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32 and Unmarried... Is it too late? People go in shock when they come to know I'm unmarried?
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Its is, but it isn’t. Everyone pretty much said the same thing, to which I will say something similar but also different. Yes it’s never too late to get married, it does happen. But most people want a family, I think that’s the whole point of marriage, to eventually have a family. So looking from a man’s perspective they may not see you as marriage material because of the age. You’re 32, I don’t know if you’re currently seeing someone? So let’s say you met someone tomorrow, you’d date for maybe a year or two, then maybe marry w in 2-3 years, which may take you to 34-36 years old. Not the best age for having a child, probably not the worst either. Fertility wise men do look at this, so yes they may want someone younger. Looking at your pic I think you’d have no trouble attracting men, but part of the issue would be are these men that you’d be attracted to as well? Most women find 80% of men unattractive. So depending on your requirements you may lessen your chances of meeting someone because they’re not a certain height or of certain economic status or a number of other things you want or don’t want in a man. Someone pointed out that a couple got married in their 70s, which sure that’s great but damn being by yourself till you’re almost on your way out the door of life, that has to be sad. I don’t think you want to wait that long. At your age I think too it does raise a red flag if you haven’t at least been married or have a child by than. Like what happened?
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I don't think it is too late.
It is upto you when you want to marry.
Although I understand people getting shocked knowing you are not married as a lot of people are married around this age, but that doesn't make it a norm.
Marry whenever you want and if you don't want to then don't.
it's not too late at all, a very large portion of people get married in their 30s. though you probably should really start looking for a serious boyfriend right now since it takes a couple years typically to get married and time is ticking if you want to get someone that's never been married, cute and not a loser, and also very importantly if you want a kid/kids because you only have 7-8 years left to have kids naturally and without much difficulty, and about 2 more if you get med help
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I don't see why that would be shocking. You're not forced to marry.
No, I don't think it's too late. Especially if you can date and if you're seen as an attractive woman.
Just don't get married because other people your age are married. Make the right choice with the right person.
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I hate how most people feel like they have to get married by a certain age and feel rushed just because of the lies that society tries to tell them. It should be on your own time whenever you feel like you as a couple are both ready.
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Being married just because an age is going past is overrated. Its better to stay single rather than getting married because you're "supposed" to. Don't fall for this trap. Write your own path.
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i like how other people think it's crazy and are shocked. as if everyone has the same timeline and HAS to be married at a certain age. they need to mind their own business!
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No, it's not. I have a friend who got married at 38 and had her first kid after.
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I know a couple in their early 70s that just got married. You can marry at any age.
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Not really, i am surprised by what you but then i don't know which country you live in. In the Western world most women are not married before 35.
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It isn't too late, but you will have to lower your standards if you don't want to die alone. The tall, fit, and wealthy guys aren't going to marry you.
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If you don't want to have kids or adapt to living with another person, then it's whatever.
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Its never too late. Many have to try against after a bad one.
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Nah its not too late. On that same token, if you plan to have kids, you literally have between 10 and 15 years left at most to do so.
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Not really, I didn’t get married until that age but maybe because you’re pretty they are surprised you’re not taken yet
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My mom was almost a decade older when she married my dad, and he was a decade older than she was. First and only marriage for both.
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Totally depends on your country and culture as some countries and culture being a 32 year old single woman is seen as kinda bad.
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Well I am 30 still not married it's fine, why don't you marry me... we both are indian.
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Depends on culture and religion like if you're from the middle east or Muslims etc and you''re not married by 25 thats a big NONO !
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why my kids are 35 and 38 and unmarried, we had a woman at Church who was 71 before she first got married
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No, you still can
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Nope. Not at all that's pretty typical
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too late for what?
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Its not a shock. Not give into society
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