Do you ever wonder if anyone would cry if you died?

[Anonymous]

My family and I see each other all the time. They are the most important thing in my life. Similarly, I have close friends. But we never cry around each other. We rarely show deep emotion, because we're always trying to be strong. I often find myself wondering who would cry over me if I died tomorrow, and I can only think my mother and grandmother, even though I am extremely close with so many people. Does anyone else do this?

[bunnahies]

i don't bother cause I don't see why I would matter if I died already :/

my boyfriend does, he asked how would I feel if he died. I said that he's already dead, what's there to feel? I mean ill be sad for a few days cause its hard to get use to it. but ill get over it. but cry? idkkk

he was upset with my answer but he understood :/

[Asker]

That's interesting, that you said you wouldn't necessarily cry over losing your boyfriend. If someone leaves a huge void in your life, you wouldn't cry? Would you feel numb? How would you react to losing someone you love?

[bunnahies]

i wouldve lost him already. I can't love, feel or do anything for him anymore. id be upsetting myself more, why would I want to suffer? yes ill still think about the times we had but that's it. I won't wonder or cry randomly because of a dead person I once loved. but I might cry when I find out he's dead because I wasn't prepared for it.

[EmpressMe]

Not to sound cocky, but I know for damn sure there won't be a dry eye in the room at my funeral.

I may not be perfect, but if there's one thing I'm good at, it's making sure people FEEL that I care for them. It's making people feel good. I realize that's hard to find and I know that people would be sad to lose that in a person.

[Asker]

It is wonderful that you have that confidence and assurance.

[EmpressMe]

thanks :)

[Anonymous]

I have instructed different people throughout my life (first it was my parents when I was like 8, and most recently it was my boyfriend) that should I die, my funeral is to consist of a taco bar.

I know my boyfriend would cry like a baby if I died. We've been together too long for my death not to have an effect on him.

[BCRanger10]

There are not many people I'm terribly close with. I know my mother and younger sister would for sure. I have maybe one or two others I can think of that might. Other than that, I'm not so sure. I have kind of a George Bailey outlook sometimes. Even so, this isn't something I really even ponder all that much.

[Ryosanada]

I used to wonder if anyone would cry if I died, but then I game up. I have told people to throw a damn big party when I die. Use my 401k to pay for it, and have a blast that I'm gone.

[Anonymous]

I imagined , more than once , how my funerals would be like. Who would attend , who would cry.. And I wished I would be able to die and see the reactions and then come back to life. Unfortunately , I cannot. :(

[TheThirdSeason]

Yea, I wonder but I don't know who would cry, maybe my younger brother and sister would, well I don't know.

[Kris85]

Lol I would hope at least a few people would cry over my death

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I think on a realistic level only my parents and sibling would actually cry. I think this would be the case for the majority of people people

[taster]

I suppose I did when I was younger...Now? I suppose someone would...only not sure who...(:(:(:

[mangetsby]

In all honesty, probably just my mother. But she also cries about a lot of minor stuff.

[Anonymous]

I always wonder how many friends would attend my funeral!

[Iamnothuman]

YES i think that sometime too sadly:'(

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah. For sure.