Why do men get so angry with women for screening men based on money/job security, when men screen women for appearance (something they can't improve)? (Page 2)
Because contrary to popular belief, men want to be loved for who they are not just what they can do.
Take me for example. Im not wealthy but my case is a good analogy.
I hate it when women ask me for help or favors. And the reason why this pisses me off is because thats the only time i get any kind of attention from women.
Its kind of dehumanizing if the oppoaite sey only sees you as an atm or a utility servise.
I can control my career trajectory, sure. She can control her BMI before it gets higher than her age, too. Whether we do it or not is another story. I can't control height. She can't control her facial features.
I don't particularly care if women screen me because once they do and find out I have a lot of money I already know they are trash women. My wife didn't know I had money she assumed I didn't and when I told her she didn't care.
I hate influencers. Id rather see them lining these type of narcissist up against a wall and dispatching them. I don't give a fuck whether they're malle or female.
You influence the world into absolute bullshit you deserve nothing more than death.
I think because so many women have arbitrary factors in their screening. When firms talk about absurd "icks", it is irritating. Having said that, women have an abundance mindset and most men don't.
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Women inflate their looks way more by makeup. Money making is not as easy as you think otherwise everyone would be rich. Even ugly girls have tons of followers nowadays and hook up with several men. How many women will date a poor or ugly guy?
However there's no reason to be angry, it's what it is.
@ImalwaysrightOK Earth. Men are not entitled to a woman of their choice. The woman they choose has to also choose them. There are men who feel entitled to a woman of their choice, and feel cheated when they choose a woman and she isn't interested.
Guys have less expectations for women — loyal, kind, can think, religion plays a role for me, did she pursue higher education. I don’t care if she can’t cook. That’s pretty much it.
because one thing is basically women just checking if they have a good chance to gold dig / rip off, the other is just guys checking if he is even attractive to him physically
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Because contrary to popular belief, men want to be loved for who they are not just what they can do.
Take me for example. Im not wealthy but my case is a good analogy.
I hate it when women ask me for help or favors. And the reason why this pisses me off is because thats the only time i get any kind of attention from women.
Its kind of dehumanizing if the oppoaite sey only sees you as an atm or a utility servise.
I can control my career trajectory, sure. She can control her BMI before it gets higher than her age, too. Whether we do it or not is another story. I can't control height. She can't control her facial features.
I don't particularly care if women screen me because once they do and find out I have a lot of money I already know they are trash women. My wife didn't know I had money she assumed I didn't and when I told her she didn't care.
Some men are single for a reason. They are so delusional. Just read some comments on here for an example.
I hate influencers. Id rather see them lining these type of narcissist up against a wall and dispatching them. I don't give a fuck whether they're malle or female.
You influence the world into absolute bullshit you deserve nothing more than death.
I think because so many women have arbitrary factors in their screening. When firms talk about absurd "icks", it is irritating. Having said that, women have an abundance mindset and most men don't.
Women inflate their looks way more by makeup. Money making is not as easy as you think otherwise everyone would be rich. Even ugly girls have tons of followers nowadays and hook up with several men. How many women will date a poor or ugly guy?
However there's no reason to be angry, it's what it is.
What do you mean women can't improve their looks? It's fae easoer to improve your looks than your job so...
Women can make themselves look better. Wear different clothes, get a different haircut, get in shape all things that will help
"Men?" You mean "men who feel entitled to a woman of their choice"
Men should have a woman of their choice. What planet are you on?
@ImalwaysrightOK Earth. Men are not entitled to a woman of their choice. The woman they choose has to also choose them. There are men who feel entitled to a woman of their choice, and feel cheated when they choose a woman and she isn't interested.
Because its in their own interest. Besides, men don't screen women just by appearence. That's a lie
But appearance is the initial barrier that needs to be crossed before guys screen by other criteria
Guys have less expectations for women — loyal, kind, can think, religion plays a role for me, did she pursue higher education. I don’t care if she can’t cook. That’s pretty much it.
because one thing is basically women just checking if they have a good chance to gold dig / rip off, the other is just guys checking if he is even attractive to him physically
I don't get angry about being excludedf by a girl's preferences. I am happy when she is honest about it so I don't waste my time.
Life is not logical and fair for that matter. That goes for men too. Men are just as irrational as women in their own way.
Most women are attractive by default as long as they take basic care of themselves. It really doesn't take much for a woman to be attractive.
I don't blame women for not wanting a bum, but this is silly.
Because men are more inferior than women, and you're expecting us to make more money than you when you are superior.
Actually with plastic surgery, you can, just depends on how well the plastic surgery goes, and if you can afford it
The only reason women want men with "lots" of money, is because of families. If you plan to have kids, and be married you WILL, NEED MONEY
Some feel it’s unfair if they have a min wage job that the girls want a guy making a higher income.
I wouldn't date a broke guy and I'm pretty.