And if she touches you often, you touch her often. Allways sit together wit much bodycontact. You even hold her hands and her in your arms. Stroke her arms and her back and still get friendzoned? Then you (me) are completely fucked up, I guess? :-(
@0112358 she said that's what we are, just friends, when i proposed her, well yes i guess, and i think i am the greatest relationship material out there, but she doesn't.
@Giacomanzo Why would she sext with him if she thinks he's gay? She probably thinks you're too immature to be in a relationship with but she finds you attractive enough to have sex with. I feel that way about people sometimes too, although I'm usually on "her" side of it.
You forgot to add when she uses you as an emotional tamp on to the list.
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Friend zone aka when I need something you can do for me zone. And that is why I don't have a lot of females hanging around me because I won't put up with people using me and they know it.
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If I'm not interested I'm not even going to try to keep the conversation going. is it rude? haha
@Lostsoulman That often happens to me too and it's annoying because I can't tell what they want. I think those types of people are simply bad conversationalists.
@frozenhorizon Do you think a guy is in the friendzone when the girl hangs out with him one on one often? Like they go out and hang out just the two of them?
@NonCreativeUsername if you not fucking her after a month, move along. That's my deal terms. You can maybe have longer periods, but make a black and white time limit. Don't wait and see... that's where all nice guys mess up. tell her: relationship or not. If not, still be her friend but use your energy and time finding somebody else. You can always contact your friend and tell her of the new girl you met. If she is happy: she is your friend. If she feels like you are gloating, she was using you to begin with.
Yeaaa... I'm 17 so I'm really trying to get laid right now... I was just wondering even if she lived an hour away and she still made the effort to see me every weekend, would there be a chance I was friendzoned? We've only been talking for a month too so...
@NonCreativeUsername sounds like she likes you but now you have to start escalating. Have you kissed her yet? If not, it's time you asked her whats happening. Where do you stand. Just tell her you like her and was wondering if she would go on a dinner date with you. then have fun and kiss her that night. If she says no, or is flaky. Then you in the friend zone already. Then you must say that you will always be her friend but you are going out to look for a relationship more than that.
Sheer luck. But generally if you fall out of touch for a period of at least a few years, and then have some reunion later on, you can possibly escape the friend zone since it will have been like your relationship with that person reset.
Generally you were in it from the first day you met her. It's not because you did something wrong - generally. It's that she isn't attracted to you.
Imagine some girl you find physically unattractive but you get along great. And you don't want to date her and she wonders what she did wrong. Nothing. She just needs to be hotter.
So how could out get out of the friend zone? Become much hotter. But you would almost need to go from 'not in her league' to 'out of her league' to shift her perception.
So forget it basically.
If you happen to magically get out of it, she will throw herself at you. So don't worry about trying again.
Two ways only: 1) fuck her hotter friend and let her know about it. It's amazing how many women do a 180 when they see you do this. I find a really good way to change a girls mind is to directly cut her off. 2) you leave the friend zone. Invest time going for other women. Thats the most obvious route (but if you can fuck her friend, do that ha ha)
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Why do these Mytakes seem to be all about men being friend zoned?
I've friend zoned plenty of women.
Dogs friendshipzone everyone. Those assholes🐩🐾🐕
Kill all dogs I guess.
And if she touches you often, you touch her often. Allways sit together wit much bodycontact. You even hold her hands and her in your arms. Stroke her arms and her back and still get friendzoned? Then you (me) are completely fucked up, I guess? :-(
We even wished 'good night' to eachother
My best friend sent me nudes, sexted, and man what not, and in the end, friendzones me bc i am younger than her by a few years wow. .
I think that's not quite friendzone.
She doesn't see you as just s friend.
She just doesn't see you as relationshop material.
She would probably hook up with you in the roght situation. That's not friendzone.
@0112358 she said that's what we are, just friends, when i proposed her, well yes i guess, and i think i am the greatest relationship material out there, but she doesn't.
