It sounds like he is still not over his ex. He has no reason for not having you in his phone unless he has something to hide or he is worried that he will keep calling you and txting you if he does.
I don't think that you are being unfair but it sounds like he is giving you mixed signals and sorry to say it sounds like you are his rebound. He does not want to be single and does not want to get serious either and he clearly has issues with his ex and can not move on/get over her. Stalking an ex is not healthy behaviour and not something you do when you have a girlfriend.
I can not blame you for not trusting him. Sorry to say relationships do not work without trust as it is an important thing. You are also not happy which is not good. You need to be happy, feel comftable and have trust for a relationship to work.
I think the best thing you can do is get out of the relationship if you are not happy and don't trust him before you get more involved and end up getting more hurt.
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Im sorry to break it to you but its probably because he doesn't have those certain feelings for you.
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