What do you think of people marrying early?

Question

By early, I mean the age of 18-20 years

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

It’s not generally a good idea anymore. Most parents are neither raising their kids to be mature and worldly nor actively involved in helping them find suitable long term mates. Left to their own devices, anyone under the age of thirty is more likely to make lousy decisions than good ones. Considering the relative permanence of marriage and the disastrous consequences of failure, the odds are heavily against getting it right on the first try while so young, underdeveloped, immature, and frankly ignorant.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's good in a way

DishLady · Accepted Answer

It's good and bad -- good if you're starting a family so you can chase after the pile of kids you're having, but bad in terms of not being mature enough to raise them with the wisdom of an older couple. Hmm. Catch22.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Good for them

ohsheeT · Answer

For me it's just to early i think people need to explore and experience things more

Caroline91 · Answer

I think 18-20, especially for guys, is most often a bit too young in American culture. But, overall, I'm supportive of young marriage. One of the nice aspects is you can plan your lives and careers to complement each other because you're not already set on a path. But I also think it is best to complete post high school education before having children.

petitedollbabee · Answer

No different than marrying at any age, I suppose. At that age you’re still figuring out who you are and your brain is still developing. In 5 years time you both could’ve completely changed and not like each other anymore. But it can go the other way too. In that same 5 years you both could’ve changed into better people who love each other more, because you grew together.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I wouldn't have had the emotional and psychological capability to be married at that age. But I suppose that if I had a good role models, a great person, and a social support system; marriage at that age would be a decent idea.

My twenties were full of crappy treatment and overall disappointment. If someone can find a way to avoid that, I support their efforts.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Depends on the culture and mindset.
Lots of people marry early if you look on the brighter side they have good understanding and bonding.

But in some couples jealousy is at top.

Expecting partner to be constantly in the call and checking on them.

But in the longer run it binds you with them and becoming young parents is tough but sweet.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Personally I think it is too early but if they truly are in love and are committed to each other then why not. I hope to wait till my mid 20's or so. I'm still enjoying being kinda single ( I have a friends with benefits in college) and I have enjoyed having some "fun" with several girls before getting married.
Then again in some cultures earlier marriage is the norm.

DangerouslyCute · Answer

everyone has their own timeline... what is good for some doesn't have to be good for others...

ManOnFire · Answer

I think you need to be really sure it's what you want to do, but even then many young people think they're sure of what they want to do, and then later rethink it. Marriage is a big leap and you really do need some level of maturity for that.

The-Stud · Answer

That should totally happen. Men and women should marry early and have a lot of kids.  If only the government gave us an economy that encouraged this...

serious · Answer

That is not good because the first and top priority should always be completion of education and then having a successful, stable career. Love and relationships can always wait.

molonski2 · Answer

Frankly I think they are delusional , in a cult , or live in the countryside , it's an idiotic thing to do , you are getting married purely because you like the thought of it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It wouldn't be wise for most men. Not so bad for most women. Men are far too immature at that age.

itsannalee · Answer

None of my business, but if you are poor just don’t have kids. Wait until your are financially stable.

Texasgal95 · Answer

If they feel like it’s right and they understand how big of a commitment they are making it’s not of my business

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I think they're oldschool, or living in a rural area, or a combination of both. I think we have not much in common lol

HusamRocks · Answer

I believe as a 32 years old unmarried man that marrying early is the best for achieving the most of what marriage is about 👍🏻

WhitneySnow · Answer

Too early for me but cool if they want to. I know a couple who married at 16 and they’re very happy. Of course it’s only been like four years.

beenherebefore · Answer

I hope they're mature enough to understand what a marriage is and know what they're getting themselves into.

slatyb · Answer

I think it's generally unwise. Early marriages often fail. I don't think anyone should marry before 25.

MrJMM · Answer

Too early. Two of my friends are now already married and I am literally older than them. They are peak now 19/20/21 years old and their parents (who are rich) gave then brand new houses and etc. It’s weird.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I'm in favor of it. I truly think couples would be much better off if they did.

DJB72 · Answer

I know plenty of older couples who've been married over 50 years. Waiting until you're older wasn't a thing before WW1

Desi_Butcher · Answer

It's only wise in my opinion provided the decision is based out of logic, reason and consciousness instead of mere rush of emotions.

Berethor · Answer

It better than being part of the hook up culture that common among young people nowadays.

Likes2drive · Answer

Usually doesn’t last because people are still changing even their goals or who they are and what they wanna be when they get older , still getting to know yourself better at that age

Anonymous · Answer

honestly, I would advise anyone to marry if they were under 25.  Its been proven that the earlier people marry, the more likely they are to end up being divorced years down the road

MOUTHWASHING · Answer

It depends on their relation as a couple. I mean if they were together since middleschool then marrying is a dream come true. But if it is for economic reasons then they are doomed to fail

astralpro300 · Answer

their adults and can do whatever they want now

Ironco · Answer

In most cases it will fail.  I'd keep dating and get to know each other better. Take your time and have fun.

Anonymous · Answer

it's the most stupid mistake you can ever make for yourself.

Kelly6 · Answer

@rashmixoxo totally ok if you have plans for kids

Awantika03 · Answer

In ancient times people marry early now the same trend coming

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Either it's an arranged marriage or they felt like they've found the perfect person for them and they're in love

Amur8711 · Answer

Completely fine, some people want to get married early have their kids and have all the time after.

wkhan_87 · Answer

It is too early  I think 20 to 25 is better age for marriage

Anonymous · Answer

They throw themselves into the fire before they have experienced their youth and matured.

Tamera952 · Answer

Recipe for disaster,

bowenw · Answer

It has a high risk of failure.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Whatever works for the couple.

WonderingManII · Answer

Nothing, as long as they make it work.

Anonymous · Answer

I was married at 16.

Staximus · Answer

It's better than too late

Emmytexrex · Answer

It's cool  it's good

Bloodparadise · Answer

That they're in love 😊

hello4433 · Answer

Nothing wrong with it

Anonymous · Answer

It's their choice.

khyab5 · Answer

I think it’s a great that people marry early

Miristheiss · Answer

All for it.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Not wise

Nahid1707 · Answer

You are very young.

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