Does this mean he is genuine?

[Anonymous]

I have known this guy for about a month, and since the moment he met me he has been flirting with me. At first he was more direct, but once he saw how shy I got, he started being more subtle.

Since he instantly and confidently started flirting with me without any sign of nervousness, I assumed he was just a flirt or a player. However, I have noticed that over the month he has gradually started showing more signs of nervousness and his compliments seem more sincere, especially since he is complimenting me on things like my smile and my presence all while sporting a faint blush and smile.

The other day, he told me “I think you’re cute”, but since he said it pretty fast and sort of mumbled it, I didn’t understand him, so I replied “Hmmm?”. Instead of repeating what he said he just blushed, smiled/silently laughed, slightly shook his head and said “nothing. Nevermind.”, then walked away. Also, I really didn’t understand what he said, but after rethinking about the interaction a few times, what he said finally clicked.

Wow! I wrote a lot!
Basically, I just want to know if he is being genuine or if he has just figured out what to say and how to act in order to play me. Maybe I’m being paranoid or overthinking things, but it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Thank your input! ❤️

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure whether he is genuine or not, as everyone has different ways of expressing their feelings and intentions. However, the fact that he has been gradually showing more signs of nervousness and his compliments seem more sincere over time may indicate that he is becoming more genuine in his attraction towards you.

Additionally, his reaction when you didn't understand what he said could also suggest that he was feeling vulnerable in that moment and didn't want to risk being rejected or embarrassed. This can be a sign of someone who is genuinely interested and invested in a potential relationship.

Ultimately, the best way to know for sure is to communicate openly with him and see if he is willing to have an honest conversation about his intentions and feelings towards you. Good luck!