About four months ago, I confessed my feelings to him, so he knows about it already. About two months ago, he began messaging me more (we never really talked through direct messages before that), and it seemed as if he had genuine interest in me. Lately, however, I've felt as if he doesn't have any interest in me (my friends think he does, so maybe that's just my insecurities talking) because it seems as if I've been the one reaching out to him more than he does to me, and today he called me his best friend. Am I reading too much into this? Or should I just go with my gut and move on from this crush that I have on him?
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I have this problem also with my female freind that I'm trying to ask out. I have been complimenting her and lightly flirting with her. I have not told her that I actually like her. When I posted a flattering thing on social media she said thanks____ your such a good freind. I'm guessing that she has not gotten the hint that I like her more than a freind? So I'm going to tell her next time I see her.
For yours it sounds like he might like you back but he is not ready to risk the freindship in order to pursue you. My suggestion is to treat him like a freind don't give him any more attention than you would to a normal guy freind.
In what context did he call you his best freind? Was he complimenting you, comparing you, teasing you... Honestly it might be nothing. It could just be what came to his mind while he was saying it. Because after all your not anything more than freinds and you are his best one that he likes hanging out with.1
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