Based off what past relationships lacked, what's something you were told you should give more of? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2021-12-14T19:51:57Z

I think i put in a lot of effort when in a relationship. I’m pretty good at communicating, seducing/loving/caring and dropping things if my partner needs me. I try to hear them out and give them what they want. But i know i slack in the department of taking couple’s pics, playing video games as a couple, traveling around the states/countries, dressing up and being more sexually experimental. And tbh, i dont really give a damn. It is what it is. Im unlikely to change 🤷♀️ I mentioned already that I really dont care to do much on camera. I’ll shoot a video on occasion but not more than like 3 times a year. If its not a racing game, I doubt i’ll sit around to watch/play. I’ve just grown out of that interest. I dont really care to travel to that many places if it doesn't have the attractions I’m looking for. Idgaf about artifacts and the history of places. I’m more than likely wearing hoodies and sweatpants 360 days of the week and I’m willing to dress up maybe 5 times a year. But when i’m home, im always naked so so be it. As for sexually experimental… if it involves anything going in my asshole, sex while on my period, or bringing in a third party, I want no parts in it. So if i dont find someone whos already on the same page about these things, I’ll happily continue to slack in that department. And if i end up single because of it, then whoopty-dew 🤷♀️ #FeelFreeToList

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Anonymous
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I was told I should stand up for myself more, but that was only a result of a toxic relationship where I couldn’t stand up for myself without getting treated like shit.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Well im glad you stand up now :) screw them
  
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TheSpaceGnome Follow
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Nothing, the lacking in the relationships was on the girl's end. Only thing I did wrong back then was not being picky enough.

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Jouth Follow
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uhhh. Nothing. Everyone says I talk about my exes way too much tho lol. Literally had that convo with my new girl last night hhhaha
Sometimes I just need to stfu

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Lmao same
  
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VarddaanKaushikk Follow
Xper 4 Age: 22

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Attention To Details , A Little More Time and More Travels were things needed , that I couldn't give her

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I don't know why they want more travels unless its LdR
  
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- VarddaanKaushikk
  
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  Travels in sense that we should've visited more Places than we used to. We only covered 15-20% of India and we could've done more and I Agree. But things didn't work the way they were supposed to
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Okay yea i dont want someone who needs travel that much. Im not tryna go somewhere more than a few times a year and definitely not tryna travel afar that often
  
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Likes2drive Follow
Master Age: 57

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Maybe more affectionate is all I can think of, I agree with most of your things

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Dang i assumed you were the lovey dovey type already
  
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- Likes2drive
  
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  I am but maybe it wasn’t enough at times for her or maybe not enough pda
  
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HarryFortis Follow
Xper 4 Age: 29

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Eat healthy. Sleep a lot. Cover yourself from extreme sun and dust.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  They told you that?
  
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- HarryFortis
  
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  Results told me that
  
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- TheSpaceGnome
  
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  You will look younger doing that
  
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Nahid1707 Follow
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So, are you single now or in a relationship as you were?

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Single as a mf
  
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- Nahid1707
  
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  Okay, i remember you had a partner before that’s why i ask
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Yep its over over
  
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- Nahid1707
  
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  Glad you moved on
  
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emperor90 Follow
Yoda Age: 22

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I should give myself more time to spend with people

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Why? What do they do for you in return
  
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Slim57 Follow
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I've never been told what I did wrong so it's left me clueless as to what to change if I even was the problem in the first place

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I dont mean as in closure after the relationship but almost every girl states during the relationship what is missing
  
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- Slim57
  
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  The ones I dated never did
  
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Wowboi Follow
Xper 5 Age: 37

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Give more of freedom to take the piss. But I'm not a fool they were

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  To take what?
  
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- Wowboi
  
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  Take the piss. Meaning to take advantage to the extent, a person feels like they're being fooled
  
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Anonymous
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I was always too good too caring, I have to learn to be bad and cold.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Nahh now
  
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RobT312 Follow
Guru Age: 33 , mho 45%

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Communicating more.
i did that and it worked!

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  So glad someone tried it!
  
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Rudon00 Follow
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Communication and Time for me and vice-versa

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I see
  
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- Rudon00
  
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  Yes maam
  
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Jerre Follow
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You have good values!

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Lol really
  
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blueazure Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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To show more emotion...

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Damn this is a lot of peoples answer. I hope you show more now
  
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- blueazure
  
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  It's just difficult... But I'm trying
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Is it a trust thing or are you just shy/quiet?
  
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- blueazure
  
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  I can say... Both..
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  It takes the right one to open you up then
  
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- blueazure
  
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  I guess... You are right... But i don't know...
  
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woot55 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 33

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To show more emotions / open up

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Do you do that now
  
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Zlantur2 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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As long as they are clean I'm good

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- Zlantur2
  
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  Sorry, wrong question of yours
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  😂😂😂
  
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Agape93 Follow
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Patience

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I stay lacking that lmao
  
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- Agape93
  
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  Same lol
  
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