Racism Has Nothing To Do With Aesthetic

Well, hello everyone.

It's me again.

I hope you are doing alright, cause personally I'm not.

Lately I'm getting extremely tired of some behaviors. I do understand that some people aren't lucky enough to be born with a great brain or at least a decent one but still, it annoys me that they can't understand some simple things.

Lately the most common thing that I've seen going on is the forum is this : "You don't like him/her? You are racist."

Racism Has Nothing To Do With Aesthetic

Racism by definition is :

Prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.

Now excuse me if I offend anyone that sees what I and the rest of the world doesn’t but it isn’t written anywhere that by not liking/not being into someone that happens to belong to a specific race it makes you discriminative towards the race the belong to...Or does it say it somewhere and I missed it?

We all belong somewhere,we all have a race,don’t we?

Isn’t it ridiculous to blame the fact that a specific person doesn’t like you to your race?

Why jumping instantly to the conclusion that the reason that someone isn’t into you is because they are bad and being racist towards you instead of the most logical answer that he/she may just happens to doesn’t like because you just don’t match their aesthetic/type?

If I personally or whoever in this world don't find someone attractive and it happens that he/she is black or Asian or white (cause I mean these are what we have right now, in this world as choices) IT DOESN'T mean that I/they am/are racist or that I/they hate a specific race.

it’s means that this person just doesn’t do it for me/them for many other reasons.

It means that he or she doesn't seem attractive in my/their eyes because she doesn't match my/their aesthetic.

Got it?

NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOUR RACE.

However for the people that easily willingly misunderstood EVERYTHING...Let’s clear something...

If someone says things like "I don't like him, because he is black/asian/white" that's racist.

It's basically a discriminative behaviour towards a specific kind of people,they judge you and don’t give you a chance just because of your DNA.

OKAY?

Good.

Thanks.

That's it for today babydolls.

Till next time, stay sassy.

- AngelicEmpress

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  • There’s the sassy angelic everyone missed 😄

    Great mytake and I agree, someone had to say it 👍🏼

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  • Straight forward, intelligent and thoughtful writing. I agree with you observations and logic.

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  • Lmao! Love this! You are so damn right. I dated outside my race a lot when i was younger but in my adult years my taste changed. I mean i still find any race attractive if they are attractive, but from my opinions my own race has been the ones i wound up being drawn to. I'm not racist just like it doesn't make someone an ass if they prefer larger vs smaller build, dark hair vs blonde, it's a personal preference aesthetically.

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  • God, this Mytake was finally created.
    I've been called racist many times just because I find darker skin attractive. Jeez those are just sexual preferences

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    • I meant unnatractive* but this doesn't really matter, you will be bashed on the internet for stating anything that doesn't Include that everyone are beautiful. Great MyTake

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  • In our new world we are born, accused of racism and must spend the rest of our lives defending the contrary by default. Guilty until proven innocent.

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  • Something else I'll add to this - until I've seen people's real photos on here, or they've explicitly told me, I have little to no idea what race they are.

    Doesn't make a difference to me - if somebody's a dick, then they're a dick, no matter what race they are...

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  • Personally, I am more inclined to choose someone closer to my own race but but, if a girl from another race impresses me with her hobbies, her ability to clearly speak English (I am sorry, it is too awkward for me to struggle with someone with a broken accent) , and her personality that makes a big change. but overall all, you are right there is a clear difference between not being attracted to a person and not liking them because of their race

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  • Racism has everything to do with aesthetic after all its mostly aesthetic that defines your race. But i agree with you completely that its being used in ridiculous ways that have nothing to do with racism.

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  • Amen! I love this post! Some people's brains are so soaked in identity politics and racial politics that they just can't see past it! People are people first, members of racial groups second!

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  • What are you talking about. Of course it does. The definition itself explains why it is descrimination

    If you reject someone based on race. Do people ever say “no sorry bud, I don’t date your whole country, ah well sorry bro”

    No they made up some Bullshit reason like you’rs Aren’t my type. Obviously cause it’s going to make them feel “INFERIOR” as a race

    That’s directly the definition. Think again 😛

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  • I disagree completely.
    Racism can and does influence people's aesthetic standards. Which is why certain races are perceived as more attractive than others.

    If someones brain is faulty and this makes them unable to comprehend certain ideas then your annoyance at them is irrational. If you don't like someones way of thinking, explain why and simply refute them. Don't say their brain is broken because that means they can't help it.

    What you're basically trying to say is:
    "I'm not attracted to so and so" - Not Racist
    "I'm not attracted to so and so because they're (insert race)" - Racist

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    • Did you read the mytake?

