I hate having boobs and a feminine body shape?

[Anonymous]

I'm very comfortable in my gender and I love being a girl but I hate having boobs and curvy hips. I'm quite skinny so it's not a matter of weight but I hate these things they just make me feel uncomfortable. I think a body with more muscle, narrower hips and less curves would just be more efficient? Also I know that the purpose of these features is to have and feed babies and I've always hated the idea of having kids. Is there something wrong with me?

[SoWhatHuh]

I used to hate the idea of developing breasts when I was younger, I started puberty later than most of my friends and breasts totally seemed uncomfortable, I wanted to do archery too so they'd be a nuisance. When my breasts strated getting noticeable I was so conscious my figure got bad lol I was walking hunched over...
Now I'm much more comfortable with having a feminine body and actually I'd rather my breasts just grew a bit more. I'm still hating the idea of bearing and feeding a kid though. It's disgusting to me now but perhaps with hormones and all we'll come to accept such concepts as normal one day.

[SoWhatHuh]

What I'm saying is that's normal we actually have developmental stages you can check Freud and Erikson's (I think that was his name) theories, might be of help about this matter

[Asker]

Thank you, sounds a lot like how I feel

[shreya2000]

I think boobs are very beautiful creation of God for women body. Boobs are things by which sweetness of women shown. Boobs are small or large but it's always attractive area of women body.
When men see women first focus of them go at boobs.
Don't feel uncomfortable with boob. Feel proud with it.

[LEADFOOTboi]

yes... it's something we can judge very quickly XD

[Twalli]

My girlfriend and I don't want kids either. Most girls are insecure about their body. The thing is, guys like naked girls. It doesn't have to be a girl they like. If she's naked a guy will probably like it. So guys will like how you look naked regardless of how they feel about you. As for not wanting kids I think you can find guys who feel the same way. Some guys like me got a vascetomy early so the kid thing is no longer a possibility.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I don't think their dilemma was about guys horniness, more of how she feels in their own body

[normalice]

No, it makes sense to want to become better at the things you aren't naturally good at. Unfortunately when it comes to physical things, while there are work-a-rounds to just about every physical disadvantage, the outcome of every competition is determined by genetics. I'd strongly encourage you to try anyway, but maybe also study a lot for the sake of having a fall back..

[Mystic_Nova]

Not really. You just have preferences that your body didn't supply you with naturally. But you can gain muscles on your own hun bun, but it will take time and effort. As for narrow hips, there's not a lot you can do and boobs suck. I feel you.

[Mystic_Nova]

And more efficient? Thatbdepnds on what you mean by efficent. Having curves hasn't really denied a woman from doing anything lol

[MrAnsari]

you should feel proud on having boobs.
they are gift for you.
they are very sweet and very cute.
ask those girls who are flat chested, they are so desperate for boobs, they do implants to get boobs. you are lucky to have them.

[Skxndi]

can confirm, I'm a pancake and I'd die to actually have something there lmao

[Asker]

@Skxndi I'd swap gladly

[Grkgod12]

Nature has gifted you with a healthy body and mind!
Perhaps try to embrace?

[OpenWine]

no how about you just do a lot of workout then. beware of your age there is a certain age you must have to actually push weights without deforming your body I don't know how old you have to be but you can easily find the info if you look for it

[Here4now]

Now in my 30s, it’s like my boobs have gotten bigger. It annoys the crap out of me; I hate being self conscious 😣

[BulletproofNY]

Hmmmm I thought women wanted big boobs.. why are you annoyed by it?

[Here4now]

@BulletproofNY It’s annoyingly to be talking to a co worker and their eyes go straight to my chest. So now, I have to wear slightly baggy shirts.
I’m still the same thin/lean body frame as my twenties, thankfully.

[BulletproofNY]

Well I can understand that. But you can’t deny it’s a great asset that guys love.

[Daniel_Dano]

Sorry but that's how girls are built , even if you take a ton of testosterone injections you will still be softer than average men.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No. That understandable. Ineptitude is the true killer, I embrace it

[IlyaTheImpaler]

You need more homework.

[shreya2000]

No, she needs good suggestions not home work

[KrakenAttackin]

@shreya2000 No, she is attention whoring. "My body is too booming, somebody help me". She needs to stop.

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin I don't really know what you mean but I asked this question because I thought someone could give me advice not for attention, I wouldn't have done it anonymously if it was for attention

[KrakenAttackin]

Look, your body is just a vessel to carry your mind. Focus on your mind (education, hobbies, experiences, volunteer, etc.) and you will draw the right kind of people and the right kind of attention.

[LEADFOOTboi]

you are denying your biological purpose...

[Asker]

Everyone's biological purpose is technically to reproduce but I think that if it was something I'm meant to do I'd want it

[LEADFOOTboi]

sometimes you gotta do what you don't wanna do... but that's not the discussion for this topic... XD... your opinion might change some time, you never know... a lot of ladies sometimes get BABYFEVER... one gal i know has had BABYFEVER all her life tho... XD

[Iron_Man]

Are you a lesbian just curious?

[Asker]

Nope, definitely straight

[Iron_Man]

Great 👍

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, there is a lot wrong with you.

[shreya2000]

What's wrong with u!

[Numbnuts89]

i dont want kids. i HAVE to

[BillysBabe]

Nahhh