
What was the last thing you were really sad about?


This is something that I'm starting to experience more and more everyday
My mom was living with my sister and nephew and I'll just say things weren't going good and she wanted to move
He has Alzheimer's dementia and I ended up having her move in with me and it's been one of the hardest things I've ever had to deal with in my life
And one of the biggest heartbreaks I've ever had in my life.
To watch a strong confident woman who raised three kids who had it has a beautiful life turned into like a five year old and start talking to me like she doesn't even know me and she doesn't know me she'll ask me where did Steve go and it just blows me away but it breaks my heart it breaks my heart to watch her not being able to function or to think and it seems to just get worse everyday
But having patience and finding my way through it is my goal is my job. Once I understand it all it will become better.
I'm sorry your mom is suffering. Alzheimer's is terrible. Nobody should have to experience that.
Thank you very much yeah I know somewhere in there there's a greater lesson I've always been very very patient and I love when she is herself but when she doesn't know who I am.. and she asking me if I know where I went. I'm curious on who she thinks that I am in that moment I mean just all kinds of things really it's just crazy but I have to look at it as I'm glad that I'm around to walk her through this instead of a facility or anybody else really it's kind of crazy that she brought me into this world and that I have to make her life the best it's ever been on her way out
Weirdly, Sasha Nein's father. The thought just kinda popped into my head during a quiet moment at work the other day. The character shows up in Psychonauts, but only very briefly during a flashback.
Sasha's mother died when he was still a baby, and his father raised him, teaching the family trade of cobbling, but eventually, Sasha's psychic powers developed. Wanting to know more about his mother (the implication is that his father didn't talk about her much, but this isn't specified), he reads his father's mind, and, well, finds the kind of thoughts a man sometimes thinks about when remembering his dead wife. Sasha was so freaked out that he ran away from home.
So through no fault of his own, Sasha's dad lost both his wife AND his son, and that just bummed me out.
For the day before Fathers Day every year, my family has a special lunch to celebrate my step dad and show him how grateful we are for everything he’s done. Which is happening today, since tomorrow is Fathers Day. I’m very sick, I have been all week, so I can’t go to the lunch this year because I’ll get everyone sick 😭
but that is ike school kids go when they cough. only quarantine typhoid and fatal stuff?
Huh?
I had 5 dogs at one stage, but within a little over a year they were all gone. It still breaks my heart to think about them. I miss them so much.
How did you lose all 5 dogs in a year? Were they old and close in age?
That's a lot to loose in a short period. I'm sorry for your loss. It really sucks losing fur babies
I'm sorry you lost your babies like that and so close together.
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Yesterday, I part of the Church leadership team telling our day care staff that, after 35 years of operation, we have decided to close it.
That's sad. Not enough money?
We were barely breaking even despite receiving about $60,000 in grants over the past two years. When the grants aren't available, we would very quickly fail. We paid $15 per hour for teachers but couldn't find any teachers to replace those who left, so we were shrinking. Instead of waiting for a sudden and catastrophic failure, we decided to schedule a closure so that parents would have adequate time to arrange for new day care and existing staff could look for other positions.
@Ezra_lila Yes, some of our day care staff have worked for us for more than 20 years.
Watching my dog die of cancer. He was the only thing I could actually call "mine". I had him for 14 years and never had a day go by without him making me smile. He still makes me smile and cry.
I'm sorry about your dog Wally. What kind of dog was he?
He was a Cairn terrier. Same type as Toto from the Wizard of Oz. He only weighed 15 lbs but strut is stuff like he weighed a couple hundred. I miss him.
He sounds like he was a great dog
30th of August was the 11th anniversary of when my platoon lost 3 men to a green on blue incident in Afghanistan. I was with the men who died about 2 minutes before it happened and only survived coz I needed to take a piss. I deal with survivor guilt a lot but it's always a lot worse on and around the anniversary.
I always ask why was I spared? I was really bad for the first 9 years, but the last two years I have made a conscious decision that I need to live my life to the fullest, because I have the opportunity to do what they had robbed of them. Now I try to live my life to the fullest for the 3 of them too
it's been getting a bit better as of today... fortunately (=
but the one thing that makes me the most sad, is not being able to do more and help, but sometimes, somethings in life cannot be helped anymore... especially with loss, and with some health issues...
so, we just try... to be the best we can while we still can (=
The last thing I was sad about was the disrespect my parents give me stemming from childhood up until now. I had a good cry about it as I was mourning the relationships I keep wishing I had with them instead of whip lashing, confusing relationships. How one minute, I am wanted and then the next, I am the villain of their lives. They are emotionally immature people but I stick around for my two younger brothers mostly
Family stuff. My mom ain't a nice lady to put it lightly.
I'm sorry to hear that
Reading some reports about human trafficking
Always extremely sad and terrifying
One of my girlfriends, my domme, just kinda left without saying much of a word, and broke up with me. It was a long while ago, came out of nowhere and it made me really sad.
i felt REALLY SAD about avoidable heat deaths in france... sad that bus companies and shops don't invest in air conditioner, despite over a thousand heat related deaths in 2023, and average 4,000 heat related deaths per year.
only 2 months the heat is over 22c so people don't bother buying, and 4,000 deaths spread in many cities seems insignificant to the french.
