Am I the only person that finds this unnecessary?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think men should have to do this. It doesn’t bother me if men don’t do this

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It’s the man walking to the side of the sidewalk next to the road when walking with a woman

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Yeah a lot of old chivalry things aren't necessary. It's nice sure, but can be weird if he insists on it, and very weird if he gets offended if a woman does the same thing to be nice. Most men I've hung out with only really do it subconsciously anymore, so they don't care if you wanna walk on that side instead.

[DarkLegacy]

I clicked out of curiosity of what the question would be and yes you are right its irrelevant in a modern world. I just came across another question regarding gender equality hypocrisy, it seems that some think men should still have to uphold their gender roles.

Men should not have to, including what is shown in the picture. We are supposed to have got rid of gender roles.

[Staximus]

Maybe they want to be side by side and hold hands. When a man and a woman walk side by side on the sidewalk and the woman is the one nearest street, in some countries that means he's her pimp and she's a prostitute. In those countries the man always walks closest to the street so people didn't think that.

[HelpfulWoman]

hold hands?
or do the whole "man walk closest to the road" thing?
either is just up to whoever to do as they please. i prefer to hold hands with my right hand so then it sort of happens regardless.

[Asker]

The second. People act like it is so necessary to do this if you want to be a gentlemen but I personally don’t think it’s necessary

[hahahmm]

It's a traditional benefit that men gave women out of respect BUT I agree that today random women don't deserve it. He should be holding the back of her backpack so he can more easily move her body to where it can shield him from danger... be it terrorist bullets, speeding car or rabid dogs.

[DarkLegacy]

LMFAO at this. Brilliant

[Dinklex3]

Oh, I was so confused at first 😂

& They don’t have to, lol.

That was more popular when I was a child. As an adult I only met one man who did that & he was a coworker originally from Texas. He kept switching sides when we were walking together. I didn’t know wth he was doing until he told me.

[PeachyPie93]

I think it is just a protection thing, like when I used to walk with my nephew or little cousins I would always put them on the inside. I don't think it is necessary for a guy to do but if he does it, it makes me feel good.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I have always tended to walk on the side that is nearest the road, because most of the women I've dated have at some point worn high heels. From there it just became a habit.. I do it all the time now whether she's wearing heels or not!

[Rangers]

It hurts my head, every time I see a picture of couples holding hands and not interlocking their fingers.

I interlocked my fingers with the girl I liked in school when we danced together, and you're not doing it with your PARTNER? Wtf

[Asker]

Did you read the ‘update’ or are you being extra sarcastic?

[spartan55]

The alternative seems to be body checking her into those shrubs.

[TommyMountainFigure]

That cracked me up :))

[DarkLegacy]

Another hilarious comment

[ProbablyClueless]

It's unnecessary most of the time, but you'll probably be glad the guy you're walking with is walking closest to the street when it's rainy and the cars are splashing water on the walkways.

[exitseven]

it is not unnecessary. A car could hop the curb and the guy would be the one killed.

[Asker]

Why should a woman’s life be more important than a man’s?

[exitseven]

Chivalry is not dead. And neither is the Code of the West.

[Asker]

Not everybody is religious. Im not religious and I don’t date religious people so your argument doesn’t apply to me

[DarkLegacy]

Well said to the asker on this.

[exitseven]

The Code of the West has nothing to do with religion and everything about doing what is right,

[AviatorTom]

It may be unnecessary but I still do it when walking with my SO.

[BoopBoopBeep]

The woman walks on my left, always, because my right hand is used to repel threats.

[RavVid]

I don't think it matters much but I would mostly give the girl an unobstructed view of shop windows

[Anonymous]

No. But a lot of women are going to be wearing uncomfortable footwear (heels). I don't think women should have to do that. And frankly I don't know how you b****es run in them things. I'd be breaking an ankle fo'real!😆

[zagor]

Supposedly old tradition from when the man was expected to be on the street-side so if there was a runaway horse he could grab the reins.

[spartan55]

Really? Then your lady is just standing there going "waaaaaaittttt"

[zagor]

@spartan55 That was a real thing back in the day.

[spartan55]

@zagor
Who says you can't learn on GaG? 😂😂

[rebeliouse]

i thought the man was supposed to be on the other side in case someone through their bed pan contents out of the window in olden times

[rebeliouse]

wow rule city!!!

If you are walking down a street in the company of a woman or a man know that the right side is honorary side. You will let a woman walk on the right side of you or a man if he is a senior person. In this way we honor them.
This custom dates from the middle ages when knights wore the sword on the left side keeping the right side free, since the right arm was “fighting arm”.
In some Scandinavian countries they follow the opposite rule. A woman should walk on the left side, “the side of the heart”.

