Do you want to get married YES or NO and why?

[coachTanthony]

[Hawkes_Lady]

I would like to find a man who will walk through this life with me together. One who will walk beside me because we are equal in responsibility. I want to have this man love me as much as I love him and know that he will be honest, caring, patient, dependable, responsible, and protective of us, me, and our relationship.

I used to want a big wedding, but now I don't know. Now I think I just want the above and could forgo the legal piece of paper. I think I'd be happy with our own made-up little something for just us, but I do think that I would like us to wear rings to symbolize our love and that we are taken and off the market.

[mobiusforniner]

No. And I am married. Lol

In all honesty, marriage isn't for everyone. It requires a ton of work, emotionally and physically. Its putting someone else before yourself, many times at your significant disadvantage, knowing the effort will yield for the better in the end. It demands patience and understanding. Couple that with all the stresors of daily life, I openly admit single life was far simplier and easier.

That said, married life, if done right, is never lonely. You always have a back up, kids who make you laugh and the feeling of your own mark in this funny world. Everything can fall apart but somehownas long as i have my unit, life doesn't seem so bad.

[worldscolide]

I'm married, 10 years now. It was because out of all of the people in my life, she was the only person that bothered to care about me and visit me in the hospital when my wisdom teeth almost killed me.. And we had only been on one date. Not my mom, nor any of my friends chose to visit, my own mother tried to steal my car, cause she was convinced I was going to die.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

No, mainly because being asexual means that I can’t meet certain expectations of being married. Does the ceremony sound like a fun party to have? Sure, and expensive as hell. I would love to have a companion to come with me through life but I don’t expect nor desire that companion to be someone I’m romantically involved with, so marriage most likely isn’t an option I could experience. Would I still like to be married to someone who gets me someday? Sure, but hoping for the impossible doesn’t change the likelihood of it happening.

[Simslover92]

I do want to get married and my boyfriend is finally coming around to the idea of marriage with me.

Why do I want to get married? Because when two people marry they become one. They become a unit and I would like nothing more than to become one with my boyfriend.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't want to or not want to. It is the consequence of finding the right person, it isn't the end unto itself.

[Matcha19]

Exactly. If they're right for me, and the circumstances align well, so be it. But, it's not something I hunt down because you can't know until you have that insight with your person.

[Lara_Croft]

Yes. God willing. Marriage is a beautiful and blessed God ordained institution. It's the first and oldest institution in the history of humanity hey. Growing a ministry and serving God alongside my future husband would be a blessing

[LiamJHayden]

No, unless the laws are changed. I work in the courts frequently (trial support - I am not an attorney) and witness how skewed the divorce laws are, especially against the bigger earner.

[Unit1]

It is a business. Is it a lucrative one? Do these attorneys drive by any chance any Ferrari's?

[LiamJHayden]

@Unit1 They usually drive Mercedes and BMW for some reason. Yes, they make oodles, as most of them specialize in cases where there is as much or more money as in the Ariana Grande divorce.

[Unit1]

That is unsurprising. It doesn't take much brain to see, that marriage followed by divorce is a lucrative business.
No disrespect to the attorneys for taking advantage of making those big sums at the expense of the others but I reckon they're too fat to fit into a Ferrari anyway 😆 If it wasn't for that, then it would be running a casino.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Although I have never been married marriage isn’t for me & if I’m stupid enough to get married hopefully I’m smart enough to have prenuptial agreements in place, signed & have a divorce lawyer on retainer.

[Unit1]

And a trust fund

[Guardian45]

I would avoid it in your case

[smilelots]

If the right lady came along, I would get married again one is never too old to start fresh with someone to share the rest of your life with

[dolemite58]

no, there’s just no benefit for a man to get married.

[Kingofkings1992]

Fuck no. I can’t stand humans, you think I wanna marry one?

[Sarahdelacruz]

Have you considered going to a different planet where humans don’t exist so you can be happy?

[Kingofkings1992]

@Sarahdelacruz that would be nice, unfortunately we can’t survive elsewhere

[Sarahdelacruz]

Wow that sucks. I hope you figure out a way to remove yourself from the planet earth and be able to successfully survive elsewhere. Just so you can be happy without human interactions. You’re young so you might have a chance sometime in the future

[Kingofkings1992]

@Sarahdelacruz i’m exaggerating, dear. A little human interaction is necessary to keep your sanity, but humans mostly suck.

[Sarahdelacruz]

I’m also being sarcastic if you didn’t notice

[Guardian45]

Yes AND No. Yes, because I am a romantic at heart and I worship women and can't see myself living without one!

