I'm Vietnamese, but I get everything from all parts of Asia. No one ever think I'm Viet due to my unusual body structure and my attitude, I guess. I'm just very Americanized, so there's no way around it!
I'm half white- half native and a lot of people ask me if I have Hispanic or other races in me. I'm quite strange looking lol. I really can't pick just one woman who I think is most beautiful. Really depends on the day for me it varies.
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im persian and people say I look russian or Hispanic, I also get arab and indian too which I can understand because that part of asia and middle east had common ancestors and mix of cultures but the russian and Hispanic I don't get...lol
I am Indian through and through and to be honest, I think I look the part too. But people have come up with weird guesses like Malaysia, Dominican Republic and even Mauritius. Go figure.
Well, yes. But that's because my parents are from Colombia and I live in the lands of tall and blonde; Sweden. XD People have mistaken me for middle eastern a lot thou.
I've heard Indian, Arab, any type of Hispanic, Southern Italian. I'm the Fisher Stevens of everyday guys.
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I'm full on Chinese but many people (in my city!) think that I look mixed (people always wag their finger at me, telling me that I probably have some Spanish blood in me lol) :P
I have been told I look Ghanian/ some Ashanti Princess. aahah. I''m Haitian by the way.
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I don't like to stand out so it gets on my nerve to have a foregin look because I was bron&raised in the U.S. and haven't even traveled to other states except one
She looks too young. I don't mean inappropriately young, which you know I don't care about ;) I just actually find her too ... uninteresting, too baby faced. I think she'll look better in a few years. And I would still say she's sexually attractive (sorry!). But I wouldn't be blown away by her.
Really?I don't think she looks young.Lol, no I know you don't particularly care about that.I can't believe you think she looks uninteresting, lol, I think she's got a very unique face, beautiful features.But then again beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Why are you saying sorry?Lol, you are you.Everybody is different, I might not like your views on some things, but that doesn't mean you are wrong for thinking them.Who is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen?
I'm not sure really. In spite of the fact that I check out women constantly, I actually _don't_ spend any time thinking about any particular woman other then my wife. Its just a 'wow, she's hot, etc', and then out of mind. Angelina Jolie, Mila Kunis, Keira Knightly ... hmmm. Actresses are easier to name because you see them for hours, as opposed to models who I don't really know. There are a lot of south American or middle eastern women who are gorgeous, but not as many are famous actors.
Do you think those women are good looking without makeup too?I think Keira Knightley is gorgeous, but I disagree with Angie and Mila, their okay, but I don't think their 'wow' without their makeup.
But my question was, who do you think is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen, naturally.Also, what do you think about this?lol it made me laugh- link
The whole gap is assuming that urge = action. You are responsible for your actions. But its a mistake to imagine that this simply means 'don't have the urge'. Its better to recognize the urge in order to manage it. Its like if you are dieting, and tend to overeat potato chips, you should recognize that and not keep them in your house. Pretending to not want them leaves you more likely to eat them.
Another example of that would be that many people like to imagine that 'cheaters' are a separate species (I've never cheated for the record). But I really think a large proportion of people will cheat under certain combined circumstances - unhappy in relationship, feeling neglected, feeling tired and or drunk, temptation from an attractive person offering both attention and sex. Its pretending 'good people wouldn't' that 'absolves' us of trying to actually take the necessary actions to avoid..
the scenario. A more realistic, tougher, but ultimately healthier and more rewarding approach is to recognize that relationships can be fragile if we don't tend to them, that people are not immune to temptations, that by actively working to strengthen the relationship and perhaps avoid some scenarios you can make the relationship happier and much less likely to suffer from an affair, that we can have better lives.
I might suggest biology is better used as a 'warning' then an 'excuse'
Yes but I don't have any urges, not sexually anyway.And I know plenty of other couples who don't and I am close friends with both partners so they aren't going to lie.Alot of people might have urges, a lot of people might not, so how can biology be to blame for it?When everybody is different?It does not make sense, it never will to me and in my eyes, it is just a crap excuse.
I would totally lie to female friends in real life, just for the record.
"A lot of people have urges, a lot don't" - that's biology. Biology doesn't mean its universal. But the source of the urges is biology - when present. Its like saying 'I control whether or not I eat nachos, but not whether I like them". The fact that some people don't like them doesn't mean that I have control over whether I think they taste good. On the other hand, being fat because 'i like nachos' is a crap excuse.
