What does it mean when a guy keeps calling me soul sister?

[Anonymous]

He's been calling me that for a while now in a playful way. Does it just mean I'm a friend he has a lot in common with, and we'll always just be friends? I think he knows I am interested in him but it's very doubtful he's interested back. I kind of want to get playful with him and call him soul brother back, but I'm wondering if that's a good idea or not. He always does it when we're joking around, or if I ask him something. He'll answer like: "You, you've got that right soul sister." and then grin at me.

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I found this definition on urban dictionary: Soul Sister: Someone who fully understands you. Like a soulmate, but not someone you want to marry and make babies with. The sister of your soul.


So I was wondering if it was something like that.

[Anonymous]

i know how that feels =[ a guy called me bro before. it hurts. it means he can never see you sexually at least not now. he is friend zoning you. which is really upsetting and hurts when you like him.

my advice is to tell him not to call you that, and to call you by your name, since its weird for you. or just be coy about it and be like 'soul sista huh? whered you pick that up from?no guy ever called me that before' just give him a weird look, this way he will wonder and be like 'wow no guy ever called her that before, I don't wanna look like the only loser calling her sister...' if he has a brain and figures it out...

and also may be keep your distance a bit from him, dress more sexy as long as your comfortable with yourself, and start talking to other guys. show him he's not gods gift to women. or better, move on and find a real man.

personally whether interested or not, I don't think its cool men call women soul sistas, or bros, or like labeling someone with that nickname cause you never know how the opposite sex feels about u, and also, once you have said it and labeld them its impossible to go back, like you have set it in stone you will never date them. which is your loss. less women to you.

just my 2 cents.

[Asker]

I've already avoided him and distanced myself from him before and it hurt him, so I'm not doing it again.

But yeah one guy I liked a few years ago called me 'buddy' and I automatically knew what he was doing there.

I just don't get why he is trying to friend zone me when he keeps looking at me and then gets pissed when I talk to other guys. I don't like mixed signals. If you're friend zoning then leave me alone and keep me like a friend. He got down right depressed the one day when I was

[Asker]

joking around with this one guy and kept glaring at us. Then he came over and interrupted the conversation to ask me if I was going hiking because he likely was going biking and might see me later if I was.

[Opinion Owner]

thank you for ba! but yeah my guy was similar, he couldn't stand me ignoring him, its not like we were best friends or something so I didn't get why all I can make of this is that he likes the attention you give him and ego boost, he's keeping you around for fun, I would continue talking to other guys, don't let this douche control you

[lauramor]

I think he is just being friendly with you. my guess is that he just sees you as a friend.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking too

[FiveFingerBroFist]

It seems like he sees you not as a soul mate, but as a soul sister, so you're both tight, REAL tight, but not tight enough to cross the boundaries for sex. If you like this guy, to be safe do not call him "soul brother" back. Better ask him to clarify the definition of a soul sister. Because what if you don't want to be a sibling, but a lover... you feel me?

[Asker]

But it wouldn't matter if I see him as a lover but he doesn't.

[Anonymous]

It means that you're forever ffriend zoned for him

[Anonymous]

was he trying to be racist?

[dommage]

he thinks of you as a very good friend.