No, because I'm divorced from a soulless, money-hungry Bi-atch and I DON'T want to relive that nightmare!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Very doubtful

[TonyMetal___86]

We have to fix the brakes first naughty sponge 😁

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 what does that have to do with getting married or not 🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

We have to fix your brakes before you get married 🤣🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 but my answer was that I doubt I would ever again anyways… that’s what I meant by very doubtful… keep up man😂

[TonyMetal___86]

You can't keep talking while a hard working man (me) is fixing your brakes or i'll paint your spongy forehead with brakes oil 💆🏼‍♀️😬

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 oh so you gonna fix my brakes huh? Well come on then🤷‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

Bring me your ice cream mini van sponge but befote that, i have to bite your spongy forehead to recharge my energy and it costs 15 muffins 💆🏼‍♀️😬

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 forget the brakes, just buy me a new vehicle 😁😂

[TonyMetal___86]

I'll take you in my VEHICULE 😁 one last ride where no one will see the sponge again ☻
I'll always have fresh cold lemonade, muffins, delicious meals and exploding pizzas 😂

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 something will be exploding alright

[TonyMetal___86]

You mean you're eating a family pizza now sponge? ☻😂

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 wait where does I say that? But I can kill a pizza by myself every now and then😁 AND the clothes I ordered fit 😁(they finally came )

[TonyMetal___86]

Congrats sponge, are you going to walk the cat walk on the stage to show you're new outfits as a senior model 😂😂

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@TonyMetal___86 nope 😁

[OfMiceandMen]

At my age likely not, but if the right woman came along it may change my position. She would have to be someone that I couldn't live without and obviously I would have mean the same to her.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes. And she said yes.

[Lionman95]

Yes but only if I meet a woman I really love. I´m not interested in being married just for the tax advantages it brings in my country.

[Greenalways]

Yes! Of course I want to get married! I really would like to walk this life together with a man I really love and am passionate about. Start a family and watch our kids have families. The classics but marriage isn't just about loving each other, you have a live in best friend for life! ☺️

[TheUniqueOne96]

Nah.

I'm not against finding a relationship, but I don't think marriage is necessary for that.

[SolitarySolace]

No, because I don’t want to risk her deciding to divorce me and taking what little resources I have/will have.

[msc545]

NO! This is a huge legal risk for men with no upside.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Smart man.

[Raaj4you]

Yes, I would like to get married soon. But I am not able to find a suitable match. I am looking for sweet, humble, feminine, mature girl. I can't get along with rude, egoistic and arrogant girls.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I would like to get married.

[Unit1]

what's the point of getting married for male humans?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

So female humans can get free shit when the divorce is finalized.

[elizamichale1]

I used to think I wouldn't marry ever but here I m married to 2

[Sarahdelacruz]

Are you Muslim?

[elizamichale1]

@Sarahdelacruz lol no i am not... they would probably ask me to go die lol

[Sarahdelacruz]

Who would ask you to go die?

[elizamichale1]

@Sarahdelacruz i meant muslims coz of my work u know

[MissBoogus]

Yes but it doesn’t need to be legit. I just want a ring and to be his. I’d like to start referring to him as my husband lol

[legalboxers]

Too old.. to set in my ways...

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You are not old bro!

[legalboxers]

@Static_In_The_Attic I am man. Stones throw from 50.. Fuck it

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You may be over the hill but just remember you are still under the mountain.

[Paul09]

No. I don't believe in Religious mumbo jumbo. You do not need a over expensive wedding and a paper to prove your love.

[mobiusforniner]

Agree. My super religious brother in law says marriage is a contract that means his woman submits to his every will because he is ordained of God. He claims marriage in the traditional sense allows forced sex to propogate gods kingdom

Someone please make religion stop...

[Paul09]

@mobiusforniner OMFG that's horrible. Crazy how people are so gullible. Yes I wish it would stop. Done religions seem to be loosing sheep's. But others are always going strong. Sad world we live in.

[DizzyDesii]

Spiritually for sure. Debating if legally

[Nikki1989]

I have been very happily married for years.

[Guardian45]

Any tips?

[McKellar]

Yes, because I have needs like everyone else. Share my life with someone would be nice.

[Minahh]

Yes, but it would have to be someone who fits my criteria

[collie22]

can i ask your criteria

[Anonymous]

I don't think so because I've never thought about getting married before

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, I want the best life I can lead

[Slim57]

No, I don't know if I can ever fully trust women's emotion over logic sadly to say

[BCRanger10]

I already am!

[electromagnetic]

Married 😆

[Jazzy54]

Yes. To spend my life with someone. 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

If i find the real woman for me that yes, why not?

[RebeccaSJ]

I have been married for 12+ years now.

[Charliefretz329]

Been there, done that. NO MORE! Lol

[Jmmmfi4]

VERY MUCH... BUT DOUBT I WILL

[LavLavLuv]

Yes ☺️

[Sparkie460]

No. One is enough.

[Leititjt]

Yep .