Is being attracted to another man considered cheating on my husband?

[Anonymous]

My husband's brother is very handsome. I like him but I would never cheat on my husband. It's just simple love. It's not important.

[Drew-1990]

If it's just physical attraction, there's nothing wrong with that. You're always going to find other guys attractive. Just because you're married doesn't mean you're blind. Now. It's an emotional attraction. I wouldn't call it cheating but I would be careful with it, I wouldn't let myself get close to him so it can turn into something more even if you don't plan it

[Anonymous]

Yes it’s cheating you should be ashamed of yourself. Especially because it’s his brother lol

[shafiya]

Well I believe we get attracted in out day to day life it’s a human nature. I wouldn’t call that as a “cheating” but if you are developing feelings etc going out with them isn’t right that’s a cheating.
Regards

[Asker]

I'm just drawn to my husband's brother. But I love my husband.

[Anonymous]

so you find him good looking? okay. no big deal.

[dustybiker2]

We can't control who we are attracted to. We can control our actions.

[slatyb]

No. That's going to happen. I'm attracted to other women frequently. I don't pursue them

[OtterMan68]

not if you don't act on it or you constantly fantasize about it

[BarryLiverstone]

Were you drawn to him before getting married?

[Asker]

No...

[BarryLiverstone]

Right. So then something has changed. And that’s what you need to find out. Do you know why you like him now?

[Asker]

You are right

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe your husband changed