Yeah, but my friends wouldn't lie to me, plus it's not just the talk they do, I can tell from their actions.I'm a watchful person, I can see somebody's behavior if I watch them.How do you think I know that my boyfriend doesn't have any interest in other women?Because whenever we are out, his eyes never move away from me.Yes, so if its not 'universal' then why do so many people use the supposed excuse and others don't have sexual urges for anyone other than their partner...?
And nobody believes me when I say I don't, but to be honest sometimes I wish I did, at least I'd feel more normal, with all these people telling me I'm wrong all the time, drives me mad.They don't know me, my friends or boyfriend, so how can they tell me what my life is like and how I/my friends/boyfriend feel?
You feel the way you feel. Others feel the way they do. Neither is a choice. Both may be impacted by what's going on in your life. I believe the amount I notice other women would plummeting I were having sex daily.
Yeah but the people who feel how I feel are rare, admit it.Or they just don't admit how they truly feel.Yes, I think that's true, me and my boyfriend have sex pretty much everyday without fail, sometimes twice a day, so that might even be the reason why me and him are the way we are, who knows but I know we aren't the only ones with these feelings.
Its hard to say. The number of people walking around in monogamous relationships who are having as much sex as they want is, in my guess, not terribly high.
Lol, I couldn't survive in my relationship without sex, but that doesn't mean I would go off and try and find it elsewhere if I wasn't get any, I'm still very monogamous, just only with my partner.
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No...I wish I did :)...my fav. model is adriana lima is gorgeous
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I'm Vietnamese, but I get everything from all parts of Asia. No one ever think I'm Viet due to my unusual body structure and my attitude, I guess. I'm just very Americanized, so there's no way around it!
I'm half white- half native and a lot of people ask me if I have Hispanic or other races in me. I'm quite strange looking lol. I really can't pick just one woman who I think is most beautiful. Really depends on the day for me it varies.
im persian and people say I look russian or Hispanic, I also get arab and indian too which I can understand because that part of asia and middle east had common ancestors and mix of cultures but the russian and Hispanic I don't get...lol
i think aishwarya rai is drop dead gorgeous
Really?She's really fake. link
I am Indian through and through and to be honest, I think I look the part too. But people have come up with weird guesses like Malaysia, Dominican Republic and even Mauritius. Go figure.
I could understand Malaysia.. I don't get the other two though. lol
Worst bit was when an Indian asked me if I was Indian and was skeptical when I said yes. *rolls eyes*
I was born in Spain but of course I don't look it. My mom is from Spain and white, but my dad's from Venezuela and dark skinned.
Adriana Lima is beyond beautiful =)
Well, yes. But that's because my parents are from Colombia and I live in the lands of tall and blonde; Sweden. XD People have mistaken me for middle eastern a lot thou.
I'm half Greek, but I don't look like it at all except for my arm hair. :/ My sister looks it, but people always assume she's Hispanic.
I went to Hawaii and the natives thought I was native too. I'm Spanish/Asian.
I've heard Indian, Arab, any type of Hispanic, Southern Italian. I'm the Fisher Stevens of everyday guys.
I'm full on Chinese but many people (in my city!) think that I look mixed (people always wag their finger at me, telling me that I probably have some Spanish blood in me lol) :P
I get mistaken for latino I'm black Asian and white
I get asked if I'm mixed a lot. I'm European but live in the US.
After 911 it's a bad thing to be called Arabic these days..
lol is that racist?
Well, I don't get called arabic, lol.I get told I look arabic, there is a difference :)
No,unfortunately I don't get mistaken for much.Im dark skin and people guess from somewhere in Africa...and they are usually close enough.
I have been told I look Ghanian/ some Ashanti Princess. aahah. I''m Haitian by the way.
I don't like to stand out so it gets on my nerve to have a foregin look because I was bron&raised in the U.S. and haven't even traveled to other states except one
Yes, people usually assume I'm Hispanic. Then when I tell them I'm not they assume Italian lol.
i am also Brazilian, people will mistake me for being middle eastern lol
If I answer this honestly, you'll think I'm lying.
Why?lol just answer!
She looks too young. I don't mean inappropriately young, which you know I don't care about ;) I just actually find her too ... uninteresting, too baby faced. I think she'll look better in a few years. And I would still say she's sexually attractive (sorry!). But I wouldn't be blown away by her.
