The Art Of Walking Away

[Anonymous]

We all found ourselves in this situation at some point in our lives. Someone that makes us feel not good enough of his attention. Not worthy of his time. The solution to an outsider seems easy, just leave them. But it doesn't work like that in the real world.

People will stay in dysfunctional relationships for this and that and the other reason.

What i have learned after been there myself is that you need to

walk away , from whatever doesn't make you happy and is not what you need. There is someone else out there that will give you what you deserve

What makes a relationship good?

**Relationships should be give and take. Is not just give or just take, if you find yourselves in one sided situations then is time to start thinking about it

**We all need someone to be there for us, is not all about sex or having fun

**We are different people with equal part in that relationship. None is better or worse we are both equal parts of this

** Respect each other, respect each others space and needs but same time understand that you have to be present in that relationship

The list will be long if i list everything. But bottom line is that ,

At the end of the day we just need someone to walk besides us , to makes us feel happy and wanted and tell us that everything will be ok even in the darkest of times

Why people stay in unhappy relationships?

This will be a long list. Many different reasons, here are some of them

**Inexperience as to what to expect. Silly as it sounds few of us can not tell good from bad relationship until we have been through few and can see the difference

**Low self esteem/ insecurity often fueled by the SO. "Who else will have me, i am lucky i have him/her i ask no more "attitude is a no no

**Your partner makes you feel as you are needy/crazy to ask for more. Dont allow this. If you need more form a relationship and they can not give it to you then someone else will

**Fear to be alone, better stay with him/her than be alone

**You stayed in a bad relationship for so long that you lost sense that is bad, it became normal in your eyes

so what do i do now?

STEP 1

Recognize when the relationship is not good. Don't lie to yourselves. See it for what it is because if you keep making excuses you will just stay in this situation forever

STEP 2

Try to resolve it. You will have to tell to the other person what the problem is they are not mind readers. Sometimes this will help but i am afraid most of the times it won't change much.

But you will know that you tried

if you made the effort to talk about it and nothing has changed is time to go to step 3

STEP 3

Walk away , no drama, turn your back and walk away

STEP 4

Never look back. There will be dark times at start. Times when you will feel fear, uncertainty if you made the right decision , you maybe even think that you made a mistake. Don't worry you haven't .

If that relationship was good you wouldn't be so unhappy in it. Do never think to compromise your happiness in order to to satisfy someone elses inability to give himself/herself in the relationship

STEP 5

Congratulations , you made it to the other side :)

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[Guy13]

Great job.. well thought out

[HookingSwan]

Amazing Take

[Anonymous]

so true, if you looks back it is hard to go