Things most women don't know men don't really care about

[Midnightbreeze]

There are more than 50 things I can point out as a guy. Most of my friends and my brothers just get surprised how women think we care about some of these things.

The main reason the made me decide to write this is because of some of the questions women ask. Some of you already know but for the sake of those who don't.

Below are some of the things we don't care about:

1. Make up and imperfect hair

Make up rather disappoints us. Because if you always put in too much effort and it completely change your looks, what do you think would happen when it's not on? I'd rather prefer a woman who doesn't put on make up.

2. What you order on a date

We don't care about what you order on a date. Don't try to make us think you are a health conscious woman. Just feel free to order. Just eat like a lady and order what you can eat.

3. We don't care whether you text first

It just tells us that you think about us and wants to chat with us. Most women think it makes you appear too nerdy or cheap but no!

4. We don't really care about the size of your butt

As long as it's bigger than ours and you don't have a manly figure.

5. Men don't really care about stretch marks

As long as it is not as wide as your finget. Thin stretch marks are okay.

#MidnightBreeze

[xXiTacoXx]

So if a woman came up to you with hair like this...
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Make-up like this...
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and ass like this (same body type as mine except I'm a little plumper)...
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Stretch marks like this...
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then you wouldn't care?

[Midnightbreeze]

No I wouldn't. Hot body without a good presonality is just a fck buddy.

[Helghast_kitty]

Dont even care if stretch marks are thicker than my finger. I dont understand why anyone would ever be bothered by these.

[Someguy17]

Seriously, they're not even that noticeable.

[nalaa]

I felt a few of those were missing the point

1) " I'd rather prefer a woman who doesn't put on make up." well ya duh we know that but also know that you guys prefer rosy cheeks, big lips and eyes, which is what we use make up for

2) Ok never really heard anyone worry about that but ok. Although some dishes kinda disqualify if you want to eat like a lady. Like wings or ribs

4) "As long as it's bigger than ours" what? Aren't men supposed to have bigger butts since you know they have bigger frames and more muscle mass? I'm not really seeing how that would usually be the case
I'm not saying it's never the case but would you say those girls are unattractive because their butts are smaller than their boyfriends?
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[Helghast_kitty]

A little of topic, but i though i'd mention that i don't like rosy cheeks. I don't think i'm in the minority for this one either.

[nalaa]

@Helghast_kitty if you do in fact not find them attractive, which I find hard to believe you ARE in the minority
journals.plos.org/.../journal.pone.0017859
and appearetly women find rosy cheeks in men attractive as well

[Helghast_kitty]

these are what i think of when i here rosy cheeks
www.healthresource4u.com/.../Rosy-cheeks.jpg
www.madeinindia.net.au/.../ROSY-CHEEKS.jpg
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granted none of these women are unattractive, but I don't feel the rosy cheeks add to it. I do see your point with the study though.

[shadiamond]

Those are some really flat butts lol.

[angelling]

Rosy cheeks were an indication of good health which I guess is why people like them.

[Azara]

Lol everything you said as not caring were all qualified.

We don't care about this as long as you

We don't care about this as long as it's...

It's ok to do this just don't...

Obviously you are not aware what you personally do and do not care about. . In addition as far as this being about men's views, you your brithers and your friends are all drawn to each other bc of similarities. It in no way speaks for " men" .

Anyhow any wok worrying about thes things are going to worry about anything at all. So hearing this oesmt bother you won't help. These are crazy things to be worrying sbiit soemoeen else opinion over and to worry about this just means you don't whve solid self repeat wnd you worry period. end of story.

[TheDevilInside]

Why do I keep unintentionaly downvoting people I actuay agree with when I tap on "show more"? Grrrrr

[TheDevilInside]

This take is laughable.

1. Guy says "I prefer women without makeup".
--> what they do says " I prefer women with natural makeup, that it doesn't look like she's wearing makeup." Only very few guys can actually tell when a woman is genuinely makeup-free. Most guys are so fucking clueless.

4. We don't really care about the size of your butt

As long as it's bigger than ours and you don't have a manly figure.