When my fiancé was killed 2 weeks before our wedding 20+ years ago.
I'm so sorry to hear that.
After 30 years a cheesesteak place around the corner from me closed its doors when I was on vacation & I was so sad when a friend informed me of the news.
I really loved that place!
A few weeks ago I had a nightmare about the abuse I went through with my sister when I was younger. Both her and my mother are no longer in my life.
My late cat Trooper who passes away last year June 😿
I was really sad when my fifth ex typed me a “Dear John” letter.
What's a dear john letter?
A “Dear John” letter is a letter a girl writes to her husband/boyfriend that their relationship is over.
Oh i understand
The last time I was really sad is when my mom died in 2013
I'm sorry about your mom Ed. I imagine she was a great woman. She raised an incredible man.
Thanks Mandy. She was the sweetest woman. My dad was a great man too.
I'm an ok. Guy but thank you
Hearing about a dad that drowned his kids.
If it’s something personal, it’d be about how I look. I’m overweight and I got really upset about my body.
The inevitability of fascism because people can't be bothered to vote against Republicans at every opportunity.
A family friend died a few weeks ago. Someone my family knew for many years.
Being single my entire life, frustration of never finding mutual attraction, and that noone want's to get to know each other, but would rather jump into a relationship with someone who they just met, all because they were good in bed.
First thing this morning, hearing that Jimmy Buffett died.
Dreaming of being alone always.
Got this dream all over again always.
Had a rough 3 months with deaths in the family.
They were older, and expected but still didn't make the pain less
Big hugs to you. I'm sorry for your loss
I'm sorry for your loss, Miah.
I'm also very happy I got to know you and it makes me happy knowing you are gonna get your master's degree soon.
Not being as concentrated and driven as I used to be.
Not having any female wanting to do kinky stuff to me. LOL
that should motivate you to search.
The guy that I had a crush on for 6-7 years of my life is now engaged. I will always still care about him, and I love his fiance, but it still stings sometimes.
A police car ran over a puppy dog right in front of me. They did not even stop.
i wouldn't stop? what did you expect?
My employer deciding our location wasn’t important and shutting our facility down.
but you don't want to blame biden policy for businesses weaker
I guess the last BIG thing was the death of my BFF about 18 months ago.
Beating myself up over my body image. So about 5 minutes ago lol.
My friend with benefits was complaining to me about his ex and how much he still loved her. How he wishes the girl he was dating now could be like me. Because I’m sexy and cool and all that. But I’m not the kind of girl his parents would ever approve of and not girlfriend material. Saying this while we’re still naked together. I wanted to cry but not in front of him.
The thought of the people who were in the hurricane here in Florida.
Getting bullied by people irl just because I'm a bit different than them. Happened today. 🥺
just ignore their words, don't let it make you sad.
I'm sorry you're going through that. Just remember that their opinions are only that, just opinions.
I really don't get sad. It's been so long honestly I can't even remember the last time I was sad.
Losing my beat friend forever when she moves away.
Mine died.
My break up with my boyfriend of 3 and half years
among the thousands you'll find a boyfriend. a month is long enough to wait , after a break instead of rebound dating.
That half my family is gone.
I'm sorry to hear that.
Friend lost his 2 year fight to colon cancer.
when someone left my country forever on Christmas this year
Wasting 18 years of my life living with a narcissistic ex wife.
the fact that summer is over
because you need to go to school?
The state of my life at the moment. And tbh it's a pretty consistent level of saddness.
About my grandfather in the hospital...
I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather.
thanks. What was the last thing you were really sad about?
A relationship ending.
Really? I know how you feel :/
Meditation and mindfulness helped me a lot when I was in that situation. Have you heard about?
Meditation? Yeah I've heard about it. Time helped me. I moved on and now I'm in a new and great relationship.
Oh, that's great! I thought it was something recent lol
No it's been over a year now but it was the last thing I was truly sad about.
Whenever I discover another person that I thought liked me but they really don't.
Not being able to play Starfeild
Is that a videogame? Why can't you play it?
Yeah lol but it isn't coming to ps5 😫
*starfield
Oh so you'd have to buy an xbox instead?
Yes, but I just recently bought the ps5 so I'm not doing that... even though part of me really wants to lol
Isn't it like hundreds of dollars?
I paid $500 for my ps5
Oh wow!!
Haha yeah so it definitely isn't worth buying an xbox just for one game that will cost another $70
Seeing the news of wild fires in Hawaii.
i felt the same way people losing their homes in hurricanes and fires. i never get numb no matter how often.
My own memories not leaving me alone
I have never been sad.
my dog pass a way it still hurts
Not being able to see my kids everyday
My dog died in April
My grandmas passing
Realising I didn't die in sleep 💀
Some thoughts
My mother died not too long ago
my wife passing away
Stagnation
That I am very lonely ):
No pussy but the end tomorrow
I don't know... having no friends I guess
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