Really?I don't think she looks young.Lol, no I know you don't particularly care about that.I can't believe you think she looks uninteresting, lol, I think she's got a very unique face, beautiful features.But then again beauty is in the eye of the beholder.Why are you saying sorry?Lol, you are you.Everybody is different, I might not like your views on some things, but that doesn't mean you are wrong for thinking them.Who is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen?
I'm not sure really. In spite of the fact that I check out women constantly, I actually _don't_ spend any time thinking about any particular woman other then my wife. Its just a 'wow, she's hot, etc', and then out of mind. Angelina Jolie, Mila Kunis, Keira Knightly ... hmmm. Actresses are easier to name because you see them for hours, as opposed to models who I don't really know. There are a lot of south American or middle eastern women who are gorgeous, but not as many are famous actors.
Do you think those women are good looking without makeup too?I think Keira Knightley is gorgeous, but I disagree with Angie and Mila, their okay, but I don't think their 'wow' without their makeup.
Just looked them up, and yes. But I'm naming who I find attractive, not who I think is the most beautiful in a pure abstract asexual way.
But my question was, who do you think is the most beautiful woman you've ever seen, naturally.Also, what do you think about this?lol it made me laugh- link
The whole gap is assuming that urge = action. You are responsible for your actions. But its a mistake to imagine that this simply means 'don't have the urge'. Its better to recognize the urge in order to manage it. Its like if you are dieting, and tend to overeat potato chips, you should recognize that and not keep them in your house. Pretending to not want them leaves you more likely to eat them.
Another example of that would be that many people like to imagine that 'cheaters' are a separate species (I've never cheated for the record). But I really think a large proportion of people will cheat under certain combined circumstances - unhappy in relationship, feeling neglected, feeling tired and or drunk, temptation from an attractive person offering both attention and sex. Its pretending 'good people wouldn't' that 'absolves' us of trying to actually take the necessary actions to avoid..
the scenario. A more realistic, tougher, but ultimately healthier and more rewarding approach is to recognize that relationships can be fragile if we don't tend to them, that people are not immune to temptations, that by actively working to strengthen the relationship and perhaps avoid some scenarios you can make the relationship happier and much less likely to suffer from an affair, that we can have better lives.
I might suggest biology is better used as a 'warning' then an 'excuse'
Yes but I don't have any urges, not sexually anyway.And I know plenty of other couples who don't and I am close friends with both partners so they aren't going to lie.Alot of people might have urges, a lot of people might not, so how can biology be to blame for it?When everybody is different?It does not make sense, it never will to me and in my eyes, it is just a crap excuse.
I would totally lie to female friends in real life, just for the record.
"A lot of people have urges, a lot don't" - that's biology. Biology doesn't mean its universal. But the source of the urges is biology - when present. Its like saying 'I control whether or not I eat nachos, but not whether I like them". The fact that some people don't like them doesn't mean that I have control over whether I think they taste good. On the other hand, being fat because 'i like nachos' is a crap excuse.
Yeah, but my friends wouldn't lie to me, plus it's not just the talk they do, I can tell from their actions.I'm a watchful person, I can see somebody's behavior if I watch them.How do you think I know that my boyfriend doesn't have any interest in other women?Because whenever we are out, his eyes never move away from me.Yes, so if its not 'universal' then why do so many people use the supposed excuse and others don't have sexual urges for anyone other than their partner...?
And nobody believes me when I say I don't, but to be honest sometimes I wish I did, at least I'd feel more normal, with all these people telling me I'm wrong all the time, drives me mad.They don't know me, my friends or boyfriend, so how can they tell me what my life is like and how I/my friends/boyfriend feel?
You feel the way you feel. Others feel the way they do. Neither is a choice. Both may be impacted by what's going on in your life. I believe the amount I notice other women would plummeting I were having sex daily.
Yeah but the people who feel how I feel are rare, admit it.Or they just don't admit how they truly feel.Yes, I think that's true, me and my boyfriend have sex pretty much everyday without fail, sometimes twice a day, so that might even be the reason why me and him are the way we are, who knows but I know we aren't the only ones with these feelings.
Its hard to say. The number of people walking around in monogamous relationships who are having as much sex as they want is, in my guess, not terribly high.
Lol, I couldn't survive in my relationship without sex, but that doesn't mean I would go off and try and find it elsewhere if I wasn't get any, I'm still very monogamous, just only with my partner.