My mom made me feel that I'm not smart enough to get with a guy?

[Anonymous]

Like I'm 31 and I got dump by a guy 41 cause I didn't want kids and he did. Sometimes my mom would indicate that I'm dumb or that I'm not motivated enough to be with a guy. She would comes off saying that women in general are very smart and I'm not and she said it in front if my dad and I felt really embarrassed...

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Obviously that’s not true and you should defend yourself in that debate. You just didn’t want the same thing as another guy , not that indication of your intelligence

[BJP21]

Thats called gaslighting, mental/emotional abuse, and it ends now. Who give a shit what your mom thinks.

[boggboss]

Seems u should not stay around her

[Asker]

Its complicated out of no were and its hard how to react to the things she says in front of my dad cause my dad usually doesn't mind my life decision since he is the opposite of me but doesn't mind

[Chelsdope0]

Find a passion.

[Asker]

I have a passion already abd make money from it

[Chelsdope0]

A guy will love you for you. I’m not the smartest but it’s okay. Also your mom may be jealous or something

[Asker]

Okay and thank you fie your time and opinion, have a great day

[art84]

Your mom sounds like a negative person.

[Anonymous]

Tell mom to mind her own business.