Questions

Ok so me and my ex had been dating for 7 months when we broke up. I am currently 7 months pregnant and we've been broken up for a month now. He woke up one day acting completely different and distant. I asked him what was wrong but he said he was just stressed. He started going out drinking and being with his family more. I finally understood that he had probably fallen out of love with me. I don't know why but he did, maybe another girl, family issues, etc. He told me that I make him unhappy and that we were better off without each other. We were together on and off for 3 years and had planned on getting married and having a baby. He picked a ring out and starting using pills to make his sperm count higher. He said he wanted to be in our daughters life no matter what. So he wants the child but the mother. I feel like an incubator. This wasn't unplanned and he seemed so happy when I told him. Then one after we broke up, he turned around and said he doesn't think y the baby is his. I NEVER cheated so this hurt very much. We lived together but he's moving out, putting his stuff in storage, and staying with his sister... isn't that a little much? He blames me for our breakup saying I stopped loving him, I changed, I started hating him, I never listened to his problems etc. I was never told about these issues at the time and if so I'm pregnant and my mind is constantly on the baby and work. I just wanted my pregnancy to be one of the happiest times in my life and to share it with the one i started it with. Now it's full of stress and heartbreak. I just don't understand what I did so wrong to have the man i was building a future with leave me...

Would you rather break your lover's heart or have your heart broken by your lover? Why?

So, we broke up. I blocked him off of my Facebook because he hurt me so much. This all happened in April.

Its now November and we've only recently started talking a little again. I decided to unblock him on Facebook. I never friend requested him or anything. When I looked on his page, all of his posts and informations were private.

One week later (I'm guessing he realised I unblocked him) he made all of his posts public. So I could see literally everything.

There's suddenly all these posts about him going out and having a great time with new friends. Posts about actresses on to that he finds attractive. Posts about new projects he wants to get up and running.

I can see the lot. It just makes me wonder what his intentions are? We are talking now and then and he's a little flirty at times but standoffish at other times. I can also see other girls who are liking his posts.

Whats your take?