8 Signs He Deserves You (Page 2)

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Pregnancy, sure. But besides that, women don't put "much more" on the line.

[BeautifulMind59]

Well, you guys "just" work. You don't put much more on the line either. And most of you don't even do that.

[myTake Owner]

We do a lot more than you think. Being pregnant is hard, our bodies change for the child we give birth too, our names change, our hair changes, the way we act/ dress changes. We change more for men then men do for females.

[93stepsawayfromhome]

— "our bodies change for the child we give birth too"

I acknowledged that.

— "our names change"

I'm 100% against that. You don't have to change it either.

— "our hair changes"

This isn't exclusively female.

— "the way we act/dress changes"

Same. We can do this too.

— "We change more for men then men do for females"

First, you're comparing "men" to "females". Those are not opposites. "Woman" is one's gender, "female" is one's sex.
Second, that is sexist bullshit. Not all men are the same, just like not all women are the same.

[GoodDogNigel]

"his life."

He has to ask YOUR permission for how to live HIS life?

Pfft.

[samhradh_leannan]

It's beneficial to consult your significant other about important life decisions or decisions that might affect your relationship in some way. It's impossible to have a serious relationship with someone without involving them in your life decisions on some level. Whether you want to consider their feelings or just ask for their advice, it's nice to involve them. But that doesn't mean you have to ask their "permission" to do what you want or always do whatever they tell you to. If that's how it sounds to you, you either aren't ready for a serious commitment or you're with the wrong person.

[MysteriousFlower]

I needed some reminders like that in your take, I do share those views and it's true.

[Anonymous]

Numbers 3 and 4 seem to contradict each other, and # 7 is totally unrealistic for 99% of men. Aside from that, this is a great take.

Caveat: many women will not get a man who meets all these requirements, and many women are not worthy of one.

[MisterDude007]

I have no problem being all those thong for my girl :)

[PT1911]

I would not have used a meme from American psycho for this take

[thetundrawolf]

Laughing so hard right now. Thank you.

[DiegoO]

I believe all your 8 points should be reciprocal. When there is not a lot of reciprocity going on there can be trouble afterwards in a relationship.

[Toad-1]

You know number 3 and 4 contradict each other? Surprise her with dates but also make plans with her? Which one is it?

[thewanderingme]

both.

[Anonymous]

Lol I'm the one who does all of these things and put in all the effort... depressing.

[Anonymous]

I'm curious how many girls would actually do these things... if you're going to talk about deserving "what you give" then I think you should.

[Anonymous]

And once again, the stereotype that men must be protectors rears its head again. I guess submissive guys can go take a hike? Thanks for confirming it.

[TOKTOK]

Ok i can do all these, but what do you girls bring on the table? Sex? but doesn't it goes both ways?

[myTake Owner]

If you read this post carefully I also stated " Also this can go both ways so men take notes please". Meaning that this can also be if she deserves you too. If she can't do certain things than those are indicators that she doesn't deserve you.

[Lonewolf_1296]

This is so one sided and selfish.

[Lonewolf_1296]

bahahaha, 4 pink down votes. Of course.

[SlightlyCrazy]

All so true. Feel done take

[SlightlyCrazy]

Well done take

[Anonymous]

Great Take, I agree :)

[RalphBlack]

I deserve her