For anybody else who watches the Vampire Diaries, this goes hand in hand why I will always prefer Stefan over Damon. If anyone knows where I can buy a Stefan, do tell. However at this point, I don't think Elena deserves Stefan and Damon doesn't deserve a brother like him.
Long-term relationships require a level of trust beyond what’s naturally extended to a stranger. The “bad boy,” aka jerk, can pick up a lot more dates than the nice guy because they’re typically unpredictable and dominant, which girls are initially intrigued by. However, this is only an initial attraction because the bad burns out. If you don’t become the nice guy fairly quickly, your long-term odds of success are pretty limited.
Egotistical pricks are a turn off. If I can't a conversation with him, without finding every word he says to be revolting, that's a problem. I definitely don't want someone who treats me like shit, I am way too independent for that.
The definition of nice guy might not be what you’d expect. A nice guy does not mean he’s a pushover, doormat, or weak person. A nice guy simply means he doesn’t play games, he’s confident and consistent with himself, and he has strong core values and morals.
I have never been to a party in my life. Granted, I have been invited to many but never went to any. Partying is not my idea of having fun I would rather explore the world and have weird, yet awesome adventures. Adventure is out there!
I want someone who respects my decisions even if he doesn't agree with them, I will pass on the guy who "thinks" he is doing what's best for me. My parents already try to do what's best for me and I don't need a third parent. Respect is extremely important. While I might love the other person, I think self respect is more important and will walk away from any relationship that not longer makes me happy.
Also I want someone with goals and ambition. I can never date someone who has no clue what he is doing with his life and that sounds immature, and I can never date someone significantly less mature than me.
Here's scientific research why nice guys finish first:
I will never get why it is so hard for guys to accept girls do like nice guys. If a girl is in a relationship with a bad guy then she must have her own problems because bad boy=bad relationship or is too insecure to believe that she probably deserves better.