They only notice your downfall rather your rise... They will criticise your most unnoticeable mistakes and will be rude about it for no apparent reason.
It's becoming super hard to breath from all the stuffiness 🥴😫
I just think of it as a good thing. If no one had anything bad to say about me then I am doing something wrong. Constructive criticism always helps me gain better insight on how I am doing and actually motives me to improve. It gets me out of my comfort zone and helps me develop myself and business.
But if someone is just insulting me then I just ignore the idiot. I like when someone gets upset at something I am doing wrong, so I know how to better improve my product. Customer feed is what I love to hear so I can improve my business. I do not only want to hear good things all the time.
But yes, there will always be someone who has something stupid to say when they do not like you.
I think the reason people are so focused on your mistakes is because they know how utterly perfect you are, or at least, very close to perfection. They look at you and say to themselves, 'Why can't I be as gorgeous as she is? why is she so awesome? Why is her boyfriend the hottest guy I've ever seen?' Then, on top of all that, you're so confident and assertive, and so outspoken about your inherent awesomeness... so on those rare occasions that you do make even the tiniest mistake, they're going to jump all over it, because you're so exceptional.
I think they did a survey asking if people have ever had others target them for verbal harassment and over 90% said they had been targeted before, but the fact is, you can still shine above them when you don’t let them annoy you beyond manageable levels. I know many elite people with tons of friends in high places who were subject to social harassment at your age or close to it. Many worked on Wall Street and married people who were also very wealthy or equally wealthy.
Some people just want to see others fail because they aren’t where they want to be in life. So when a person makes a mistake no matter the size they take the opportunity to attack them. It’s really sad but it’s the insecurities of people getting the best of them
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I am sure there's always a reason for everything.
I don't think it's weird. Part of publicity and being on social media is being judged. What you put out into the Universe, always comes back to you. Whether you give away kindness/rudeness, you get back the same. So treat people the way you wanna be treated.
I feel sad for people who only see the bad things in others and in life, generally.
As for me, I find something good in everyone.
Yes! And I don't understand why they feel the need to dwell on it. They obviously make mistakes too.
Oh my word! Yes! I can totally relate. Like grow up and mind your own business. I don't understand how third parties suddenly developed this evil caring nature. I'm perfectly fine without that in my life.
people should worry more about themselfs less of others
s those people are insecure and jealous... they thrive on those things because it makes them feel better about their inadequacy
This is why I don’t look for approval from people. I don’t need there validation. I fail on my own, I succeed on my own. Or with the very few genuine people I know and love.
Not weird but more like.. Yep, there it is. I could cure nut cancer but the moment I get caught jerking off on a bum in broad daylight, now I'm the problem :P
People who are worth your time will encourage/support you through your mistakes and rejoice in your triumphs.
Many people like to see the bad and not the good. They're just dumb that way.
People like that feel better about themselves when they see others make mistakes. It's because they fuck up so much on their own
Yeah I know that's happening. I do remind people that's not impolite to make people feel bad.
yeah probably because they made the same ones
Sounds like how my stepdad is with me, only noticed as my mistakes not my accomplishments
Women think they can get away with it, it is not weird.
I get criticized a lot at home. Much is deserved
Yeah. Being Prince Harry is no picnic.
Tabloids exist for a reason.
People miss the 98% you do right
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