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Why is it unacceptable for guys to have standards? (Page 3)
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I hate gym. It's suffocating.
Exercise is to be done outside in the open
Gym = no need
No you're not a monster. The monsters are everyone who thinks you're a monster for not wanting to date Ms. Chunk.
It's fine. No more shallow than the reasons women have for rejecting or breaking up with guys. Lost his job, too short, penis not big enough, etc...
😂😂😂😂
Its thier problem.
Live your life with standards, even when nobody accepts them.
If you live for women, one shall suffer.
It depends how fat she got and whether she does anything about it.
You can have standards, that you keep yourself up to. It's your right.
all guys have standards some higher than others. no woman cares about penis size only gay dudes.
The hell do gay dudes have to do with this? Lol.
Gay and women both are attracted to men. I don't see difference in type of sexual attraction.
Gays are both with wrong organ. That's only the difference
pretty sure women care about penis size if they care about a man's height lol, i dont think a woman wants to make love with a little nubsy dick.
three fags ha ha
The only biggest fag is you you dumb bitch. Or you could be a dude posing as a girl which would actually make you the ultimate fag. Don’t talk shit you can’t back up.
So... I am a fag because I asked what gay people have to do with the question... okay, cool I guess.
you two faggots are a perfect match
If someone starts letting themselves go, you can try to support them. But if they don't accept the help and you are unhappy, it's ok to look out for your interests.
Well, he's the truth that 90% of people won't admit.
Men will always be attracted to women with a perfect body. And women will be attracted to men with much money
I don't think you're a monster. I think you have a preference like everyone else so I understand where you're getting at. If those are your standards then I fail to see the problem.
Unless she was actually trying
If you were polite and she indeed had made no effort then she must have seen the warning signs. Anyone can say you're a bad person but in fairness everyone is different and has had different morals drilled into them
Well if you truly love someone. You wouldn't care if she was putting on a few pound
bad thing to say, if she's gaining pounds it's a sign she's not taking care of herself, if she can't even care about herself what will it be when she has to care about kids or a dog?
That is not true at all
i dare you to go and date a fat guy.
Well I'm chubby myself so I look for chubbier guys anyway
Besides I've never really cared what others looked like, I'm more of an intellectually attracted person
i don't care about looks too much but i do have some standards.
Good for you
Ur not a monster everyone has standards. But we'd still be pissed off at someone or feel hurt if someone rejected.
Cause chicks always think we only care about ''pussy'' so we can fuck anyone else but no it doesn't work out like that, at least for me no.
it's called Double Standards dude, welcome to the party (you're a bit late realizing this just now)
girls are cowards when it comes to being rejected,
girls want everything that they want to land on their lap
your decision. depending on the terms can be pretty reasonable too
have you made an effort to get her to lose weight in a freindly, cooperative way?
Well, most girls would immediately leave a guy if he lost his income ( or if a richer guy showed interest) and that is considered absolutely normal. It's only fair if guys take the same approach to a girls looks.
Good point. Girls think they have the last day in everything. A girl would dump you if you got far and not feel guilty
I think it's pointless to talk about fairness. Even if it was fair people will still will have plenty to rant about. Even if it was super fair, they would still ask for more.
And that is why I tell people women have more rights then we do. We just don’t see it
You have to listen to your heart in those things. If you think it was right, it was right.
You can do whatever you like son, except directly harming other people in this world.
I hate this site... so many shallow pieces of shit.
You broke up with her because you didn’t love her.
He is not obligated to stay if he don't want
Love doesn’t incur obligation
Nobody is obligated for anything
That’s true if you love yourself more than you love anyone else.
Im with you xx, my girlfriend got fat but it turns out thats what her new partner liked , so you are not a monster, you like what you like
it's not, i see guys lose their shit over women having standards more often.
Can't tell you how many times i've seen guys flip their shit over women not wanting to date them cause their height. And it like okay, if you don't want to date larger women then that's fine... it's also fine for women to not want to date short men too. I've said this before and still got bitched out by some guys over it.
I don't see a girl losing her friends and being called a monster because she rejected a guy for being short. She'd simply be told she deserves a better guy.
But i do see guys and other people saying attacking those women and saying their judgmental and evil for not wanting to date a shorter man. The guy gets told she's a shallow bitch and that he will find a better girl too.