What she says is she's not dating you.
Anyway of older female friends are sexting with you, things look good for your future lol
@0112358 haha well maybe she could not hide her temptation to sext and send nudes, adventurous girl!
@0112358 Or maybe she thinks he's gay.
@Giacomanzo Why would she sext with him if she thinks he's gay?
She probably thinks you're too immature to be in a relationship with but she finds you attractive enough to have sex with. I feel that way about people sometimes too, although I'm usually on "her" side of it.
@frozenhorizon I honestly don't know why people sext in general, actually.
@Giacomanzo Me either, it's boring hahaha.
You forgot to add when she uses you as an emotional tamp on to the list.
Friend zone aka when I need something you can do for me zone. And that is why I don't have a lot of females hanging around me because I won't put up with people using me and they know it.
If I'm not interested I'm not even going to try to keep the conversation going. is it rude? haha
That means that you can't even have any guy friends, ever...
Okay, question for you... Do you ever message a go, or start a conversation then feel uninterested?
This happens to me all the time, a girl Superlikes me, message me then I reply... then he responses are one word and she trys killing it...
and I don't chase, so I say one word back, and then she starts it up again... does she just love the chase?
Friendzone happens when a guy is your friend so you are chatting to him anyway.
@Lostsoulman That often happens to me too and it's annoying because I can't tell what they want. I think those types of people are simply bad conversationalists.
@frozenhorizon Do you think a guy is in the friendzone when the girl hangs out with him one on one often? Like they go out and hang out just the two of them?
@NonCreativeUsername Not necessarily... I'm not friendship zone king though :P
@NonCreativeUsername if you not fucking her after a month, move along. That's my deal terms. You can maybe have longer periods, but make a black and white time limit. Don't wait and see... that's where all nice guys mess up. tell her: relationship or not. If not, still be her friend but use your energy and time finding somebody else. You can always contact your friend and tell her of the new girl you met. If she is happy: she is your friend. If she feels like you are gloating, she was using you to begin with.
Yeaaa... I'm 17 so I'm really trying to get laid right now... I was just wondering even if she lived an hour away and she still made the effort to see me every weekend, would there be a chance I was friendzoned?
We've only been talking for a month too so...
@NonCreativeUsername sounds like she likes you but now you have to start escalating. Have you kissed her yet? If not, it's time you asked her whats happening. Where do you stand. Just tell her you like her and was wondering if she would go on a dinner date with you. then have fun and kiss her that night. If she says no, or is flaky. Then you in the friend zone already. Then you must say that you will always be her friend but you are going out to look for a relationship more than that.
Damn that sucks but damn those memes are savage af
How does one get out of such "friend zones?"
Sheer luck. But generally if you fall out of touch for a period of at least a few years, and then have some reunion later on, you can possibly escape the friend zone since it will have been like your relationship with that person reset.
Generally you were in it from the first day you met her. It's not because you did something wrong - generally. It's that she isn't attracted to you.
Imagine some girl you find physically unattractive but you get along great. And you don't want to date her and she wonders what she did wrong. Nothing. She just needs to be hotter.
So how could out get out of the friend zone? Become much hotter. But you would almost need to go from 'not in her league' to 'out of her league' to shift her perception.
So forget it basically.
If you happen to magically get out of it, she will throw herself at you. So don't worry about trying again.
@0112358 oh man i wish life was more fair
@0112358 if you had posted this on a question of mine I'd have given you MHO for that. Thanks
Two ways only: 1) fuck her hotter friend and let her know about it. It's amazing how many women do a 180 when they see you do this. I find a really good way to change a girls mind is to directly cut her off. 2) you leave the friend zone. Invest time going for other women. Thats the most obvious route (but if you can fuck her friend, do that ha ha)
@JRICHARDS1996 lol
Lol good take!
Lol was fun. Thanks man.
i feel like someone kicking on my heart...
I laughed. I like that.