In what aspects of your life do you find yourself having to fake something?

[Nikki1989]

Is it generally considered ethical when used for self-improvement (e. g., faking confidence in a job interview)?

[Crimsyjo]

In everything it seems these days! That's why it's hard not to yearn for that one petsin. That partner and best friend who can see the real you and accept you for who you are.

At work you have to keep your private life secret amd aspects about yourself that may be disapproved.

With family you might have to keep aspects of your relationship secret either out of pride (oh we are perfect: its not) or because they judge (tell them of one argument and suddenly they ate super negative towards your partner even when you make up) or other stuff (kinks you can't share about haha).

As a mother- you have to fake being perfect and having it all together all the time whilst inside your breaking or dying. Cos otherwise people criticise and call you unfit rather than offer support.

Even in sex: if you can't or don't orgasm the guy takes it personally and makes all about him and his ego rather than be patient and willing to help you get an orgasm. So it's easier to fake it then have to soothe the guys hurt pride.

That drawing is most likely the biggest most accurate unsaid depiction of reality ever posted! And it sucks.

[MemeSupreme]

i feel like the older i get, the less of a shit i give lol

its just about being adaptive to what's the best for you and sometimes others around you if its like family or friends

[Communicationisking]

@Crimsyjo I love all your answers because they are so real and genuine including this one but I can't go past the faking an orgasm for your man. I understand why it happens but as a man that can't always orgasm/cum/finish no matter how good it is, I'd never fake it even if that were an option. I honestly think that it is more distressing for a girl if the guy doesn't cum than for a guy if the girl doesn't cum.
My partners over the years couldn't finish under all sorts of circumstances and although I wish they did. I understand the conditions are not right sometimes, I just remember and make it up to them when the conditions are right.

Parenting is hard and your not faking anything you are just being an awesome parent ❤

[Crimsyjo]

Yeah it has to be admitted that the men's ejaculation is the full stop of sex. The end. The finale. The purpose really. Without it it is hard to say when to stop. So it's easier for a woman to not cum and still be satisfied. When a man doesn't it feels a failure of sex.

Thar in a way is MORE pressure on a man. But (I think) more rare as well? But women failing to come because it is easier/more acceptable does make a lot of men too lazy to even try. And that's where the tragedy lies.

[Communicationisking]

@Crimsyjo Totally agree except for you first sentence but also true for the most part/men.

I can't understand why anyone wouldn't strive to learn to satisfy their women, the benefits for both are so rewarding.

[Crimsyjo]

With my husband it never came up and I just was satisfied.
With guys now? I haven't had a relationship close enough where I can open up about it. Casual sex relationships do not want to know deeper stuff lile that. I've got so used to faking it as well which makes it even harder to go oh actually I didn't cum and I'm not going to unless you do this and this maybe.

How come you disagree the man's cumming is the point of sex? I know if a man has an issue it then changes that fact but in general I'm certain that's the point both parties say "okay that was good. Thanks" lol

[Communicationisking]

@Crimsyjo all men have the ability to keep going after they ejaculate and it is also easy to get aroused/hard again pretty much right away after a short breather and go for round two or more. I know this doesn't happen very often with most men but it is totally doable.

[MannMitAntworten]

With my drugs (more than one) dependent employer. I fake liking him to keep the peace. I will admit, doing this is sucking the life from me.

[Communicationisking]

That's tough mate... get outa there when you can

[DeanFreed]

That cartoon describes me perfectly

I need the sex

My wife could take it or leave it

Then my wife enjoys the relationship, simple things like toast and marmalade and getting her hair done

It sounds like maybe it's okay now that I describe it🙂

[DeanFreed]

What I meant to say about faking things, is in my job

I have to fake enjoying my work
Fake liking people
Fake enjoying going in

But I have accepted by career path and I'm just myself
I don't care if I'm asked to do something I don't like.
I do my own thing during lunch
I do my best to not annoy anyone

[DeanFreed]

That sounds a bit bland
What I would say in my defence is... I'm not going to get another job that pays so well that's so easy for me

[Katebfun]

Bring fake at work! 🤣😂 most people are in a corporate environment.

[Likes2drive]

I like the cartoon post, but some people fake it to make it, I can’t think of anything. I actually faked to achieve something.

[WonderingManII]

I don't, I'm not a good faker, plus I'm not around people anymore.

[WhitneySnow]

Love the cartoon

[Bricealan]

@Nikki1989 Can't think of anything?

[dunow33]

I fake pretending that women make any kind of sense.

[jazzy34]

Lately, my emotional state.

[SotiCoto]

Only the smiles I faked for work.

[eagle1951]

anymore that's hard to do lol