalot123]

Sorry man

[Charliefretz329]

Guess my date is really training me up for something disgustingly difficult in my future

[Charliefretz329]

*fate