if i didn't have any shyness in certain situations myself i may think so, but I always worry people are thinking im rude when i simply don't know what to say and am thinking, or have nothing to say that wouldn't offend them, so I just don' t speak.
I have anxiety and depression on top of my shyness so when I don’t want to hang out with people or talk to them, then they probably think I’m ignoring them or don’t care for them. I’ll never know since I’ve got too much going on internally.
Why is it rude when someone tells you the truth without sugar-coating? A shy person wants to say or do what they need to and get out of the situation. That is not rude, that is efficient!
I'm also 6"5 and have dark skin so you're gonna have some people who would even have more biases against you. Even black women judge their own kind. LOL
I keep getting women telling me to hurry up at grocery stores. I try my best to be fast but touching me and being rude to me really doesn't help my anxiety.
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if i didn't have any shyness in certain situations myself i may think so, but I always worry people are thinking im rude when i simply don't know what to say and am thinking, or have nothing to say that wouldn't offend them, so I just don' t speak.
I have anxiety and depression on top of my shyness so when I don’t want to hang out with people or talk to them, then they probably think I’m ignoring them or don’t care for them. I’ll never know since I’ve got too much going on internally.
Some people will assume I'm a stuck up until they find out that I'm extremely shy.
not really but some can but it really depends on their actual attitude not their overall shyness
No because they just come off as shy and timid but it's understandable.
Why is it rude when someone tells you the truth without sugar-coating? A shy person wants to say or do what they need to and get out of the situation. That is not rude, that is efficient!
I feel like people think I'm rude since I'm shy and socially awkward with another list of 99 social interaction problems.
Loud and obnoxious people are the rude ones not shy folk
I am rude af, but its because I dont like talking to people so yeah
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I have always been shy around new people. Many times in my life I have come across as a snob.
It’s social anxiety
Yes , i believe cause I'm real shy that i come off as unfriendly and trust me i am far from it.
Sometimes maybe but because they struggle what to say and when they finally do, tend to say the wrong things.
That's more like people giving you the cold shoulder intentionally. I thought of shy as more of a personality due to anxiety or nervousness.
No, either very cute or insecure. I know that doesn't necessarily mean she is, but is one signal they can exude.
I often see people mistake my friend's shyness for rudeness. It's an easy mistake to make if you don't know the person I guess.
Probably do since they're too shy to act naturally around whomever.
I just think of them as approachable since I’m a more outgoing person.
I do come off as rude to people or just very awkward
Sometimes it looks like they are because of the shyness
I come off as rude because u have anxiety and the grocery store was packed and I dont like when people are behind me and that kind of stuff
Yeah people should back off in lines! Give us some room to breathe.
I'm also 6"5 and have dark skin so you're gonna have some people who would even have more biases against you. Even black women judge their own kind. LOL
I keep getting women telling me to hurry up at grocery stores. I try my best to be fast but touching me and being rude to me really doesn't help my anxiety.
They're cowards because they wouldn't say that to me
The amount of abuse I get at grocery stores has left me in tears.
Lol helps my anxiety a lot by me never wanting to leave the house.
I wish I were there to protect you
Is it white people? I'm pretty sure everyone else is very kind right?
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