He's 38 he works a retail job which is fine a job is a job but he doesn't have a car or his own place and he is living with roommates. I have a good job going to college and almost graduating and then I'll be on to medical school. He is stuck in a rut and hates his job but is scared to leave it. I told him he can do it and have been supportive. I have a daughter and I feel as though at 23 I have more of my shit together than he does. I want him to step up and do better not only for himself but for me and my daughter. We are in a serious commited relationship.
That's why you shouldn't date a dude especially way older than you only based on attraction and chemistry. Ambitions, study and career matter too. If he has no or doesn't share the same life goals and you already knew that then you shouldn't complain now.
You either accept the way he is or leave which I don't recommend if your child is also his child.
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Accept that he won’t get his shit together and decide if you want to put up with that or not
This is who he is. You'll have to accept his lifestyle or go and find a shit together man
Maybe you should move in together and teach him how to drive if you want to help?
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How hypergamous, never let women let you believe they aren't attracted to your job and money.
He’s not going to change
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