Ladies what’s your biggest dealbreaker when it comes to men?

[Anonymous]

He’s a 10 but…

He doesn’t have a car/license

He doesn’t have his own place (lives with a family member etc.

He doesn’t have a stabled job/ unemployed

[electromagnetic]

My husband at one point, was all those things and I still stayed with him. I don’t think those are dealbreakers if they are working forward them.

Me, people who chew with their mouth open, that teeth kissing sound when they finish eating.

[Asker]

I’m in the exact situation right now! He lost his job and couldn’t get a car nor his own place. Been trying to help him find a new job for a couple months now, I feel like he has gotten lazy from not working because there’s no way “no one is hiring nowhere” in this big city!

[electromagnetic]

You’d actually be surprised. I’m not sure which big city you live in, but I live in Toronto and you’d think there are jobs when searching (indeed or other websites) but in all actuality, in this economic time, no one is hiring. Not people with degrees and not people for the labour market.

But he’s working towards something or nothing at all? Those should be factors you need to consider.

[jennifer_bloom]

Your grammar and spelling has gotten worse this week, and so has your boyfriend’s.

[mandyfire98]

Narcissistic and misogynistic views.

[Nikki1989]

Misogynistic and bad hygiene.

[Anonymous]

Not being clean or hygienic.