Signs of a cheating military boyfriend, what should I watch for?

[Anonymous]

The title pretty much says it. He JUST joined the Air force. I do really trust him, and from everything I have seen and heard from friends and family, he is a great guy. I've been cheated on and hurt so many times by Army guys. My man is Air Force, not Army. I'm just so paranoid that he may be tempted while in tech school. What should I watch out for? Are there any signs? It's hard to catch the normal signs when it's a long distance relationship, and military life is very hard for both the guy and the girl.

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+1 y

OK yes I didn't trust him bec I'm insecure, but now we are fine, he has done NOTHING to make me suspicious. he's a great guy and now a great husband.

[rotcgirl904]

wow..this is kind of shaddy..not trying to be rude but I'v had family and I'm personally joining.to see or hear someone labeling military people as cheaters sets them off!some cheat but so does your every day civilian! if you can't handle him going away and there being a slim chance of attractive women around then back away from the relationship.if not your going to drive him away..

[solidranger]

Jeez, he hasn't given you a single reason to think he's cheating but you trust him so little that your looking for problems that aren't even there. No offense, but it seems to me like your insecurities are the real problem here.

[Asker]

I do trust him, but he just came from basic, and that does change you. I just want to know what I should look for in case.

[solidranger]

Yeah...you don't trust him