Is he a Player or am I being paranoid?

[Anonymous]

I don't know this guy too well so I'm judging from what I do know about his lifestyle: He is ambitious and very dedicated to his job and goals in life. Also seems to appreciate I share the same values. He is a disciplined athlete and gets up at 6am no matter what. He is sensitive and smart and once he sensed I wasn't trusting him he tried to proove that he is indeed trustworthy. I have already made a lot of scenes, he still sticks around. I can't rely on my intuition as it tells me both ways. But I do want to believe that these facts speak for him?!?

[Anonymous]

from what you have written it seems that he is a trustworthy guy. If he wasn't a trustworthy guy he would have not tried to prove to you that he is one. Besides that, he seems to be a great guy who has ambitions. I say just trust him until it is very obvious that he is cheating. Real love always trusts. without trust, what kind of love is that? I say you need to trust him more and be happy that you have such a great guy with you. Do you want to lose him? then don't push him away. What you are doing might just push him away if you continue to not trust him and cause scenes! good luck

[Asker]

Thanks for these words, I guess I needed to hear them - yeah I should try to trust him... have you ever met someone you instantly knew he 'is the one'? That. I called my girl to say I just met the man I'm gonna marry, ha ha ha... It might have to do with all these insecurities like I need to be EXTRA sure but I'm guessin I will never find out unless I give it a real shot. I fear I might have pushed him away already. He quit taking care of this the way he used to during the first few months

[Asker]

and I wasn't sure if that was because he is about to give up. Or proof of a disappointed player who doesn't want to invest anymore... Anyway, thanks again - at least promise you're going to console me here once I post about how my heart got broken, LOL!

[Opinion Owner]

why don't you apologize to him that you sort of let him down by treating him as an untrustworthy guy? Let him know that you realize what you did hurt him, and that all you want to do now is make him happy? Tell him that you did it only to be double sure that he is the one, because you are serious about him. Well good luck

[Anonymous]

Quit the making of scenes. Only a player would stick around a girl that seemed off her rocker just because he's desperate for a piece of it. But the fact that he's very disciplined doesn't mean he's a player. What makes you wonder about that? Does he have a lot of female friends that he texts right in front of you?