Dealing With Relationship Problems (Part 1)

[akanetuk]

Relationship problems arises when couples fail to do the right thing, and most couples find themselves completely unprepared to handle the conflicts and problems that slowly begin to set in. Lacking the adequate knowledge of what the problem and solution are, they become conscious of a mounting sense of frustration and hurt and a deepening sense of unrest over their loss of intimacy and understanding. As their relationship becomes overwhelmed with the feelings of disappointment, the couple begin to think their relationship is a mistake. As the problem continues, the feelings of trust, the sense of well-being, the illusion of oneness, are shattered, and they lose their intimate connection.

In your relationship journey, don’t give up when you hit a bump. Find a way to work it through. It is so easy to react to problems, by avoiding or running away from the problematic conditions. But there is a reward for all those who persevere to the end. One does not end an important journey simply because he has a flat tire, or because his car ran into a ditch. The best application is to look for a way to solve the problem and continue the journey. Many couple throw away a good relationship because of one or two moments of problem, they think they don’t love each other anymore. It is not often that bad! Just keep working out. Learn to pick your battles, some fights are not even worth the trouble. And remember if it is broken: fix it, don’t throw away. It is not everything you should make an issue of, some things are just worth overlooking unless sin. In relationship everything should be weighed and balanced, before embarking on it, decide how much of problem an issue is before taking it up.

The key to cultivating marital fulfillment and preventing marital failure is for couple to regulate and replace their negative emotions, while looking for ways to remove dysfunctional and unhelpful behaviors. Divorce is a very hurtful experience, it is not an experience for the faint hearted, so I urge my readers not to tread this road, avoid it by all means because it leaves emotional scars that may take a long time to heal. For every negative, there is a positive, for every problem, the Almighty has provided a solution but the solution is always available through Him.

Dealing With Relationship Problems (Part 2)

[mooky06]

"sense of frustration and hurt and a deepening sense of unrest over their loss of intimacy and understanding"

I feel like I can relate to the emotions above and I'm shocked (no offence) how accurate that is actually. Great MyTake.