A woman should always walk on the “protected side”, it being left or right, if she is exposed to some unpleasantness. For example if the road is filled with water ponds she might get splashed from passing by cars. This is why you should walk on the outer side of the pavement, no matter if it’s left or right.

[rebeliouse]

The Origins of Why Men Walk on the Outside

Have you ever wondered why men walk on the outside when walking with their female companions? This age-old practice dates back to the early 19th century where there were three main reasons why men did this.

Protection from horse manure and filth: Back in the day, horses were the primary means of transportation. As they moved along the streets, they would splatter mud, manure, and filth on anyone who happened to be walking by. As such, men would walk on the outside to shield their lady counterparts from the muck.
Protection from danger on the streets: In earlier times, streets were relatively unsafe places, not only from transportation hazards but also from the dangers of being robbed or assaulted. By walking on the outside, men were able to protect women from these dangers.
Social class hierarchy and manners: Back then, social class hierarchy was strictly observed, and good manners were highly valued. Therefore, men walking on the outside was a sign of chivalry. It was seen as a way of demonstrating respect and care towards women.

While these reasons may no longer be as valid today as they were back then, the practice of men walking on the outside still persists, although it is now more of a social norm than anything else. Nevertheless, it is still a sign of respect and care that some men embrace to this day.

[rebeliouse]

Why Do Men Walk on the Outside: The Origins of Chivalry

Chivalry is an ancient code of conduct that finds its roots in the medieval era. One of the key tenets of this code is that men should protect women.

This is why, traditionally, men have been known to walk on the outside of the sidewalk when walking with a woman.

This practice dates back to a time when the streets were much dirtier and sewage often overflowed. By walking on the outside, men were able to shield women from the spray of mud, water, and other waste that might come their way.

The practice also effectively prevented a woman’s dress from getting dirty or getting caught on something.

In addition, walking on the outside started to become a symbol of chivalry. It showed the woman that the man was willing to put himself in harm’s way to protect her, and that he respected her and her honor.

The act of walking on the outside also demonstrated the man’s manners and consideration for others, towards women, and companions of all types.

Today, the practice of walking on the outside may seem outdated. However, many men still practice it as a sign of respect, and as a nod to the chivalrous values of the past.

[rebeliouse]

Why Do Men Walk on the Outside: Modern Perspectives

For centuries, the tradition of men walking on the outside dates back to chivalry where knights would walk on the side of the road to protect their lady companion. Nowadays, the reason for men walking on the edge of the sidewalk has evolved into a symbol of respect and protection towards women.
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However, various opinions and modern perspectives on whether men should continue this tradition exist.
Arguments for keeping the tradition alive

Many people argue that keeping the tradition of men walking on the outside is a classic sign of chivalry that should not die out in modern times. They believe that it symbolizes respect and protection towards women and that upholding this tradition is a way of paying homage to our societal values.

By doing so, men can show their willingness to protect their female companions and keep them safe from potential accidents or hazards on the road.

[rebeliouse]

Arguments for breaking the tradition or expanding it

On the other hand, some people argue that breaking the tradition or expanding it is necessary. The reasons for this are that the tradition of men walking on the outside can sometimes come off as outdated and patriarchal, and that it upholds a form of gender binary that reinforces the outdated ideas of what it means to be a man or a woman. Ezoic

Some people even argue that the tradition reinforces the idea that women are less capable of protecting themselves or that women need a man’s protection, which leads to the normalization of gender roles.
What women think about the practice of men walking on the outside

It’s important to acknowledge that not all women have a uniform opinion on the practice of men walking on the outside. Some women appreciate and find comfort in the gesture, while others believe that it is not necessary or can even be seen as patronizing or belittling.

At the end of the day, the practice of men walking on the outside is subjective and depends on personal preference and cultural traditions.

[MaxUsefull]

So you're not looking for a man who will protect you?

[Asker]

I just don’t care if he walks beside the street or not

[MaxUsefull]

That’s a shame

[hotake]

Usually woman has to be on the safe side from what I know

[MemeSupreme]

yeah it's why no one does it anymore lol

[Asker]

It seems like everybody I know does it

[MemeSupreme]

wowza

[NamerOfStars]

Hand-holding?

[Asker]

No, read the update

[NamerOfStars]

Yeah, that's kind of stupid. If there's not room to walk safely side by side, then don't.

[HelpfulWoman]

thats also not her issue. just the old thing of "man walks closest to the road"

[Asker]

^^^^

[NamerOfStars]

@HelpfulWoman But that IS her issue. That's why it was done.

[laly520]

not necessary but I like it

[Nikki1989]

It is what loving couples do.