Reasons why boyfriend doesn't have girlfriend's number saved in cell phone?

[Anonymous]

Ok, I've been dating this guy for almost 7 months and the entire time he hasn't saved my number in his phone. He still has his ex # saved and still talks to her. I've made comments to him about why he hasn't saved mine. He even didn't put me on his myspace but he sure did put his ex on there. He started his myspace while dating me. I confronted him about it and he says he doesn't want to hear ex bitch at him about me being on there. Anyways the other day I asked him if he ever saved my number and he said yes. But he didn't, I seen it on his call log when we were sitting next to each other on couch. Yesterday I asked why he lied about it and said he didn't lie. He allowed me to look at his phone and I showed him and he allowed me to save it in his phone, finally. I know I may sound stupid or something. I want to know why he didn't have me saved in phone when we are suppose to be dating.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he is still not over his ex. He has no reason for not having you in his phone unless he has something to hide or he is worried that he will keep calling you and txting you if he does.

I don't think that you are being unfair but it sounds like he is giving you mixed signals and sorry to say it sounds like you are his rebound. He does not want to be single and does not want to get serious either and he clearly has issues with his ex and can not move on/get over her. Stalking an ex is not healthy behaviour and not something you do when you have a girlfriend.

I can not blame you for not trusting him. Sorry to say relationships do not work without trust as it is an important thing. You are also not happy which is not good. You need to be happy, feel comftable and have trust for a relationship to work.

I think the best thing you can do is get out of the relationship if you are not happy and don't trust him before you get more involved and end up getting more hurt.

[Mesmerising]

Im sorry to break it to you but its probably because he doesn't have those certain feelings for you.