Why am I always the target of teasing and bullying? What do I do to change that?

[Anonymous]

Since I was a child my classmates criticize me for everything, I have changed schools 6 times and everything remains the same.
the classmates with whom I currently study before made fun of me for being very skinny and gave me ugly nicknames such as: the weakling, stick, anorexic and things like that.
Now I'm fattening and they started calling me a pig and other things.
I feel bad because I have developed eating disorders because of this and I no longer know what to do with my body because I always look unpleasant.

And the thing is that I can't say anything in my living room and they always freak me out for just opening my mouth and they criticize everything in me, the other day I said that my favorite color was gray and they called me a phenomenon, weird insect and that I've never had neurons and they detonated bullying for so little 😞

on another occasion my so-called friends began to make cruel jokes about me, saying that when I left school they would see me picking up the toilet papers and that they would go by in their cars making fun of me and then they started pushing me and I just left because they were many and I am not in physical condition to defend myself because I have a hernia.

Also when I'm going to talk to someone on Facebook and the conversation starts and they ask me a question like: what do you want to study? and I answered psychology and he sent me an audio saying in a rough voice: what you need in a psychologist, idiot.

my parents tell me to hit them and the teachers don't believe me.

But the only thing I want to know is: why is everyone like this with me? did I do something wrong?
Why does everyone see in me a bag to hit and humiliate?

Updates

+1 y

It is not because it is new, there are new ones that fit the first day.
But to all the schools that I go they bully me and the older I am, the more they do it because they already know me thoroughly and they know how weak I am physically.

[Anonymous]

One word: Immaturity. You are far more mature than them and you don’t even realize it. They can’t see past the surface level of things. All they see is a vulnerable kid… They don’t see the nice kid, the good kid, the smart kid, the mature kid that you are.
I don’t know your exact age, but that’s what kids in school do. They bully, they hurt people, they destroy confidence. They feel better about themselves when they do that because deep down, they know they feel like shit.
Try to get some things on video or recording then show proof to the school so they can at least do something.
You shouldn’t fight back, that won’t get you anywhere. Don’t follow parents advice on that one.

[dustybiker]

Bullies will universally pick on everyone once. They stop and move on when it doesn’t work. If a bully says something agree with them. It deflates the attack. Or make a joke and deflect. You have to think of battle strategies. Don’t fight back necessarily, as they have already picked on you and gained ground. The deflection and deflation is what you are after at this point. Pretty soon they will bore with you and pick on someone else.

[Asker]

I've tried to do what he tells me and it didn't work either, that just makes them laugh out loud, it seems to make them happier.

[dustybiker]

You misunderstood. Are there any kind popular kids you can befriend? Someone who can teach you how to handle them in person?

[Asker]

not really, I'm extremely shy and nobody wants me in that class and those who treat me for hypocrisy are mean to me

[dustybiker]

Hang in there. Maybe join a school club or other that would keep you out of the school recess zones a bit more and gain more friends?

[AngelMegumin]

Cuz u r new and have no particular trait to show in a new school. Besides, u r at school, so its at least optimiatic to expect maturity there.

[Cleo12345]

Sometimes there isn’t a reason the fault is always with the bullies- it might be time to take a bit of time-out from school and do a bit of home schooling instead. If you have developed eating disorders then you might need to take some time-out from a school environment and work on your mental health, build up your self esteem and confidence. Schools can be cruel places and they are getting worse unfortunately.