Do you have a secret you want to get off your chest?

[Anonymous]

Mines is that I want to be pregnant. My boyfriend doesn't know this. He thinks I agree with him on not wanting a kid right now but if I had my way we would not be using condoms.

[PositiveFlight]

That’s not a bad thing. The world tries to denigrate pregnancy and motherhood but I think it’s natural and beautiful. And sex can be amazing getting there too. It’s the thrill of making a baby together while making love 😍

I’m sad that he doesn’t sound like he wants to be a father though. It takes two to go down this road the correct way and for the well-being of the child

[Asker]

That's exactly how I feel. I wish he felt the same way for it certainly does take two to go down the road the correct way and for the well-being of the child.

[PositiveFlight]

I absolutely wish and hope for the best for you. ❤️‍🩹

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah my wife bought a dozen of Krispy Kreme donuts one night. There was seven left when we went to bed. And in the morning they were all gone because I ate them all and blamed it on the dog.

[TrueConfection]

😂😂😂
Did she believe your story?

[lorenzomichael]

Not really

[jennifer_bloom]

I have a long list of guys I find attractive that are taken. But if one of them gets widowed by a health or life disaster, I would jump on the wagon to connect with them. My list of attractive guys I like are hidden cause it's rude to be interested in taken guys. I don't even have them on my friends list but I've googled them and I know they are taken. But if they are one day widowed, I will jump in line if I'm single.

[bowenw]

I suggest you find a way to tell him what you really want so you don't have major regrets in life.

[Asker]

I wish I could tell him but he's so hellbent on it not being the right time. I just don't want to freak him out and have our sex life be awkward.

[bowenw]

Has he said when it will be the right time?

[Asker]

No he hasn't

[bowenw]

Having kids is a super important thing to discuss so you are sure you're on the same page about it. It shouldn't be avoided in my opinion. The next time he says he doesn't want kids right now you may want to ask him when specifically will be a good time.

[Asker]

Ok I certainly will! Thanks!

[bowenw]

I hope he can have a serious conversation about it without getting upset.

[Asker]

Well I just told him about it and he freaked out like I thought he would.

[bowenw]

Hopefully he will want kids someday and not string you along until it's too late.

[Asker]

Yes hopefully so.

[bowenw]

I hope it all works out the way you want.

[Asker]

Thanks! I hope so too!

[bowenw]

Has he ever given you a reason why it's not a good time?

[Anonymous]

I hate the fact that I'm attracted to white men. My love life would be much easier and happier if I only liked black men.

But I guess I can't change that... 😔😔😔🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[Yannishka]

No I take those to the grave or I might meet that grave sooner.

[TrueConfection]

Sometimes

[MementoMori777]

No..