Have you been more bold or more reserved in terms of making moves this year? In what way?

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Romantically, yes . But idiotic moves apparently. Too many moments of acting before thinking. Like, thats not me… I don't know what came over me but a month of fckups was enough. I had to get back to my old ways again of placing logic before emotion. It just works best. The go with the flow bullshizz ain't for me . Work-wise, no.  Being screwed over has definitely reserved me a bit. At this rate, I’m settling for shit I know I won’t stick around for. Sucks but its a dog eat dog world, and I’ve grown tired of running #FeelFreeToList

Fabiloso · Accepted Answer

I moved out with a friend and finally onward from family. Partially finally enjoying some freetime. Partially not knowing what I really want with life as much. Feeling like another big move needs to be made soon. I hate this position, it also spawns these dreams of like paths I could take I guess. I got married last night and was running a store in a wherehouse. I knew the girl I married but she had paid to have her body changed to look like someone else. So she was different everytime I saw her. I was also in a wheelchair at one point. I wrote raunchy messages on a giant wedding card that I assumed would just stay in the bedroom for the first night or something but apparently was actually about to be displayed for the ceremony. My brother was next to write on the card and at the end of his message just abruptly wrote "NOPE!" as his writing reached my raunchy note on the card. Lmao all I remember from the note is like " No chance I'll never be tired of you... Wet, willing and able." Something about fucking on all the tables before and after the ceremony lmao. And somethin about how I'm gonna put all my love down her throat and make her swallow... Like I don't know if I'd actually word it like that but I was very pleased with the accomplishment. The message was lengthy. I feel like I'd pre written it like, it was supposed to be like more personal vows I thought or something.

Just crazy how specific my dreams get at times like this. I woke up so ready for that life too though it's insane. So, but ye I do plan on a bolder path. I like to keep things moving and changing, just so many possibilities.

iron_ninjs · Accepted Answer

Romantically reserved, job vise bold. Asked for a raise, and got one. Romantically reserved, because last year I was bold a few times, and it didn't go well. Now, I'm taking my time.

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

I’m already in a relationship so that’s out the window.
But I definitely have been more direct in terms of making my intentions known at work. I used to shy away for a long time and end up disappointed with others. So I’ve pretty much been playing my job role with the support of admin and it definitely feels much better.

Dinklex3 · Accepted Answer

Bold AF. Didn’t like some leadership at work so I had to be assertive borderline aggressive to not get screwed over. Informed them they were gaslighting and being manipulative. Had to threaten them with a report 😅

Lynx122 · Answer

More bold I guess. I feel like I'm more in control of my life than ever before but it's also difficult because I still have limitations. I can see things better and plan better but with execution I'm still disabled so I need to be careful. Right now I'm dealing with a lot of new things so I'm just getting by and doing as much as I can. I'm a it off balance but it's ok.

Vikkrram · Answer

As i said Dizzy that i just messaged a girl and said sorry coz i thought it was needed for my guilt but after that i and her always avoid each other. Just want to get away from the place where we are from. I don't have any hard feelings for her but really i don't want to face her anymore. That's it

ohsheeT · Answer

my world's been crazy for the last past six seven eight months in one sense there's so much going on and then another sense there is nothing going on and I'm losing it LOL that's what it feels like anyway but it's just too long of a story to get started on I think in a while probably by the end of summer hopefully things will get back to normal and I can make another plan

Simslover92 · Answer

I guess I would say more bold as I got into my first real relationship. Work wise I am finally doing something worth talking about as it is a career and not just a job but I just wish I liked the job or maybe it's just the people I don't particularly like and mesh well with.

AlexEfron · Answer

Nah. Tired of all that. I'd rather not try. Also I lost contact with almost everyone. There's hardly anyone whom I can call a friend. Forget about romantic partners. I have given up on friendships, relationships everything. Whoever wants to stay can stay, whoever wants to communicate and put in any effort - feel free to, I will reciprocate. If not, then I won't waste your time.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I have people I’m interested in but have not initiated any dates with them, because I don’t want to make a choice til I’m certain. Also they may not be certain about me either.

Anpu23 · Answer

This year has been full of ups and downs. Lost my position with the factory, took a position with a startup with all of the things that go with all of that. Fortune favors the bold, and we will see if it leads to success or just a mess.

RavVid · Answer

A lot more reserved. Haven't recovered from covid lock downs and don't go out much. Plus the people I used to hang out with aren't going out much either.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'd say I'm overall more assertive, aggressive (not in a violent way) and bold also am 100% an asshole according to my friend. But that's why we're friends so *shrugs*

Matt-G · Answer

Reserved in everything this year, so far, but I'm looking at going to re-train which might put my current (shitty) job at risk since I'll be burning the candle at both ends. working nights and studying days.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I confessed to a girl that I was interested in her, but it didn't go anywhere. So that just pissed me off lol, because what's the point? I should have kept my mouth shut like I normally do.

Anonymous · Answer

No I'm done with romance. But yes I've ventured out into my own business. I've already earned a good living now to this point but now I'm ready to make my first million. Everything is going to plan so far.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I've been more bold in terms of work. I've been meeting with new contractors trying to start a business relationship with them.

the_sinner · Answer

I’ve been reserved both romantically and career wise this year.  I was at least hoping to get bolder career wise this year but the recession has forced me to hold on to my current job.

AdithyaR · Answer

Well I work from home and only step out of my house for grocceries so make your assumptions.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I retired from making moves once I met my husband.

JSmuve · Answer

I've been a little bolder but I can never sustain it and fall back into lazy habits

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Well I think I have started to be a little more bold with my decisions especially since I just managed to land a very good job

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'm still bold when I want. I just have not been motivated to try much this year.

PointTaken · Answer

So far I've gotten more bold. I really haven't tried anything though. Lol

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