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    • Oh, it's not that I didn't understand.
      It's that your answer, basically answers to my title and have no relationship with what I actually wrote on the Take.

    • I responded to this part where you wrote:
      "Lately I'm getting extremely tired of some behaviors. I do understand that some people aren't lucky enough to be born with a great brain or at least a decent one but still, it annoys me that they can't understand some simple things."

      I think you were conflating two issues in your mytake, the issue of racism and how it affects peoples aesthetic standards and also the idea of blaming someones rejection of you on racism.

  • Of course racism has nothing to do with aesthetic.

    Is someone complaining?

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  • Rascim is a joke... I would never take it
    I will treat anyone based on their individual acts, that's it.. I never look at race I don't see it, I will talk to you as an equal no matter what.
    Good take

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  • Why do you woman think you know it oh look at me I'm super woman shit I am getting tired of feminist.

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  • Racism is nothing to do with aesthetics? Everyone can have aesthetics but not everybody can be black. Hence racism can exist there.
    If you don’t like someone because of their race and funny culture/ religion relating to their race then yes it’s racism. You don’t like that person because your discriminating against them. = racism. Aesthetics got nothing to do with it. Wth?

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    • This is no different to people saying “it’s not racism it’s a preference” bs it is. Just another excuse.

  • You will notice it's the idiotic feminist left and the transsexual communities that try to push for classifying personal preference as racist, sexist, homophobic, and transphobic.. when in reality they are just idiotic NPC's

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    • awww someone down voted me for telling the truth.. How expected of you.. Keep the down votes coming cry babies.

  • WHAT? How can you not find white people attractive? Everyone finds white people attractive. LOL
    I'm sad to hear that, 'cuz you look cute. Oh well.

    But yeah, I agree with you. I shouldn't have to explain why I don't want to date black and Asian women. But I see how it might seem racist to find Asians ugly. But that doesn't mean I hate Asians, just their looks. I know they can't help what they look like, but I simply don't find slid eyes attractive. That doesn't make me racist.

    It seems to only be normal to not like Indian girls.

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  • I actually had a girl ask me, three times, ‘is it because I’m black?’ after her friends either suggested we should be a thing or asked if we were. Once I said ‘no comment,’ jokingly. The second time I flat out ignored it, and the third time I slipped and said ‘I’d never date a black girl.’ She apparently went off and cried, but I honestly don’t feel bad, even though she and other called me racist for weeks.

    I didn’t care too much, but it was annoying that no one would try to look at it from my point of view. I just don’t find black girls attractive. I can recognize when they’re pretty, but I personally just don’t find them attractive, physically. Not sure why. But I totally understand where you’re coming from.

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    • Wow she cried over that? What a wuss

    • @ktdec It was kind of a ridiculous situation. Totally agree though. She was cool normally but anything could set her off

  • I cannot deny that black women are beautiful. But I could not imagine myself with a woman of a different race. Even an Asian or European one. I just can't imagine spending the rest of my life with someone out of my country.

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  • Yes I agree this presumption that just because you have a preference you are a "IST" I take it to its logical conclusion I prefer a hair colour (Hairist) , a height (Heightist) a body frame ( Framist)

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  • I can see why people think it does because studies show people are more likely to treat an attractive person better. If a person decides people from insert race are more attractive they will get preferential treatment from them.

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  • WELL FUCKING THANK YOU for what should be common sense. But I guess common sense is like brains, many people lacks of it.

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  • Racism, like jihadism and modern feminism is learned hatred as a consequence of your description. Well done.

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  • That's a very great take, everyone should read it and I agree with you.

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  • The question is do you find everyone of that race unattractive. beauty is beauty, a good personality is a good personality, and a good soul is a good soul regardless of what race you are.

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  • Thanks for this. I remember a girl on here stating that she preferred dating Black guys, the comments section went wild.

    People need to mind their own fucking business.

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  • As per as my thinking racism is a great curse to the society. Nowadays it has greatly reduced but still needs to come to a standstill so we all must greatly oppose this practice.

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  • Agreed. Racism is thrown around so much that it doesn't mean anything anymore

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  • So basically not finding one attractive is not the same as hating one, correct? (Just summing things up.)

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  • it doesn't matter how logical we can get about this because people will always find another way to complain about it

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  • I am so thankful for my time in the USAF because we learned firsthand that we are all one race, human, the rest is all superficial variation.

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  • Some people I guess just don't get this unfortunately, it is not a hard concept but like the saying goes "you can't fix stupid."

