Do you guys mind when girls run their fingers through your hair?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend (who I have a crush on) has the kind of hair where you just whip it to the side and its fixed. He doesn't use any products. I use the palm of my hair to mess his hair up and I run my fingers through his hair when I see him. Yesterday I think my finger tugged his hair a little hard but he has strong hair so I don't think it hurt.. though I'm still sort of worried if I irritated him. I don't know if he minds or not, I just do it, then smile and walk away.. is that bad? or weird?

guys how would you feel if that happened?

[BatDoc]

It depends on the guy's hair.

My hair for instance is magnificent. My hair is considered currency in some parts of Europe. So I don't like it when women play with my hair out in public. Now once we get home and we don't have anywhere else to go, then it's quite all right.

Some guys have hair that is easy to style, so they might not mind you messing up their hair because it goes right back in place easily.

Best thing to do, ask the guy. See if he likes it or is okay with you playing with his hair before you actually do it.

[Anonymous]

Only if I really liked her or we were really good friends . A friend is no no.

The other day a girl I knew wanted to straighten the roots of my hair because it looked a little silly that 80 percent was chemically straightened and the other part was slightly curly naturally. I couldn't get her to do it nor do I feel comfortable touching girls unless I really liked them

[Shpongolia]

Yes. As long as she doesn't do it only mess up my hair.
I love it when a girl delicately runs her fingers through my hair. Especially when we're getting intimate or just cuddling. It's my soft spot.

[FallenRangerz]

My girlfriend does that to me and I like it actually. It feels good and she likes to playfully tug on my hair as-well since I have strong hair. Doesn't irritate me at all, just makes me smile.

[aMuse]

So basically you like tease him and run away...

[Asker]

thats sort of what he did to me. last semester I didn't even know him and he randomly just came up to me bowed then ran away, he did it almost everyday without talking to me for 3 months until the last day of school I asked his name. and now we're in the math class.

[aMuse]

That's pretty odd. Why was he bowing to you? Are you Japanese or something? I don't get it...

[Asker]

He was taking japanese 11 last year and I look japanese but I'm korean

[aMuse]

ah, well that sounds like a very eccentric way to flirt. I guess it got your attention though. =P Well I'd guess if he 's letting you touch him, then he's fine with it.

[Asker]

i hope :D

[aMuse]

=D

[Anonymous]

I don't think they care

[Anonymous]

It's OK.