Like I'm 30-31 years old never been married or had kids and not even one breakup through out my life... But I don't want kids and its a life choice I have but I'm not sure how men feel about me in that area.. So anyways just cause of my age will the quality of dating life or getting married will decrease?
The truth is for me I dated much better in my 30's than my twenties and many of my friends whom i asked this question said the same thing. Because at this point, you basically know exactly what you want and don't want and won't waste yours or his time. We're always told that in our 30's as women we get less pickier but I sure did get pickier and it worked out. So based on your question, the quality of your dating life will depend on what you consider to be quality not what society actually is saying. (trust me)
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I've only ever heard of guys online complain about wanting younger girls and that 30 is too old for them. In real life I rarely notice that. Most guys go after girls around their same age. Women in their 30s are still very attractive and just hitting their prime so I don't see why a guy wouldn't want that.
Depends on whether you're into older men. 45 year old men are absolutely enthusiastic about 31 year old women.
Whereas 31 year old men... well... it's certainly still possible, but a big group of them are looking to start families and another big group of them are looking for women in their twenties.
Quality men are over 30, so you should have plenty of options. Fewer younger guys have the income, assets, or emotional maturity of guys in their 30s. A lot of guys in their 30s are ready to settle down.
And you, yourself, are in your sexual prime.
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If you build your career, you will be more attractive in your 30s. My cousin is average looking with an aggressive personality and all her boyfriends have Ivy League degrees, millions in savings, and model like physical beauty, cause she is rich and good at house work and not stingy with money.
Dangerous question to ask on GaG. You’ll get a lot of clueless, bitter replies from single men.
Dating will be what you make of it. My neighbor is 65+ and she has about 6 men she rotates. They all seem nice. She’s open with all of them and enjoying herself. Fun can be had at any age.That you've practically "never been kissed" would be a great virtue were this pre 1950s.
Nowadays it's seen as you been insufferable or a toxic bitch that no man or lesbian wants to be with you at that age.
Its one of those flagrant propaganda points posited by the incels and mgtow misogynistic types. don't fall for it. you'll be fine.
Maybe in a sense. As men get older they're less tolerant of women's shenanigans. Think of it like this. Would you pay top dollar for a 10 year old car with 200k miles warn tires and brakes and is leaking oil? No! Then why would you expect a guy to.
They don't get as much attention from men as when they were in their early 20's.
As a guy I find that I still get a fair amount of attention from the ladies even ones that are half my age - or course I thank the gym for this.
A lot of men who are dating women your age would value the fact that you don’t have someone else’s children. If you are willing to date men with children, you will have a lot of options.
As long as you’re vocal in a respectful way then you should be fine. Everyone is different and not all people are the same. You will be just fine 😇
Most guys prefer to date girls in their 20s. But you'll still find good men in their 30s and up.
Your chances are reduced, yes. But so are ours (men). The key is just being honest about that and being humble and being genuine and looking for a partner who wants the same things that you do.
Yes. Highest quality men are either married or in relationships. Also, after age 25 the demographics turn and there are more women than men. You burned through your peak so now the bill is due.
One thing that has to hurt is that many of the members of the opposite sex who are worth having are already taken.
In general I think it becomes a little harder for women at that age because most quality men have settled down with a wife or tend to be dating younger women, but there are plenty of exceptions and lots of men still single in their 30s.
Shut up and get off this site no one cares, move on and get a job you loser, start working you cunt cuz no one cares about your ur old washed up ass
Actually, technically the world decreases for everyone as time passes.
Every choice made (even the choice to do nothing) closes a door.I’m 26, prefer older women, and don’t want kids.
So I think there’s someone out thereI mean you're far lower on the desirability scale as viewed by most men.
Nope it all depends on you and what your bringing to the table
Yeah I'm not dating any one 30. Only 19-25 for me.
But there's better men than men out thereFalse. Speaking from MY experience, no it doesn’t.
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