You've got to be honest and admit that the backlash, if any, to a woman rejecting a man for being short will not be in any way close to being as bad as what I have experienced.
Man you got to be honest about both sides, both sides get bitched out for their preferences, I see it all the time. If you don't want to date a fat chick your shallow asshole, if you don't want to date a short dude your shallow bitch... it is what it is. Both sexes just hate rejection period.
I agree as long as you aren't a hypocrite. Don't tell me I can't be choosy about a body (being fit) while you are choosy about a body (height, which I cannot change).
@On_the_other_hand Yes weight can be change, but if we're going that route you can't demand someone to change for you in order to accept them but then get upset when they don't accept you for the way already are. You want to be accepted for your height, some people want to accepted regardless of their weight. once the girl loses the weight, then what? She can still deny you cause you're not her height preference. Not accepting someone because of weight, height, hair color, eye color whatever is all shallow.. preferences in general are shallow but that's just how it is.
I wouldn't get upset if I was demanding it and they were demanding something in return as well.
She either accepted or rejected me for my height before she lost the weight... my height didn't change. People get "hot" and walk away all the time, but they can't complain in my ear if they are whining about people doing it to them.
Yes it is all shallow but we can't hack our DNA. He or she can lose weight and walk away... all I'm saying is don't bitch about people making shallow decision about you while you are making shallow decisions about others.
Beauty is in the eyes of the holder
I personally think u were bored and wanted a next tally
Some girls watch to much porn , they think only oversized penises stasify them
I will let you know, because I have more standards than any male on here.
You can especially in your case since you work out but I hope you gave her a chance to lose the weight before breaking up
There are plenty of chubby chasers out there who will take good care of her... and the other BBW out there...
Breaking up because she gain some weight is pretty shallow. which means you care a lot about appearance more the connection you to share.
Cuz guys are supposed to be grateful for any warm soft place to put their stinky wiener.
Guys usually have low standards, this is a fact.
So true! Hahahah
Guys are pigs
No wonder they come to you then
You and many other guys will come to anything with a vagina.
You count as a "thing"
The reason guys have low standards is because guys require a lot of sex, and women just don’t put out enough
@Lofi you’re just mad you have a shrimp dick and @Race no y’all are just thirsty and desperate.
I may be thirsty, but not desperate
sure
@Race you are definitely thirsty and desperate. No doubt about it.
you're a thot. no doubt about it
Thanks, no one was talking to you anyway shrimpy.
you're talking to me right now doofus
You obviously failed English too shrimpy
passed. get your facts straight thottie
Y’all thirsty hoes always gotta say and do the most. I bet y’all average/ugly looking too 🚮. Now shut up shrimpy.
this ugly nibba can get u drippin wet like niagra falls
No tf it can’t.
bett
How fat was she getting my gosh...
You did the right thing.
I like going to the gym so🤷
women think they're gods gift to this earth
Ya and they’re definitely not. It’s really fucking annoying how arrogant women are.
We are.
No you absolutely are not
I’m surprised a guy who has slept around and said that he imagines every girl he sees naked is saying this.
I never said that
You did. Everyone can go look on my questions and see it. Don’t deny the truth.
Never said I slept around a lot. Never said I imagine every girl naked. I said when I see an attractive girl, I want to sleep with her. That’s all i said.
You said you imagine every attractive girl naked and that you want to sleep with them. If you’re doing all that then why shouldn’t we be arrogant? Smh.
Well it’s only natural to want to sleep with an attractive girl. That doesn’t mean I sleep with every girl I meet. And I never said I imagine every girl naked.
I probably said you can’t judge a girl until you’ve seen her naked
@Coolgirl235 looks like y'all need yalls rights taken away again
We are though
We push your big ass heads out of us.. All y'all do is lie and nut for 5 seconds lmao
Nah no it’s not. You don’t even know her, shows how thirsty you are. N @lofi if you call staying in the house all day while y’all do all the work taking away rights then that’s fine with me.
You sound uncircumcised
You sound 12
You must be one of the 4 uncircumcised
I overestimated your age it seems...
Yes you have
Women are more sensitive.
There is no excuse for being a fat ass
Nah health is important
Seems like you are surrounded by toxic people
Take what you can get sucka
Because female entitlement syndrome (FES).
Fat as in obese?
It is not.
Next.
Not true. Just saying
its not unacceptable
Its not
Z zpzEY
Its your blame
I haven't idea
I agree