--> so you DO care about the size of our butts. Don't be a hypocrite.

5. Men don't really care about stretch marks

As long as it is not as wide as your finget. Thin stretch marks are okay.

--> so you DO care about stretch marks. Don't be a hypocrite.

6. In what planet is hashtagging your own username cool?

[lumos]

See women, us men don't care as long as...
1. You're A Natural Beauty
2. You're Thin And Can Eat Whatever You Want Otherwise We Will Judge You For Not Taking The Salad
3. You Actually Text First, Because If You Don't, We Will Think You're Annoying As Fuck
4. Your Butt Is Round And Shapely And Big And Feminine And Nice And Smooth And...
5. The Stretch Marks Are Essentially Invisible

Now go feel better about yourselves, ladies! This man clearly knows how to cheer women up.

[Kirah]

That's bullshit. Women are far more picky than men.

[lumos]

@Kirah when did I ever say that women aren't? Sit down lol.

[TheSpartan]

Yep, all if that is definitely ideal--except the texting part. I don't care for texting people.

[Someguy17]

@lumos
1. Actually, I think most women look better without make-up. It's about liking the real you and not the you that you try to show everyone.
2. I don't give a damn what women eat. I like women that take care of themselves physically, and I take care of myself as well.
3. Texting is overrated. I'll make the moves, I don't need a lot of text. Things are just much more fun in person. Plus, texting rules are numerous and exhausting.
4. Not going to lie, I love a woman's ass. See number 2. If she's doing that then her ass will pretty much look great no matter the physique. And honestly, if I 'm on a date with a lady then I pretty much already like the way it looks.
5. Stretch marks are not really a turn off. We're all human and wear and tear naturally happens.

You seem to be judging women in the way women judge women. You'd be surprised if you got to be in a man's head for a day. It would probably be a huge ego boost.

[lumos]

@Someguy17 all of what I said was more or less based on what the take owner said. "Men don't care about stretch marks as long as they aren't too big", "men don't care about your ass as long as it's bigger than theirs", "what do you think would happen when [the makeup] is not on?" ( = he would think you look uglier unless you're a natural beauty).
Just saying, takeowner is a hypocrite and cares about most of the things he put on that list. He doesn't care only if the girl fits his personal preference.

[SilenRose]

Pretty much.

[Someguy17]

@lumos Fair enough. I understand his general thrust, but yeah, it definitely could have been worded better.

[lumos]

@Someguy17 yup. If this was stuff he really wouldn't care about, he wouldn't have added those "as long as..." explanations etc, because those just invalidate his entire argument. If these things are seriously something men don't care about, then there would be not buts, ifs or as long as'. That's what I'm trying to say.

[Jxpxtxr]

Someone finally said it!! 🙌

[PrincessTashaaaa]

OMG Preach!!!

[TheDevilInside]

Oopsie, didn't mean to downvote you, sorry!

[lumos]

@TheDevilInside it's ok haha... apparently I have 54 upvotes so I don't think I need any more :P

[blondfrog]

That's actually not true about the texting I hate texting period.

[Jxpxtxr]

Lol super funny how you're saying "I don't care about (filler) - Except from!! etc." or how "I don't mind (filler) - as long as!! etc." You do realise how ridiculous this makes you sound, right? 😂

[rjroy3]

Well of we're being honest.

1. I don't care about makeup and imperfect hair, buuut I do care that you put in some effort like do. Look presentable. Just don't have to look perfect

2. I don't care what you order on a date. I'm likely not paying for it anyways.

3. Yea. Don't care if you text first.

4. Not gonna lie, I do care about ass. She has to have one lol. Doesn't have to be massive, but shapely is a positive.

5. Yea, don't care about stretch marks. I do care about floppy loose skin.

[vishna]

Things men really don't care about.
And by not care about, I mean I you have to have a perfect complexion, your butt is bigger than another butt, you have a feminine figure, and your stretch marks are microscopic.

But we don't care, honestly.

