Why do black guys always insist on creating competion between black women and other races of women on social media?

[Anonymous]

Like, all I see on Twitter for example, is black guys saying we black girls need to watch out whenever there's a picture of a white girl with wide hips/big butt. People act as if white girls can't have ass.. and when there is one, people want to make headlines?

There's even this hashtag on twitter: #ruinablackgirlsmonday where all you have to do is post pictures of non-black women with a big ass. The whole concept is pretty much trying to have us worried and feel intimidated whenever we come across it. And what I find funny is that if we black women came up with a #ruinablackboysmonday and posted pictures of other races of men with their fathers around, then we'd be called racist. Or better yet, posting pictures of other men's penis just to prove that black men aren't the only ones who can have it big.

This one black guy even said "If anything, black girls need to be watching out for latinas. They are the ones winning".

By the way, when they say, *Watch out* = you aren't the only one who can have a big ass, etc.

Like, why do black men and everyone else have this thing where everyone should stay cool, calm, and collected, but us black women need to sleep with one eye open regarding women and their looks?

[Anonymous]

I hate social media. I'm so glad I don't have a Twitter anymore.
Honestly, Hispanic and black guys are always circulating pictures of girls saying "oh she's so bad" and if she's Arab, they're like "ARAB GIRLS ARE BAE! THEY'RE THE BADDEST!" If she's white they do that... same if she's Hispanic.
I guess Because its the popular notion that black girls are the curviest but that's just a lie- all types of women are curvy. I'm tired of this generation talking about race like breeds in a dog. Like "I want a badass Latina" or "I want an Asian wifey" stfu! Why?

[Asker]

Exactly! Black men aren't all that good looking themselves tbh for them to be stressing over what a girl looks like.. but as soon as women craze over something like asian/white guys having a big dick (opposed to the dumb stereotype that these men hardly ever do), then they'd be hurt and crying themselves to sleep.

If we black women "ain't shit" then why do guys always try to size us up with other females? Trying to wrap my head around this

[Opinion Owner]

I think its because in the media white girls and exotic girls are seen as the most "desirable. " so they think they're all bad if they can get one.
And honestly most other races don't want black guys so they act like they've struck gold if a nonwhite girl wants them. Guys want what they can't have.

[Opinion Owner]

Its all stupid because there are attractive people from every race and why limit yourself to one?

[Asker]

But I'm confused? When non-black women say they like black men, WHICH ONES ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT? Because I've seen waaaay better non-black men here and there, and I can't understand why/how.. you know what never mind lol

I agree with you though. I'll just sit back and wait on how salty black guys will look when the "exotics" won't be there to support them getting shot for no reason..

[Opinion Owner]

Agreed 100%. Where I live though blacks only date blacks, but they idolize other races. Its sad.

How old are you? People will mature soon :P

[Asker]

18, but the "new" balck guys aren't even appealing!

[pr3ttybr0wn]

because they're new blacks and uncle toms. typically they feel insecure with their race, but its easy to lash out at black women. they have no pride in their ethnicity and believe that putting down black females will help them fit in with other racial groups. no secure guy with any type of pride or respect will do this, if u notice. they're just trying to assimilate. I used to date a guy like this and I couldn't take his ignorance, sorry I'd rather date a guy who is secure with himself and doesn't want to be white

[Forca]

Now how many White guys do you know that put White women down? If anything it's White women who do this to White men.

Black men aren't trying to be White, that notion is just ridiculous. Black men just how more options than they used to have and feel they need to rub Black girls noses in it so to speak.

There's no need to involve Whitey in your racial spats.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

they're trying to fit in with white men and larger mainstream culture. white men don't need to put their own women down because they don't have racial insecurities. black men may have more sexual options but those same women they flex are largely silent when they're systematically used for target practice by police.

[Asker]

pr3ttybr0wn knows exactly what I'm talking about. Even when black men trash us, I see a lot of black women stand up for their dumb asses regardless. I still don't see why.

