Almost three years. I was 16 and she was 14 when I first started to like her, but at the time I thought it would be better to wait until we were older and the age gap was less of an issue. We became best friends. When I was 18, I told her dad I was interested and he approved, but wanted me to take it slow because she was only 16. Around that time she started getting teased about liking me so she made it very clear she didn't by sabotaging our friendship and being super flirty with guys she didn't even know (and keep in mind that she was usually shy).
Needless to say, I was devastated.
The good news is, I've learned my lesson. One is don't be interested in a girl that young. Another is don't wait to tell a girl how you feel.
By the way, the girl and I are friends again. I've forgiven her and we are good again. But I'm not interested in being more than friends.
Started talking to girl a year ago, had a thing until mid summer, had conflicts, ended. I went to college (she's still in high school) started up again after I came home to visit, told her I wasn't ready to trust her again (Summer issues) a couple months later we became official in November, now just pushing through the long distance aspect until summer and next year (when she'll be at my college)
my hubby left to the US to work and stood with my son back home.he worked then started playing around getting drunk like crazy so he didn't want to come home.i waited for his calls.he would call me every month for literally a minute.i used to cry my eyes out and became freakishly skinny.finally after four and a half years he came home.yup,four and a half years I waited for him.maybe I was dumb or stupid to wait for him but I loved him and still do.
Well longest for me is probably a few days as it takes a sudden realisation to realize I like someon. However having asked someone out I'm still waiting for a decision as she wanted time to think about it, been about 3 days now and she still talks to me yet says 'maybe, can I have more time to sort out my feelings' when I ask if she wants to be exclusive.
I was going to wait for a guy for a little over three years but he didn't want to... life's a b**ch sometimes
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In 2008, a guy saved my life, we fell in love, but he got murdered in December 2008.
Every year I came back to the place we met, even though I knew there was no way he could be there.
Last year I didn't came to that place that day and I met another awesome boy.
He lives in Australia, I'm from The Netherlands, I asked him out 3 times, but he kept saying no because we lived too far away. On Valentines Day he said I had to ask the guy I loved, so I asked him to be my boyfriend for one day, he said I was girlfriend till midnight =).
Now, Valentines Day is over, and I'm still waiting for the day he will say yes for forever.
I've been waiting for over a year, and now I'm ready to just tell him. I can't deal with it anymore. I only want him. If things don't work out, than fine I can move on. However, I feel like I can't move on until I've tried things with him. He's on my mind all the time, and I have no enthusiasm for dating anyone else.
I've had waited for my first ex for 4 years and waited for my previous ex for 4 months but both didn't work out in the end.
about two years and a half. we were best friends and I thought he really did love me (in more than friends way because I did ) but oh well... turned out to be waste of time. Now we don't even talk.
I have to confess that I miss those days when we were friends :((
I'm waiting for girl for 7 months just try to get to know her and I'll still like this cause I like her so much
I waited 4 years for one man. It never happened, so I finally moved on.
But, I bet if I saw him right now, I'd fall for him again, haha!
yes I m waiting for her for 7 years and will w8 till v married.
About 7 months or so, and still waiting for him to come around.
However I still date.
one minute ! .. And go along this street !
lol ? :(
2 months
I waste no dignity
Never.
a year and a half
four years
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