Is this the normal reaction of someone that doesn't care about meeting new people anymore?

[Anonymous]

Obviously I have undergone too much BS and someone trying to scam (I ended up scam baiting him) me two months ago.

I'm tired of men on chats that ghost me but then weeks-months later expect me to be available for them whenever they want to and randomly call (not even asking if I'm even available). I'm tired of fake people, tired of people not following their promise and tired of so called friends that ghost you too. I'm tired of everyone ghosting you. Today I really thought the clinic was calling me about an important appointment and instead when answering, it's some guy I don't even know, we likely only texted twice, I get ghosted and then he calls with a stupid seducing tone. I send him to hell and told him ''I ain't got time for this, I expected a call from the clinic, bye'' and immediately blocked him.

I just don't care about meeting new people anymore. I don't know about anyone besides my very selected friends and family. Is this a normal reaction? I'm 36 and sometimes feel indifferent towards anyone that wants to meet me. If someone tries giving me a flower, I'll likely throw and give you an attitude about it.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel frustrated and disillusioned with the process of meeting new people, especially if you have experienced a lot of disappointment, betrayal, or ghosting in the past. It's normal to have boundaries and to prioritize your own well-being and comfort, and to be selective about who you let into your life.

However, it's important to remember that not everyone is the same, and that there are still kind, genuine people out there who are worth getting to know. While it's okay to take a break from actively seeking out new connections, it's also important to remain open to the possibility of meeting someone who aligns with your values and interests.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or burnt out, it may be helpful to take some time for self-care, such as practicing relaxation techniques, engaging in hobbies or activities that bring you joy, or seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can help you process your emotions and experiences. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and that it's okay to set boundaries and make choices that align with your own values and needs.

[Anonymous]

it sounds like you have bad taste in men and have failed to understand what hookup sites are all about despite a lot of experience. I think your reaction is normal b/c reems of women do the same thing. I think you should just learn to be happy being single. Not everyone is cut out for marriage in this world.

[Asker]

yeah I'm tired of too much BS. Nowadays if a man starts off with his ''The flowers are red, the sun is wonderful, my love'' (the typical lovebombing BS, the elaborated line about love and sweet things)... my immediately reply is ''Ok mister what's the catch, sex or money or both''?