Women, what makes the decision for you when it comes to platonic and romantic?

[Anonymous]

What leads you to each decision when it comes to who belongs in what?

There must be something that lets you know I like this guy as a friend and I like this guy romantically

Or is it as simple as just their looks that makes that decision and just by looking at them you know? 🤔

[LazerBean]

Looks, compatibility, and strength of character.

The second one is extremely hard to find. Not that it make one of the people bad because they aren't compatible, of course. Just because one person refers a city life and one person because a country life doesn't make one or the other bad. But it is good for country people to marry country people, and City people to marry city people. So this one isn't really hard because it requires a lot of effort (or any, for that matter lol), it's just hard because each person is so unique in their preferences and histories.

The third one is hard because it does require a lot of effort and self-criticism. And, being brutally truthful, unless somebody has good parents they probably just are not going to apply this to every part of their life. And some won't apply it to any part of their life. But this one is the ability to see what you want, then critically look at yourself and decide what you are going to have to do to achieve it, then actually go do it. I think most guys apply this to their life in some way or another. Some definitely more than others. I saw pretty quickly that my husband applied to that to every part of his life, and that was seriously impressive and definitely set him apart.

[alice55]

It's a mix of looks and personality (value shared, for example I'm traditional so if the man if modern it's a no for me), if he's traditional and good looking and we get along then he's good. But if he's unattractive to me then it's just a friends.

[Asker]

Interesting indeed Alice on wonderland 🤔

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Their looks and personality. I like guys that I can be happy around and guys that share the same morals as me. If the guy is cute but we don't have the same morals, then I don't feel romantic feelings for him.

What about you?

[Asker]

I guess for the most part I'm similar

[Jjmetalchick]

Romantic is when the guy got the b@lls to ask me out, and platonic is when he dont say sh! t.

[Miah06]

My brain