[angelling]

So you don't care if it fits what you like but if it doesn't then you care. Like wanting a girl to have a bigger butt than yours invalidates saying you don't care about the size of her butt.

[Midnightbreeze]

Big butt without good morals or boring is a turn off if you want something serious.

[angelling]

But you claimed men don't care. I'm not believing it.

[LovelySerene]

I don't care if you like my makeup or not, I don't wear it for you

[Aquariusmystery]

Preach it!!!

[Lolomon]

I believe the makeup and eating part. BUT the butt part? Men salivate over women on intragram and celebs who have fake butts, but you guys call her sexy or a "bad b#tch. Stretch marks, I believe you guys don't care a bit but what if she has a lot of them like on her stomach , arms sides? and what if her medication causes her to have wide stretchmarks? It happens.

[Frost_Byt3]

Ok number for is just flat out wrong. I care, and I'm sure plenty of other guys do too.

But that being said, Just because i said i care about size, doesn't necessarily mean i want it to be big. In fact, there is such a thing as too big. If its too big, it'll just look fat and jiggly which isn't attractive. I like somewhat big, toned, round butts.

But this is turning into a completely differeny conversation so I'll just leave it at that. 😅

[Frost_Byt3]

Number four*

[Anonymous]

I agree with this take except the 'we think it makes guys appear nerdy or cheap when they text first.' I don't think that at all. I don't wear makeup nor do I spend half an hour or more on my hair. I don't have giant stretch marks of any of that stuff.

[Midnightbreeze]

Guess you'd be an interesting person then.

[annie_annie]

So, as long as we look naturaly perfect to you, we can do and make whatever we want.😂

[Sailormoonprincess]

Yay... i don't do any of those things anyway... truth be told. Make up actually costs tonnes of money... that i am not willing to spend... ever. Rather buy art gears

[Midnightbreeze]

Sound like a wise girl there

[ObviouslyBored]

Full of shit... Men LOVE makeup... every female a man has pointed out to me and said was hot had makeup on.
They go for hot bodies too... stop lying.

[Midnightbreeze]

So you're always gonna be fake? And disappoint the guy when he sees you without make up next time? That's hypocracy, cur

[ObviouslyBored]

No fuck twit... Every guy I've ever dated knows me without makeup. I only get dolled up after I know he appreciates my natural face.

[animeboy]

I totally hate makeup. I makes people look ugly and it looks like clay and paint with a bunch of bumps.

[Dipsy]

Makeup actually is like a disappointment.

[Frost_Byt3]

The way i see it is that i don't "hate" make up, i just don't get the point. If you are already hot, you don't need makeup. If your not hot, no amount of makeup will MAKE you hot. So really its totally unecessary for any girls (attractive or not) to use makeup.

The only time i really "hate" makeup, is when an ugly girl gets really good at applying natural looking makeup, because I'll feel decieved when she takes it off, and I'll probably leave.

[YourFutureEx]

What? You pointed finger at make-up? Last time I tried doing so, I received a lot of hate from feminists.

[confusedgirl17]

What about if your waist isn't supee defined?
I have kind of a wide ish waist because I have big ribs. Ugh

[PrincessTashaaaa]

Me too. And because my ribs are set close to my hips. So frustrating because there's nothing we can do about it!!!

[confusedgirl17]

I have that too !!!

my hips and ribs are super close so it looks like i have no waist. I have long legs tho bbut it actually makes me so sad and fristrates me

[Midnightbreeze]

I wouldn't care. Great personality is great.

[HookingSwan]

Hehe good take :)

Nd u r right

[Midnightbreeze]

Thanks girl watch out for part two.

[red324]

So when girls ask if their butt looks big, does that mean they want it too?

[Midnightbreeze]

@red324 Yes cause they believe that's what we want.

[red324]

Don't they know we want a small, but round and firm ass over a big one? Or at least I do.

[Midnightbreeze]

Red everyone has his taste

[Anonymous]

What some guys don't understand is that we can get stretch marks after child birth and also just growing in general. So if your girl ended up getting them it's not like you would just leave her for it