[Anonymous]

i agree I'm white but i hate black guys who do that.. they bash black women because they're insecure about their race.. they put white girls on a pedestal even if they couldint get those girls in a million years..(regardless of race thirst is thirst and black men are the worst).. they "cat call" and publicly harass the most. one of my good friends is black and she's amazing i wouldn't wish that on her in a million years,,, she deserves better and so do a lot of other black women...#justsayin

[Asker]

Ikr! And black women being used to the whole public harass the most, of COURSE a lot would catch attitude when one approaches us.. I don't personally, but still. And if black guys love white women that's fine because I don't have a problem with that, you know? They're also good looking so why hate, just like other women - but I just can't understand the shit talking and screaming..

[Opinion Owner]

that makes sense... the whole "black women have an attitude "thing... heck i would too if i got treated that way by the men of my own race... they don't see it in white girls because they kiss their ass of course were not goin to have an attitude lol... thats the main reason i don't date black men. because i think they just see me as white and thats good enough for them.. what a low standard , black women are dodging heavy bullets there...

[cavmanier]

I think it's more of a joke and I don't even think it's necessarily directed at black women. In the big butt situation, it could have just been a compliment to the said girl relating to how they are comparing her ass to how they think black women have great ones. Also, many black women aren't exclusively interested in black men though right? So they have competition too.

[Asker]

Well of course black men aren't even attractive, but there is literally a sub-culture on downing us black women and praising non-black women. They like to laugh and make jokes about us, but won't be laughing when a police shoots them down.. and all non-black women do is just sit back and relax while their ego gets stroked by men who just wants to be able to say, "I hit dat".

[cavmanier]

But you're not all black women. They don't equal or define you. What I mean is just because many women find Brad Pitt hot doesn't mean they feel the same about me. We're all individuals obviously. We aren't that racial group.

[jointhepatriarchy]

All I know is I'll take a pretty black girl over a pretty white girl. The white girls tend to be trashy. Most black girls have some class unless they're a hoodrat.

[MyUsernameRules]

I don't know why. Black women are gorgeous. All women are gorgeous.

[EvilPimp]

I'm never on Twitter and trust me all black men aren't like that. Everyone loves to generalize black men.

[Armada]

I hear ya brotha and I ain't even black.

[dev765]

Thats just what a lot of men do to make sure their own race of women stay in check sort of.

[YouAholic]

The self hate is deep. They don't think about their mothers

[jwhit]

Yeah it's pretty stupid, but if you don't feel threatened (didn't know what other word to use) by it, then I wouldn't worry about it. Besides it's social media, no one should ever really take it seriously.

[Anonymous]

Many African American females have a bad attitude that African American males don't want to deal with. That's why. Its just that simple. If they were "Black-British" the guys wouldn't care, because the females in the U. K. Don't have the major attitude problems! :D

[Asker]

It's always that one person who wants to say it's because of a black woman's "attitude". Knowing good and well any woman (people at that) can catch attitude, they then go on and say, "well black women get attitudes the most".

There's a lot of things black guys do the most and many women still would cater to them.

[Opinion Owner]

If living in denial makes you happy, so be it. :D
But no race has an attitude quite like an African American woman!

[Asker]

I'm guessing you're one of those black guys that get turned down by black women so you say we all have attitudes - meh, I'll just sit back and wait for some random police to kill you off

[Opinion Owner]

XD Just by reading your post, I can tell that you are immature, and make your race look bad. I'm not African American, but my girlfriend is (Ironic that you say that black women hate me, when i'm dating one). So keep that attitude of yours, and see where it gets you. She's black and beautiful, and she lacks the attitude that many other African American girls have. Frankly, i'm lucky to have a girl like her.

[Asker]

Good for you little guy

[Jaydog666]

When I was in the usa the one thing I noticed about the black folks was the attitude of the black woman, so aggressive and no manners at all. Everything is everyones elses fault and everyone elses problem. Would push past u in a que and say fuck u cracker. No wonder black men are running to white women morbidly obese or not. Date a "strong" black American women lifes too fucking short.

[BertMacklinFBI]

probably trying to preserve whatever pride that person has left. whoever is participating I mean.

[Anonymous]

Because they have nothing better to do and they're trying to get a reaction from people. In other words they're trolling

[Anonymous]

And it's Wednesday. I bet they are shoving that whitegirlwednesday shit down your throat today too.

[Asker]

They may, but it's a satisfactory for me considering black guys only end up getting with ugly/average/left over looking white girls - but if that's winning then so be it.

[Anonymous]

Black men are the most insecure people ever

[carnix]

Freedom of expression?