So it begins. I knew the bitter guys who think they know more than than the girl they are having difficulty getting in the first place would show up eventually.
call me whatever you want hon... this is me reading between the lines... I appreciate that i can see one more girl who realizes a nice guy, but I've heard these stories all too many times... say they would pick the nice guy but end up picking the bad one. so forgive me if im a bit skeptical. For all i know, you are a woman of your word, for all i know, you are just like the others. It doesn't make me bitter... or maybe it does... because i WAS one of those nice guys.
Trust me I am a woman of my word. I am too independent to settle for a guy who treats me like garbage. If a guy I was dating hit me, I break up with him on the spot and cut off all contact right away. And just because he doesn't hit you, does not mean he won't be abusive. Emotional abuse exists.
you are preaching to the choir on the emotional abuse part... and hitting is a little extreme, there are other things that can be done in order to be classified as "bad"... and a guy doesn't necessarily have to treat a girl like garbage, sometimes its about the girl's perception... I've been on the unfortunate end of that. want what they want and bitch if they don't get it.
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So it begins. I knew the bitter guys who think they know more than than the girl they are having difficulty getting in the first place would show up eventually.
call me whatever you want hon... this is me reading between the lines...
I appreciate that i can see one more girl who realizes a nice guy, but I've heard these stories all too many times... say they would pick the nice guy but end up picking the bad one. so forgive me if im a bit skeptical. For all i know, you are a woman of your word, for all i know, you are just like the others. It doesn't make me bitter... or maybe it does... because i WAS one of those nice guys.
Trust me I am a woman of my word. I am too independent to settle for a guy who treats me like garbage. If a guy I was dating hit me, I break up with him on the spot and cut off all contact right away. And just because he doesn't hit you, does not mean he won't be abusive. Emotional abuse exists.
you are preaching to the choir on the emotional abuse part... and hitting is a little extreme, there are other things that can be done in order to be classified as "bad"... and a guy doesn't necessarily have to treat a girl like garbage, sometimes its about the girl's perception... I've been on the unfortunate end of that. want what they want and bitch if they don't get it.
I find good guys boing mostly in the bedroom
boing?
@CancerianMan81 Yes and doormats
what I'm getting at is what is boing
I've never heard of that word
@CancerianMan81 Spelled it wrong. Shame on me lol. It's boring
you haven't meet all good guys cause some good guys bring excitement to the bed not just in the bed but also to the relationship
why would you only want to finish once lol?
Love this thank you!