Would you feel embarrased if you are known as a stingy person?

[Anonymous]

Like even your best pal buddy of life and other friends know that trait of you but it seems you dont care about being stingy. So you often likes people to invite you your male friends or female friends to meals (not always always of course but often) .
And that happens not because you dont have money, you do have money because you work but that is your personality. What kind of person these people are going to become in their future?

Your thoughts?

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[R_ūshī]

One of my friends was like that. I hated going out with him cause it wasn't fun at all. He didn't like going to malls or to pool houses or bowling. I'd have to pay for him every time and he was sort of surprised when I was spending MY money to have MY share of fun. He once got chips, some kind of canned dip and shit ton of 10g portions of ham and then ate it at the fast food where I got my lunch cause it was cheaper. Everyone was looking at him like wtf.

I don't know how his life will be later on cause he also lies A LOT to the people who he dates but I'm glad that I won't be part of his life.

I found a new friend who's more 'my type' and wayyy more fun.

[Rab1901]

If I knew for sure that the person had a decent living, I wouldn't hate that person for being stingy but I would have a really tough time liking him/her.

That being said, people do tend to make assumptions without knowing other's stories. For example, when I was growing up, people used to call me stingy but they didn't know I grew up in extreme poverty. Of course it was embarrassing but I couldn't do anything about it. It was more embarrassing for people to know we were poor so I just avoided a lot social situations. I am sure I wouldn't have been called stingy if they knew my story. My closest friends are those who've listened to my story and were happy to spend money on me without anything in return. Now that I make my own money, I give what I can and am happy to do so.

[Asker]

The post I rote it is about a person I know. It seems he is known for being stingy but for many many years it is not a recent thing. He does work in an office and Im sure he earn money and still he likes other people to invite him in certain things or he likes to buy cheap things for himself cause he does nto liek to spend a lot of money but instead he likes i other people invites him.

[Rab1901]

I like to believe that people can change but since it's ongoing I'd definitely try my best to stay away from that person. He's what you call a creep. People who only want what's best for themselves and don't care about others can't be trusted.

[ChiTown33]

No personally i'd take it as a compliment. I'm not shy about my thriftiness. And personally i could give less than a damn if they're ok with it. I'll be on my porch drinking cocoa ( i don't like coffee) waving goodbye as they're still driving to work @ 70. While i'm relaxing and enjoying my retirement. F*** them! 😁

[Asker]

retired at 44? You are still proeductive person wshy ypou retired sooooooooooo young

[ChiTown33]

Lol no ma'am not retired yet. Still working towards it. Arguably i could retire now but it wouldn't be rhat comfortable of a living. I agree with you i'd rather keep working while i'm able. It's just a nice feeling that with each passing year the less and less you HAVE to.
Ironically i have a friend who's 47 that just retired. I said the same thing to you that you said to me. He just sold his business that he owned for 20 years. And he makes 100k a year off his investments without touching his principle. I figure i'll use what he does a little as a guide. Lol

[Asker]

Your friend lives off the interest of those 100k invested at the bank

[ChiTown33]

No. I don't actually know how all his money is dispersed. I know he has an Roth IRA, i know his wife has a retirement plan ( she still working i guess she's retiring in 2 more years). He sold his business and he trades stocks online. I know his net worth is at least 1.5 million

[razelove]

Hell no, everyone knows I'm stingy with my money, but generous with my time, help, and spreading hate and discontent to anyone who would hurt them.

[Cynicaldreamer]

No! My friends and family KNOW I'm frugal and I don't care! I only spend it on things I really want or need and save the rest.

I rather be known as stingy than someone that's always broke or living paycheck to paycheck. It's called being responsible and knowing how to manage your money.

[Phoenix98]

No because I'm purposely trying to be stingy right now I've got about 4-5 grand worth of medical debt I'm trying to pay off in 5 and a half months I need to be stingy.

That being said I still always a pay my dues.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I can't truthfully answer that cuz I'm not stingy, but been on the flip side of that. If you stingy, that's one thing. But then, don't let others treat you either!

[Kurαȷ]

I'm not stingy, I buy myself all the things I want.
Other people, what the fuck do they want with my money?

[andreasderjuengere]

I AM known to be stingy. It's my 'philosophy'.
I see no reason to feel embarrassed about that, because I am not obliged to explain or 'excuse' my 'way of life' to others.

[MackToday]

No because people often waste their money. Just means I have discipline they lack.

[bulletbob555]

The only people that complain about it are the ones that don't have it or want some of it. I've never met anyone rich that got that way giving away money. Warren buffet is an exception but he had a lot when he started giving it away

[Anonymous]

Most people won't tell you what they think of you that way. But no, I am who I am. I don't care much about others opinions. I couldn't change them anyway.

[TahoeHiker]

Heck yes. Fortunately, I'm the complete opposite.
Now I am embarrassed having a brother who is the stingiest person on the planet

[Liam_Hayden]

Wouldn't bother me at all. I'm thrifty and disciplined. Broke losers can call me "stingy" all they want but I won't be eating cat food in retirement.

[MoscowMitch]

I'm not stingy, I just hate spending money. All my friends know this, plus a lot of people who aren't my friends for some reason. It's no more embarassing to me than my ugly face and skinny physique.

[askuser]

Yes, I try to be a very giving person. It just feels better.

[pizzalovershouse]

only if I dint help friends in time of need that help me

[COMMODOREII]

Yes. But then i am pretty generous. Too much my friends often say.

[nailu]

I’d rather be broke (which I am) then stingy (which I hope I’m not).

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You should be embarrassed as I would feel embarrassed. Stingy people are pathetic individuals.

[Anonymous]

No, I'd change. That's exactly what I did. It's not ok to be like that.

[Cherokeehp]

That wouldn’t happen cause I’m not stingy.

[douride2]

I prefer to be called thrifty. LOL