Is he a player or trying to make me jealous?

[teenagedreams]

this guy who i thought really liked me just sent me a video of him at a party with girls. i saw on his friends profile a video of them standing around playing beer pong and the guy is on his phone smiling not really talking to the girls. but then in another video he's standing next to a pretty girl playing the game. he’s taken me on a few dates, asked me if i had a boyfriend, and texts me everyday i don’t get why he did this.. he asked what i’m looking for once and i said i wasn’t sure i want a boyfriend but nothing too serious and he said he can’t decide either. is he trying to make me jealous? or does he just not like me or is a player.. he knows a lot of guys like me so i don’t know if this could be why what is your opinion? he’s a really attractive guy so i feel like he could be playing me

[Anonymous]

Don't let it get to you, he may still like you. Males and females can be just friends. Would you have wondered why he is sending you a video of him with other males?

Also he asked you if you wanted something serious and he said he doesn't know what he wants either... If you have changed your mind and want something more let let him know.