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  • What you just said I always thought was common sense until I came on this site and joined twitter.

    Good Take 👍

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  • love the mytake. people dont stop and actually look whats going around them, they follow blindly what someone is telling them

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  • Agreed!

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    • Also, what are your thoughts on not being attracted to a certain race? Is it racism? I’ve heard that argument before too.

    • I believe that as long as you don’t instantly say no to someone as a friend/future lover just because of their race, you aren’t racist

  • Not being attracted to a certain race doesn't mean you're a racist and people who think you are are simple minded and need to grow up. Some people can be racist on this matter but you can't just assume that people are its not fair to title someone something they aren't.

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  • Being racist and not liking someone or not being attracted to them is completely different. I myself am the complete opposite of racist, I love everybody no matter what color your skin is or what your ethnicity is. Hell, my best friend is latino and my other one is African American plus my other friends and boyfriend are white. But, if I’m dating someone, I’d date a white male because it’s who I’m more attracted to. But it doesn’t make me racist or not like people. I just have a preference, as does everyone on the planet. And sure, some people are highly racist and retarted for not realizing the century we live in but they can go screw themselves ‘cause no one cares what they think. Grow up and learn we’re all human and equal.

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  • I agree.
    I have nothing against south east Asian people, and most of the ones I've met were nice people. On the other hand I could never be sexually attracted to them for some reason. I don't think they're bad people or that I'm superior to them, I'm just not physically turned on by some of their distinctive traits. Having said that, I've seen many women that I found beautiful from that general area, but I'm just not into it sexually. And I've heard a lot of butthurt people be mad about this.

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  • Just like how having a preference in race isn't racist. I personally like black guys and white guys but don't really like middle eastern and brown Asian (Indian, Paki etc.) guys. Does this make me racist? No.

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  • So my attraction towards mostly Caucasian men is normal? 🤔

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    • Of course it is. That's your preference, that's what attracts you. You're not, like "white are superior, i'm attracted to them".
      You like their appearance, as you'd like... I don't know... red over blue.

  • Race is a social construct, not a state of one's DNA. It's based on phenotypical observations, not genotypical at all.

    Having racial preferences in dating or friendship can fall under antagonism in your definition.

    Consider this: www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...ilege_b_9066266.html

    www.thestar.com/.../racism-and-matchmaking.html

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  • That is one sassy myTake :-).

    And I agree with you.

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  • I’m not into black men. I don’t consider that racist because I don’t really find them attractive.

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    • I'm agree in that racial preferences isn't racist. It's just a preference when it comes to looks, not hating on people. It's okay to find certain features attractive and they're often more common among some races than others. I've preference for South-Europeans for instance because they've European facial features, but are also often brown and have dark features. I can date outside of my preferences, I just tends to be attracted more frequently to some groups.

  • yeah beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Some features or characteristics just are attractive regardless of race...

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  • I completely agree with that and I am never ashamed of neither talking about where I am from or nor judging people by their races.

    We all come from a country with a history, we may really have some bias to others aswell but for as individuals we are all human in the end and I don't like directly judging anyone for that.

    I must also say that I also dislike the people who gets so easily offended by considering you said something racist while you didn't even intended, some people are so sensitive about these things and they are another cancer to me, but they are not the case now.

    Great take TWIN! 😍 <3

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  • Well I am not attracted to some specific races and I openly admit it if asked but people don't really call me racist lol (lucky!)

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  • Nice take

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  • Good take

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  • I agree with this take.

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  • You crack me up bravo miss

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  • nice take. :)

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  • Niceeeee

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  • I’m curious why people feel the need to tell people who they are NOT attracted to? Especially knowing that racism is a real thing and their words can be offensive? Any takers?

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  • Well you are right but i believe that people preference are somehow influenced by media if media show all ethnicity in positive light than their all would be considered attractive.

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  • Ageeed. Everybody has their type and this "types" are subjective. For example some of my previous exes broke up with me because I am "too short" for their taste (5'4"). I do not call them "heightist" directly. They have nothing against short people, just dont attrached to shorter women which is completely OK.
    I dont call it racist but I call it a bit superficial. It is OK to be superficial but personally I do not want someone who is superficial even if I fit their ideal. So, I do not wished to be taller after those guys dumped for me for my height because I do not want to be with them after learning their superficiality. Even if I was 5'8", I would not want such a guy.

    Height, weight, skin color or anything related to your appearence is not the "most important" detail when you are in love. According to my opinion. Not everyone should agree with me, but my SO should. It is my strong preference at least.

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  • I definitely agree.

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